A few months back, i met a lady
on a social networking site, she
is a Pharmaceutical student in
one of the Universities in the
South-South. We got talking,
trying to psych up each other's
intellectual prowess. i discovered
she is a very good
communicator, well read and
highly versatile in almost every
topic (politics, sports, social
events, religion etc). She knew a
bit about almost everything, and i
too, am also an all rounder. So
we took a liking to each other.
With each passing day, as
expected, the issue of s*ex came
up, i told her that i can never put
pressure on a woman for s*ex
on a first date, no matter how
much pressed i am. I'd rather
suffer in silence than do that. She
said it's a lie, all men are the
same, they appear nice and cute
on the outside, but the moment a
woman come into their life, the
demon in them come out. I told
her, am different, that the
moment am focused on
something, am focused, and
unless the lady makes me believe
she wants s*ex, i'll never ask her
for it (on a first date). We both
laughed and forgot the issue.
Just last week, i was sent on a
strategic training session in her
State, and i called her on Friday
evening, after classes. She came
to my hotel, we hugged, laughed,
and said all sorts of nice things
to each other (being the first
time we're meeting), and we
decided to spend the cool
evening in a romantic resort. At
about 8pm, when it was time to
go, i called a cab to take her to
her hostel and then take me back
to my hotel. She told the cab
driver to take us to my hotel first,
that she'll pick a cab from there
back to her hostel. I agreed. We
got to the hotel and she changed
her mind, said she would spend
the night and go back early
Saturday. I was curious, but didnt
argue, we both watched
SkyNews till about 10pm and
decided it was time to sleep, she
went to take her bath while i
went downstairs to get a
recharge card. When i came back,
i saw her wearing one of the
sexiest, silky pacific-blue lingerie,
she was arranging her hair in
the bed mirror, immediately, i
knew i was in for a huge test, so
i complimented her outfit, got my
blanket out and made to sleep on
the couch. She looked at me with
the side of her eyes, mumbled
some incoherent words and got
into the bed. My mind was heavy
and i couldn't sleep. After a while,
i heard her faint snoring and
immediately knew she has slept,
so i forced myself to sleep too.
Early the next morning, she woke
up with a chip on her shoulders,
i greeted her, she brushed it
aside, she made to the bathroom,
brushed, took her bath, and in
less than 15mins, she was on the
elevator going back to her hostel.
I was shocked, dumbfounded
and too scared to even follow
her, i tried to BB her, she has
deleted me, i called, she wouldnt
take my calls. I came back to
Lagos yesterday, still tried calling
with the office line, as soon as
she hears my voice, she'll drop
the call.
So guys, thats my story. Where
did i go wrong? I think am
attracted to her as much as she
is to me. Matured responses
would be highly appreciated.
Many thanks

Well if this is true, then u r a real matured guy
U shld ve known since wen she said she will spend d nite. If I was d 1, I wld ve slept on d same bed wif her n see wot apens.

Most girls of nowadays dnt want guys to take it cool

Tanx bro...never saw anything wrong in what I did...I belived that it would be so ungentlemanly if I take advantage of her that night....I now belive in what they say that girls love the bad boys and those ones who lie to dem just to impress them

what a story, subscribing to future comments.

if you had accepted the invitation, or maybe taken advantage of her,
i bet you wld be the one regretting not her
so whatever her reason of snubbing you,
look on the bright side.. maybe there was a bet to seduce you
or worst still, she is spreading the virus

.. no mattar what, its always better safe than sorry....

^^^Didn't you guys get through the frontpage before reaching this section and thread?

There's a topic already like this, exactly like this word for word titled 'where did I go wrong?'

so its more like a story gone viral and two people claimed it already on here. Nairaland is so full of fake mofos.

Dygeasy: ^^^Didn't you guys get through the frontpage before reaching this section and thread?

There's a topic already like this, exactly like this word for word titled 'where did I go wrong?'

so its more like a story gone viral and two people claimed it already on here. Nairaland is so full of fake mofos.

I wonder oh I was about to say same thing the op even de claim like say na him it happen to

You were in a situation and you kept your words. You did not let your values fall as you stuck with them and did not let you third do your thinking for you. If she has a problem with that, she can go sky dive without a parachuts

uniqueren: if you had accepted the invitation, or maybe taken advantage of her,
i bet you wld be the one regretting not her
so whatever her reason of snubbing you,
look on the bright side.. maybe there was a bet to seduce you
or worst still, she is spreading the virus

.. no mattar what, its always better safe than sorry....

tanx bro..quite agree with u there

[color=#006600][/color]U did d right thing, just try n stoping n move on with ur life

mentorken05: tanx bro..quite agree with u there

Stop claiming it happen to u if u can decieve odas 2 believe ur story not me cus b4 u copy and paste this story its already on frontpage

Me I no believe this story o.