Exponental: The norms is that u marry a lady in her church irrespective of ur denomination. If d family of a lady agrees d marriage takes place in d guy's church, it's either d lady is pregnant n d lady's church wont join them or they've sold themselves out. Even if a christian guy marries an alhaja, nikkai will done thereafter seek church's blessing.

Exponental: The norms is that u marry a lady in her church irrespective of ur denomination. If d family of a lady agrees d marriage takes place in d guy's church, it's either d lady is pregnant n d lady's church wont join them or they've sold themselves out. Even if a christian guy marries an alhaja, nikkai will done thereafter seek church's blessing.

Mboi:

So it means that all those parents that their daughter weds in the man's church, have sold themselves out? If I may ask; what do you mean by selling themselves out?
Is it a sin that a girl weds in the mans's church?
Also what if the man's church refuses to wed them too as the girl is pregnant, they'll wed in the mans sitting room abi?

chuksbogus: listen,it is neva d norm ok.its some churches dat indoctrinates their memners and d fanatical one will swallow it hook and sinker.listen i am a penticostal and my wife was a catholic,infact they have 2 Rev sisters and a Fr in their family so the parents came up with dat issue i told them dat they cant tell me where to wed. My wife told them dat she is ready to wed in my own church dat am d man. Listen dat ur Gf should neva give u any condition on which she will marry u. To me iys show wat dat girl is capable of doing wen we finaly get married.where were her male church members b4 u decided to marry her.she shld stsy there and marry her pastor

Kirinwa: WTF! A woman who has already started such agitation before marriage is bad luck.Follow your man or remain single for life!! Like they have a choice.

carmelion: Talking about white wedding,I want to tell you guys that it is just a fun fair.Though I would still want to wear my Cinderella gown but couples should stop making trivial issues come in between them.Yes i said that.

When a man performs all the traditional rites,he is your rightful husband.He has already pulled his people to your side during the trad,whats the big deal in pulling your own people to his church.or wont you follow him to his church after marriage?.

Personally for me,I would want to wed in my husband's church.When you accept to marry someone,you should accept everything thing about them.

Oldboy1:
My cousin's girl friend is insisting that my cousin must agree to wed her in her church before she agrees to marry him and probably follow him to his church.
My cousin is an anglican while the babe attends Christ Embassy.The lady is having the argument that a man marries the wife in her church and then take her to his church if he loves her and also that is how it's written in the bible. My cousin is saying he has to do his wedding in the church he attends, that if the girl is serious and really wants to marry him, she will not be giving him conditions.
I now want to ask, what is wrong with people and church these days? I know it's mainly catholics that will insist that a man who wants to marry their daughter and it's not a catholic must have his wedding in catholic church after which the girl will start attending the man's church. Some after wedding them in catholic church will refuse to attend the man's church still. Other churches like anglican church don't do that. I know a friend that attends catholic and married a lady from Redeem and wedded her in catholic church.
So does it mean that men who do not wed in their wives church before taking her to his church commit sin?

Oldboy1:
My cousin's girl friend is insisting that my cousin must agree to wed her in her church before she agrees to marry him and probably follow him to his church.
My cousin is an anglican while the babe attends Christ Embassy.The lady is having the argument that a man marries the wife in her church and then take her to his church if he loves her and also that is how it's written in the bible. My cousin is saying he has to do his wedding in the church he attends, that if the girl is serious and really wants to marry him, she will not be giving him conditions.
I now want to ask, what is wrong with people and church these days? I know it's mainly catholics that will insist that a man who wants to marry their daughter and it's not a catholic must have his wedding in catholic church after which the girl will start attending the man's church. Some after wedding them in catholic church will refuse to attend the man's church still. Other churches like anglican church don't do that. I know a friend that attends catholic and married a lady from Redeem and wedded her in catholic church.
So does it mean that men who do not wed in their wives church before taking her to his church commit sin?

Fahvvy:
Omorr....
This thing shouldn't be an issue na ...

Anywhere that the family agrees to marry, I'm game, no big deal ...

However the ultimatum part on the side of the female is where I have a problem ...

"If we don't do the wedding in my church I can't marry you", what sort of talk is this?? No single room for a negotiation ...

I believe that we should seat down and discuss matters... We should both agree to disagree and re-agree ...

And any one that gives me this sort of ultimatum "my way or the high way" is a goner ...

Mboi:


So it means that all those parents that their daughter weds in the man's church, have sold themselves out? If I may ask; what do you mean by selling themselves out?
Is it a sin that a girl weds in the mans's church?
Also what if the man's church refuses to wed them too as the girl is pregnant, they'll wed in the mans sitting room abi?

Oldboy1:
My cousin's girl friend is insisting that my cousin must agree to wed her in her church before she agrees to marry him and probably follow him to his church.
My cousin is an anglican while the babe attends Christ Embassy.The lady is having the argument that a man marries the wife in her church and then take her to his church if he loves her and also that is how it's written in the bible. My cousin is saying he has to do his wedding in the church he attends, that if the girl is serious and really wants to marry him, she will not be giving him conditions.
I now want to ask, what is wrong with people and church these days? I know it's mainly catholics that will insist that a man who wants to marry their daughter and it's not a catholic must have his wedding in catholic church after which the girl will start attending the man's church. Some after wedding them in catholic church will refuse to attend the man's church still. Other churches like anglican church don't do that. I know a friend that attends catholic and married a lady from Redeem and wedded her in catholic church.
So does it mean that men who do not wed in their wives church before taking her to his church commit sin?

Kalkulate:
Lalasticlala Mynd44 is ishilove mukina2....pls pls pls push this to front page. Having this Problem with my fiance

Exponental:


when d bride's family cannot take a stand.......it's a sell out!
why shld a family allow their daughter marry in d guy's church....do u do traditional wedding in d groom's house? Was it d bride's family dat visited during introduction b4 marriage?
The bride remains d host 4 d intro, engagement n churching! U dont necessarily have 2 do d wedding in d same church u attend, it could be dat same denomination in another location or as agreed by d family.
If u subject urself 2 d groom's church, it means, u dont av an integrity from where u come from.
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Church blessing is totally different from wedding.

chymeze:

Okay I now understand. For her to make this statement means she ultimately may not love you because I can't understand how choice of wedding venue should stop her from marrying someone who she should love beyond church venue

andyanders:
She is right in what she is saying. That is the right thing for him to do.Go and marry the lady in her Church and now take her to his own church.

At this point you people are still arguing what is right. Hope this marriage will not go down the drain as your cousin have stated claiming right.Na waoooooooooo

remecy:
Interesting comments. Is appropriate for the lady to wed in her church because that is the last respect you accord to her as a single lady so every man must honour that.
On the otherhand she can get married in any church of their choice only if she is a church hopper.

carmelion:
Talking about white wedding,I want to tell you guys that it is just a fun fair.Though I would still want to wear my Cinderella gown but couples should stop making trivial issues come in between them.Yes i said that.

When a man performs all the traditional rites,he is your rightful husband.He has already pulled his people to your side during the trad,whats the big deal in pulling your own people to his church.or wont you follow him to his church after marriage?.

Personally for me,I would want to wed in my husband's church.When you accept to marry someone,you should accept everything about them.