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Re: 10 Characteristics Of A Good Girlfriend by Kaleni(m): 12:34pm On Apr 03, 2013
Infact my girl have all these qualities except ONE. I thank God for my relationship!!!

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Re: 10 Characteristics Of A Good Girlfriend by Nobody: 12:34pm On Apr 03, 2013
[quote author=miket

1. She must be 5'9 and up tall. I just don't like short girls, I find them digusting

2. She must be dark skin.. Since I live in USA, I slept with a lot of white girls and even some was my girl, so, now I don't find white or light skin female attractive anymore. So, she must be dark skin. I love dark meat

3. She must have a nice backside... That's a must

4. Nice lips

5. Must know how to frie plantain

6. I think that's it, I really don't care about her being loyalty or loving personality, as long as she look good in bed naked ,, I will marry her. Lol


Ps. Don't judge me, that's my preference ...and everyone have their own.. Good day[/quote]
short girls disgusting?lol.talk of choice.anyway
I think u should go for HIV and syphilis screening.(Slept with lots of white girls)well done bro.
If you don't care about loyalty in her means u r not loyal either.
U r looking for a sex mate not a serious partner.goodluck
Re: 10 Characteristics Of A Good Girlfriend by Nobody: 12:34pm On Apr 03, 2013
mechummy: I have them all cheesygrin



and you are still single... is either u are too young to get married or that u ve another serious problem and u dont wanna say it out.

If u ve no other problem, come to me and I will marry u
Re: 10 Characteristics Of A Good Girlfriend by Revolva(m): 12:34pm On Apr 03, 2013
It was all a dream...I have a dream ....dream dream dream!!!! Singing !!! Dancing galala..omo no naija girls get reach two of these qualities!!!! Sorry!!infact not only naija..every woman worldwide don't have more dan three sef
Re: 10 Characteristics Of A Good Girlfriend by miketonic(m): 12:52pm On Apr 03, 2013
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You just mad cuz u are naturally ugly . Lol is my preference , so deal with it ugly woman
Re: 10 Characteristics Of A Good Girlfriend by sunnyt1(m): 12:52pm On Apr 03, 2013
kulyie: you better dont listen to this man if you know what is good for you.all these men have sugar coated mouth and will paint a picture to you that they are different from all the men out there,they are this,they are that,give them time,they will show their usual behaviour just like a leopard cant change its spot

So u move abt with the mentality that all men are cheat? Thats pathetic.

Let me tell u sometin abt me briefly, iv bin a victim of these bad gals and unhealthy/hearthbreaking relationships, iv every reason to hurt gals, iv every reason to sleep around, iv every reason to believe gals are same (wicked and gluttonous) bt i told mysef that in order to have a joyful and peaceful future, i need nt allow wat i experienced have any negative influence on my reality, and thats what iv bin living with.

I dnt see all gals as same, i still beliv I will meet that unique gal, there are good people out there, they exist. God makes all things beautiful in his time, jst that sometims b4 u will meet ur prince/princess, u might need to kiss many frogs
Re: 10 Characteristics Of A Good Girlfriend by sunnshyn(f): 12:53pm On Apr 03, 2013
ok o...fantastic list...im not sure which i possess maybe all, maybe none...it depends on the man im with at a given point in time...

Every woman can have/develop theses lovely qualities, it takes a great man to help sustain it. Some men can be so mean, even with all theses beautiful characteristics he'll still cheat and wouldn't appreciate the woman.

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Re: 10 Characteristics Of A Good Girlfriend by Phems(m): 12:58pm On Apr 03, 2013
What if I say my GF has them all?
Re: 10 Characteristics Of A Good Girlfriend by miketonic(m): 1:01pm On Apr 03, 2013
Phems: What if I say my GF has them all?


What if I say your GF is ugly and look like president good luck Jonathan ?

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Re: 10 Characteristics Of A Good Girlfriend by Policewoman(f): 1:06pm On Apr 03, 2013
Joan Johnson:

Having a good woman by your side as your girlfriend is always nice.

In fact, it is a dream of every normal man in this world. The right woman is a woman who can make you grow into a better man.

Many men experience failure in relationships because they are too quick to choose, too easily attracted and fall in love with a woman without thinking whether she is worthy or not (of course mistakes committed by ourselves can cause failures too). Below are 10 characteristics of a good woman to be your girlfriend:

1. Supportive

She is a figure who always support you in your life as well as your career and always by your side when the whole world walks out. As we know, our society tend to require a man to be a strong man and not a fragile person, but sadness and stress that come repeatedly will destroy you if you don’t vent your feelings. Thus, a good woman can be the best listener by providing support and comfort for you. She also gives you freedom to develop yourself as you want.

2. Independent

This characteristic is important because it means she can manage and take care of herself. It will be very annoying when you have to be her ‘babysitter’ all the time, right? She can go home by herself when you can’t pick her up, she can go shopping by herself when you can’t accompany her, and she can rely on herself when you can’t help her. Independent woman is a woman who can stand by her own feet and walk alone when you can’t be there (of course she still respects you as the leader).

3. Beautiful inside and out

From the outside, she is not a woman like Taylor Swift, Kate Middleton, Megan Fox, or Jessica Alba, but she looks beautiful and attractive in her own way, her simplicity and friendliness. From the inside, you notice that she is a person who has an extraordinary and inspiring personality.

4. Confident

She loves her imperfection, perfectly. She doesn’t hurt herself or dying to be famous and beautiful like a movie actress. She doesn’t try to be someone else, she is confident of herself and (of course) proud to have you by her side.

5. Respects you

You are the leader and she, as your partner, has respect for you and the decisions you make. She doesn’t make you afraid of her and look like a loser. But of course, you have to respect her too by not humiliating and treating her like a slave.

6. Know when to speak and keep quiet

She knows which stories that can be told to her friends and which ones don’t. She doesn’t like to gossip about your bad things and your relationship. She knows when to speak and listen to your words. She also can speak tenderly (without yelling) when she expresses her opinion to you.

7. Loyal

Someone who’s in normal or happy circumstances tend to be a kind person. Don’t immediately assume she has a good character when she is in such conditions, just wait until you have some problems. Then you will know her true character and who she really is. Women who are not loyal will turn around and leave you when you face problems, either minor or major ones. While women who are loyal will remain by your side to face the problems together. That’s why you need time to evaluate your partner before moving to the next stage of your relationship.

8. Doesn’t fall in love with your wealth and social status

In this modern era, money is something that has tremendous appeal. Money can buy positions, power, authorities, even ‘love’. Of course they love the money not the person. Although money remains an important thing to think about (you can’t eat and shop without money, right?), but a good woman won’t put her love on your wealth because she already has something more valuable than money… You. Think about this… Love of money is only temporary because wherever the money goes, that’s where her heart is… But love that comes and grows from her heart to you will last for a lifetime. Why? Because wherever you go, that’s where her heart is. Do you notice the difference?

9. Simple and down to earth

There was a joke that said, “The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.” It’s funny but also true. Women are good market of beauty products by various companies. In fact, MOST of their body parts are good market.. Their hair, face, ears, eyes, hands, fingers, toenails, and so on. Don’t be trapped by a high maintenance woman if you can’t afford her needs. It’s better to choose a simple woman who still looks good with what she got, without requiring too much maintenance. In addition, she is modest and humble in everyday life, she doesn’t demand a lot of facilities to indulge herself.

10. Gets into your life

And the last thing is she knows and gets along well with your friends. She also knows your family well, helps your mom to prepare meals, travels with your family, and most importantly she enjoys it all sincerely. When she knows your life well and has a good relationship with your family, then you have a good chance to move into the next relationship stage.

I agree 100 percent.
Re: 10 Characteristics Of A Good Girlfriend by Nobody: 1:08pm On Apr 03, 2013
'Good' is subjective, nice writeup though
Re: 10 Characteristics Of A Good Girlfriend by rezzy: 1:55pm On Apr 03, 2013
Babzilla:
NOT IN NAIJA
you quoted all the op's post just to write that? Nawa o
Re: 10 Characteristics Of A Good Girlfriend by free2ryhme: 2:28pm On Apr 03, 2013
Do you even know d meaning of girlfriend? Y not 10 xteristics of a gud wife. Girlfriends dont last but wives do
Re: 10 Characteristics Of A Good Girlfriend by Ashmark(m): 3:04pm On Apr 03, 2013
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Re: 10 Characteristics Of A Good Girlfriend by free2ryhme: 3:16pm On Apr 03, 2013
Dipwater:










I like this particular list cuz its interesting to read. On ur last paragraph I do not agree with u ,its not all men .intelligent men don't see women as cooks. And the are worth more than having big tits and large batty.
Here is my own list;
Lil br/east
Normal backside

Se/xy hips

skinny

Pretty face(mustnt be like jess albas face)

Must importantly intelligent and very logical with her doings

Trustworthy

Loyal

Very caring

Dark skin

I don't give a fu/ck cooking and all those rubbish things

Nau u no my list,having a list is not a bad idea .its not compulsory its amatter of choice. Thank u
if u cant cook but you have all gud qualities then u b bad market. Wait o! Na girlfriend then describe here well i go manage am becos gf no dey last. U change am like u change boxers
Re: 10 Characteristics Of A Good Girlfriend by larryjayz: 4:13pm On Apr 03, 2013
kulyie: while 99.9 percent of nigerian men are opportunists,self centred egoisic freaks looking for an innocent girl to pry on
wetin do this woman,i think youve been used and dump several times.
Re: 10 Characteristics Of A Good Girlfriend by buchhogonzalez(m): 4:14pm On Apr 03, 2013
mechummy: I have them all cheesygrin
then u shuld be by my side grin grin grin
Re: 10 Characteristics Of A Good Girlfriend by Mrskillz1(f): 4:20pm On Apr 03, 2013
I gat all of them qualities in me cheesy
Re: 10 Characteristics Of A Good Girlfriend by FXKing2012(m): 4:24pm On Apr 03, 2013
God bless the OP, hope our ladies are reading and learning
Re: 10 Characteristics Of A Good Girlfriend by Nobody: 4:53pm On Apr 03, 2013
jadakiss213: you for where?
Sharrap!
Re: 10 Characteristics Of A Good Girlfriend by Nobody: 4:55pm On Apr 03, 2013
32-D:

yimu... initial gragra
Park well!
Re: 10 Characteristics Of A Good Girlfriend by Nobody: 4:58pm On Apr 03, 2013
Joyland:

Sure?
Yep! cheesy
Re: 10 Characteristics Of A Good Girlfriend by Nobody: 5:00pm On Apr 03, 2013
Startechng:

If truly u have them all then contact me for a very serious relationship that will definitely lead to marriage.
Thankssmiley but no thank you
Re: 10 Characteristics Of A Good Girlfriend by Nobody: 5:02pm On Apr 03, 2013
money-hungry :

damn u cute!
but, are in also gud at the main thing?
*picks race*
Re: 10 Characteristics Of A Good Girlfriend by Nobody: 5:05pm On Apr 03, 2013
Joofirst:



and you are still single... is either u are too young to get married or that u ve another serious problem and u dont wanna say it out.
Not ready for marriage
Re: 10 Characteristics Of A Good Girlfriend by Nobody: 5:08pm On Apr 03, 2013
buchhogonzalez:
then u shuld be by my side grin grin grin
I beg ur pardon?grin
Re: 10 Characteristics Of A Good Girlfriend by Nobody: 6:27pm On Apr 03, 2013
​am the opposite of #8 o
Re: 10 Characteristics Of A Good Girlfriend by DeGenius3(m): 8:41pm On Apr 03, 2013
DonHummer: nairalanders una too like list..choi..
If i begin obey al dis una list...ee mean sa man pikin go still de single @ 40..., as 4 me wen i don hamma , den i will make my own personal list...

i hear you grin grin grin
Re: 10 Characteristics Of A Good Girlfriend by DeGenius3(m): 8:42pm On Apr 03, 2013
DonHummer: nairalanders una too like list..choi..
If i begin obey al dis una list...ee mean sa man pikin go still de single @ 40..., as 4 me wen i don hamma , den i will make my own personal list...


i hear you grin grin grin
Re: 10 Characteristics Of A Good Girlfriend by Orikinla(m): 9:44pm On Apr 03, 2013
[size=28pt]MAJORITY OF NIGERIAN GIRLS ARE OPPORTUNISTS AND SPONGERS.
WHILE NAIJA GUYS ARE LOOKING FOR DREAM JOBS, NAIJA GIRLS ARE LOOKING FOR MUGU BOYFRIENDS.[/size] grin

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