Agimor: Seun this absolutely marginalization.this the exact topic i created and didn't make the front page and here is someone who stole and modify my topic; and it make front page.i don't want to believe that favouritism or rather nepotism exists here.

11. Marrying for Beauty or
Handsomeness.......[The best time to access
a woman properly is absolutely when she
wakes up in the morning!] Let him see
you as you are Now!!!

obowunmi: OP: sadly most Nigerians get married for the reasons you've stated above..... just get a **jump** off on the side, in case your husband or wife doesn't satisfy you anymore.

I want to believe GOD that I will only marry someone I deeply care about..... in fact, this is what a frame in my bedroom will say

"[b]No matter how annoying my wife gets, I need to remember how hard I prayed to God to have her."

jntyjnty007: Personally speaking I think there is way to much emphasis and pressure put on people to get married, but certain countries, usually deeply religious often insist on their sons or daughters getting married.

Layemii:

Thanks dear..Exactly my point

Layemii:
Hi Elijah, I think some of the guys mentioned can be changed.

efosanice:

Yes! of course, they can be changed, but that should be done before marriage. The reaction of people to this poster's thread scares me. I can only pray for God to help this young generation to make the right choice especially in terms of marriage. The environment seems to have corroded the mind of the youths and people can't even recognize the truth any more and yet there is religion like never before. May God help us all.

davoshi1984: rubbish post,,,,,,,,,,,tell us 15 reasons to get married then

obowunmi: OP: sadly most Nigerians get married for the reasons you've stated above..... just get a **jump** off on the side, in case your husband or wife doesn't satisfy you anymore.

I want to believe GOD that I will only marry someone I deeply care about..... in fact, this is what a frame in my bedroom will say

"No matter how annoying my wife gets, I need to remember how hard I prayed to God to have her."

NLG_woodey:


THERE IS NO REASON TO GET MARRIED.

Marriage is a suicide mission.

50calibre:

Dude please is it possible to get unlimited Internet data for iphone in Nigeria

Layemii: 1. You must not get married because of lust.

2. Infatuation (Love at first sight- sudden love)

3. Just liking the idea of marriage.

4. The fear of remaining unmarried (my friends are all married, my sisters are all
married e.t.c)

5. Pressure (parents, friends, etc)

6. Because you want to escaping being jilted ( but if he is the right man/woman, he or she wont jilt you)

7. Getting married for money (money does not guarantee a successful marriage at all.

8. Using marriage as an escape route! (I am fed up of mummy and daddy

9. Having pity... (feeling sorry for the Man or the Woman.)

10. Foolish Expectation....­­..(Marrying an unbeliever and expecting him/her to change in the course marriage! especially if they don't change before you marry them)

11. Marrying for Beauty or Handsomeness...­­....[The best time to access a woman properly is absolutely when she wakes up in the morning!] Let him see you as you are Now!!!

12. Accidental PREGNANCY! [Just because you become pregnant along the line doesn't mean you have to bury your destiny there.

13. Tribal Connection (I must marry someone from my town.,,etc...)

14. To satisfy your Parents.

15. Marrying to hurt your Parent

obyrich:
And make sure it includes when you catch her savouring a hot romantic session with a stranger in your bed! I wish you well, my dear.