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My 13 Yr Old Brother Has A Girlfriend by Aizebioje(m): 8:00pm On Mar 29, 2013 |
Just found out that my 13yr old brother has a girlfriend. He's just in JSS3 and I don't think it's appropriate. I'm 19 and in my 200lvl currently working on getting my first girlfriend. I don't know if to tell my parents or... I'm just confused. This isn't the sort of thing he should be getting involved in. He's barely struggling academically and I know what premature relationships did to my friends back then! I NEED SOME SOLID ADVICE |
Re: My 13 Yr Old Brother Has A Girlfriend by Adurangba(f): 8:05pm On Mar 29, 2013 |
he is way behind time, his mates do it at 12. 1 Like |
Re: My 13 Yr Old Brother Has A Girlfriend by Aizebioje(m): 8:10pm On Mar 29, 2013 |
Doesn't make it right! |
Re: My 13 Yr Old Brother Has A Girlfriend by MrCork17: 8:20pm On Mar 29, 2013 |
Aizebioje: Just found out that my 13yr old brother has a girlfriend. He's just in JSS3 and I don't think it's appropriate. ..is she Nigerian? |
Re: My 13 Yr Old Brother Has A Girlfriend by Aizebioje(m): 8:31pm On Mar 29, 2013 |
Mr..Cork:In the same class with him |
Re: My 13 Yr Old Brother Has A Girlfriend by Imprida(f): 8:48pm On Mar 29, 2013 |
@op call him and talk to him about what he is getting involved with explain to him and you dont have to tell your parents about it |
Re: My 13 Yr Old Brother Has A Girlfriend by MrCork17: 8:58pm On Mar 29, 2013 |
Aizebioje: ...bro..if she Nigerian, she a mini gold digger..drive her away |
Re: My 13 Yr Old Brother Has A Girlfriend by Imprida(f): 9:02pm On Mar 29, 2013 |
Mr..Cork:dont listen to him |
Re: My 13 Yr Old Brother Has A Girlfriend by eddy1977(m): 9:12pm On Mar 29, 2013 |
Keep your big nose out of his business. |
Re: My 13 Yr Old Brother Has A Girlfriend by Godmother(f): 9:21pm On Mar 29, 2013 |
Na wa oh. At 13 what does he need a girlfriend for? Lol |
Re: My 13 Yr Old Brother Has A Girlfriend by eddy1977(m): 9:42pm On Mar 29, 2013 |
Godmother: Na wa oh. At 13 what does he need a girlfriend for? Lol For companionship 1 Like |
Re: My 13 Yr Old Brother Has A Girlfriend by andyanders: 9:45pm On Mar 29, 2013 |
Adura_ngba: he is way behind time, his mates do it at 12. You are a wicked and wayward person for your comment. |
Re: My 13 Yr Old Brother Has A Girlfriend by MrCork17: 10:04pm On Mar 29, 2013 |
andyanders: brother calm down...the babe is a mini gold digger! |
Re: My 13 Yr Old Brother Has A Girlfriend by OCTAVO: 10:10pm On Mar 29, 2013 |
Re: My 13 Yr Old Brother Has A Girlfriend by CNN80: 10:27pm On Mar 29, 2013 |
He's 13 and you are asking what to do. Apparently, you don't know how to spank or scare the living daylights out of him, abi? |
Re: My 13 Yr Old Brother Has A Girlfriend by Adufaye(m): 10:37pm On Mar 29, 2013 |
Guy d best u cn do is 2 advice him abt sex,datin a gal at his age is nt bad,it hapuns in many country,sumtimes a gal can make u pas exam,bcus u wanna imprex her..... Ur broda get homones n he tin dy stand evry mornin,jst tel him nt 2 go 2 far sha 1 Like |
Re: My 13 Yr Old Brother Has A Girlfriend by Nobody: 3:13am On Mar 30, 2013 |
Since he's started already, bet it with me, der's nothing you can do about it! If you punish him, he'll hate you for it and start hiding his runz from you. Best thing is to let him be open to you and just chip in a word or two about the disadvantages once in a while. The fact that you're just about to get your own girlfriend at 19 doesn't mean your siblings would do same! He's a teenager and you have to understand that! 1 Like |
Re: My 13 Yr Old Brother Has A Girlfriend by Nobody: 3:45am On Mar 30, 2013 |
OP: let not your heart be troubled, you'll soon find the cassava in your cassava bread (girlfriend). |
Re: My 13 Yr Old Brother Has A Girlfriend by Nobody: 4:02am On Mar 30, 2013 |
At his age, he's too young to have a girlfriend. What you should do next is tell your parents about it. Just because he won't tell them doesn't mean you shouldn't. He's underage and if he's doing something you don't think is right, you should involve your parents. If he gets the girl pregnant or even catches something, that would be an unfortunate situation. Once you tell your parents, you can let them handle it thereon. Yup, tell them; they need to know. |
Re: My 13 Yr Old Brother Has A Girlfriend by OkikiOluwa1(m): 5:21am On Mar 30, 2013 |
He's gonna lose concentration on his studies. Rmber he's abt 2 write d JSCE. Tell ur parent abt it. |
Re: My 13 Yr Old Brother Has A Girlfriend by Popowaa: 5:34am On Mar 30, 2013 |
For praying Godmother: Na wa oh. At 13 what does he need a girlfriend for? Lol |
Re: My 13 Yr Old Brother Has A Girlfriend by Popowaa: 5:34am On Mar 30, 2013 |
Killjoy Okiki_Oluwa: He's gonna lose concentration on his studies. Rmber he's abt 2 write d JSCE. |
Re: My 13 Yr Old Brother Has A Girlfriend by Mynd44: 5:55am On Mar 30, 2013 |
It is time that kid learns about what sex is about if he has not being taught yet. What is the big deal in having a GF at that age? What he should not do is have sex |
Re: My 13 Yr Old Brother Has A Girlfriend by Nobody: 11:48am On Mar 30, 2013 |
Abeg free the sharp boy jare |
Re: My 13 Yr Old Brother Has A Girlfriend by Nobody: 12:26pm On Mar 30, 2013 |
Imprida: dont listen to himHe has to listen to him. |
Re: My 13 Yr Old Brother Has A Girlfriend by ikechukz(m): 12:55pm On Mar 30, 2013 |
@Op are you jealous? Pls answer. |
Re: My 13 Yr Old Brother Has A Girlfriend by Nobody: 1:01pm On Mar 30, 2013 |
Mynd_44: It is time that kid learns about what sex is about if he has not being taught yet. What is the big deal in having a GF at that age? What he should not do is have sex Simple |
Re: My 13 Yr Old Brother Has A Girlfriend by Exponental(m): 1:08pm On Mar 30, 2013 |
Well I'm not surprised....@ dat class n age some 20yrs ago, my mates already had girlfriends. . Well, he might need some counselling. talk to him n advice him on d distractions this can bring him. If he disobeys, inform ur parents. |
Re: My 13 Yr Old Brother Has A Girlfriend by luvmijeje(f): 1:14pm On Mar 30, 2013 |
Op you have to sit him down and talk to him about your fears and worries as a 'FRIEND' not as a big brother,If not he will do it behind you which may lead to mistake. 1 Like |
Re: My 13 Yr Old Brother Has A Girlfriend by wildchild1: 1:32pm On Mar 30, 2013 |
at what time should he start getting intimate sir!!!! Mynd_44: It is time that kid learns about what sex is about if he has not being taught yet. What is the big deal in having a GF at that age? What he should not do is have sex |
Re: My 13 Yr Old Brother Has A Girlfriend by Mynd44: 2:04pm On Mar 30, 2013 |
wild child: at what time should he start getting intimate sir!!!!That is beyond you. It is not your desicion and there is nothing you can do about it. You can only teach a child ultimately, the child makes his/her own choices and the time to make those difficult choices come when the parent, brother and sister are not present. The most you can do is advice and talk to him and a friend help that child see reason to be have in a certain way. This will make that child stronger and help the child make good choices. 1 Like |
Re: My 13 Yr Old Brother Has A Girlfriend by Nobody: 2:47pm On Mar 30, 2013 |
Okiki_Oluwa: He's gonna lose concentration on his studies. Rmber he's abt 2 write d JSCE. +1 |
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