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OP,kidnap her!

She couldn't get off work = She's either busy for real or not interested in you.

Stop worrying about one girl, have fun and meet other people so you don't end up hurting yourself. Better still, make some money and Nigerian girls will be after you

Why did you fix a date the day you got her number? Don't you think you're rushing things? Just exercise a reasonable patience and if she remains uncooperative, then you can leave her alone.

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nice4life:
How am I suppose to get Nigerian girls since I don't live there?I am not worrying myself she just happen to be the girl am interested in among many have met.

Well it depends on where you live.

Sometimes the people we're interested in ain't gonna be interested in us. In that case, you wanna just move on and try till you find a match. If you keep trying with her, you're only gonna end up hurt.I agree with djeezy, you went too fast after you got her number even though you've seen her a few times. Next time, don't show her you're desperate to see her even though you know you are. Get her # but don't call immediately, make her wonder, place a value on yourself as well.

^hmmmm...Professional asewo! Nice one.

Idowuogbo: ^hmmmm...Professional asewo! Nice one.

Op abi me?

2legit2qwt:
Op abi me?

U!!!!!!!

Idowuogbo:
U!!!!!!!

I learned from you jo idowu, you're one of my customers

Women aя̩̥̊ε̲̣̣̣̥ just too complicated. If Ÿ̲̣̣̣̥ø̲̣̣̥u̶̲̥̅̊ Cƣƪ her, she'll say Ÿ̲̣̣̣̥ø̲̣̣̥u̶̲̥̅̊ bug her, if Ÿ̲̣̣̣̥ø̲̣̣̥u̶̲̥̅̊ don't she'll say Ÿ̲̣̣̣̥ø̲̣̣̥u̶̲̥̅̊ aint taking her seriously. Abeg OP, do am as e reach Ūя̲̅ belle, ¢α̣π'†̥ shout

2legit2qwt: She couldn't get off work = She's either busy for real or not interested in you.

Stop worrying about one girl, have fun and meet other people so you don't end up hurting yourself. Better still, make some money and Nigerian girls will be after you

its obvious that guys of nw a days ve concluded that all naija girls are money fricked, dear, i belt you there are still veery many of them who do not give a damn.

Hmmmm

Ladies like it slow and steady when it comes to relationship.

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nice4life:

How slow ? I don't sending just one SMS or call a day to a girl you are interested in can be considered too fast, u think so?

Did you think she might want to be just friends before going dates?

Lol

Idowuogbo: ^hmmmm...Professional asewo! Nice one.

nice4life: My fellow NL, there is these Akata babe that I manage to get her number from her however she kind of proving hard to get.I fix a date the first day I got the number but she later complained that she couldn't get off from work.She takes a while to reply my sms. I dont know if these are signs thats she's not interested. What do you think guys?

I don't think u should contact her again, give her an opportunity 2 desire n want u..

my advice for the OP is to delete her number.
When you struggle to begin a relationship, you will definitely struggle to maintain it. If she's to busy to pick your calls or reply missed calls and sms then she's prolly not into you and is too steupid to realize that she's wasting your time by stalling you.
calling a lady the same day you got the number is NOT WRONG or desperate (i wonder who makes these rules?),it infact puts momentum on things. dude, move on to the next one and to next one till you cant move no more.

kimberluge: OP,kidnap her!

LWKMD

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nice4life: My fellow NL, there is these Akata babe that I manage to get her number from her however she kind of proving hard to get.I fix a date the first day I got the number but she later complained that she couldn't get off from work.She takes a while to reply my sms. I dont know if these are signs thats she's not interested. What do you think guys?

You don show am your ATM card? People say it works like magic!

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Well, maybe its different in Nigeria, but over here getting a number doesn't mean anything. It is not proof that a girl is interested so most times i get a number i don't even text unless i'm absolutely sure its worth my while.

Don't waste your time bro. Btw next time don't set up the date on the same day, that is highly irregular.

I would waste no time in deleting her number on my fone while listening to "No time" by May D, Tillaman and Skales

depends on a lot of things but this is kinda elementary..its not even complicated romance logic its just basic common sense. in the early stages of a relationship you must give her a bit of space... it must take tym before yu ask for her number and that only after yu are reasonably sure that she myt be interested in yu, time before yu eventually contact her and the date must be made to look like a casual hangout. thats if yu are dealing with a serious minded girl anyway.

So now she replied huh? Good for you.

The secret to a SOLID phone number is a good initial interaction. Most girls will give their number to even a beggar.

A number doesn't mean sh*t.

She could give it to you to get you off her back at that point in time. To get a little 'validation' from you calling and her blanking your calls and sms - ala "am still hot and lots of guys just dey worry me". Or AT THAT VERY MOMENT she gave you her number, she might have every intention of continuing the interaction but...you know girls.

When you call, she will most likely not be in the same 'mood' as she was when you met.

Meeting complete strangers is uncomfortable for most people - chics included. Why would she RISK all the awkward situations that could arise from going out to meet you? Why would she stress herself to come out and see you? Afterall another attractive guy would stop her tomorrow and take her number.

instead of taking her number under 5 seconds. Try to have a good interaction and number will be a non-issue. BTW, you can't fvck a phone number too.