Sometimes we say hurtful words to our partner and it causes violence in the house. Some words we say can affect someone psychologically. Do you say hurtful words to your partner and how would you deal with it if a hurtful word was said to you?

Yes, we all do. I'l jst ignore him n go 2 bed.

im not proud of it but very rarely wen im pushed to d edge, diplomacy flies out of the window and i say hurtful, damaging words
i always apologize and do my best to show that i didn't mean it... i do my best to make amends.

wen im d recipient of hurtful words, ofcz i hurt but i don't allow rage to cloud my reasoning. i analyze it, was it provocation? if yes, i forgive.

I JUST LOOK ON AND CHIP IN SOME JOKE WHERE NECESSARY

I'm not proud of it, I'm wired in a funny way. When I get angry, I talk, I fight and I argue and its gonna hurt u, but I don't mean any of those thing. That's not my way of fighting back. That's a way I express my love and passion for someone cos I could make a lot of trouble when I'm in love .
When someone I love hurts me, I don't fight back, I just talk and maybe cry, but when u hurt me and I don't talk or argue, then you should watch ur back, cos I'm definitely up to something not good.
So I guess my friends and family understand this aspect of me, and I know its bad and I'm trying to work on it so hard. They don't take it to heart and I sincerely apologise after.

When someone I love says hurtful things to me, I just cry. When s/he apologises, I forgive. Even if s/he doesn't apologise, I forgive. I cry and forgive easily.

vivian chinaza: I'm not proud of it, I'm wired in a funny way. When I get angry, I talk, I fight and I argue and its gonna hurt u, but I don't mean any of those thing. That's not my way of fighting back. That's a way I express my love and passion for someone cos I could make a lot of trouble when I'm in love .
When someone I love hurts me, I don't fight back, I just talk and maybe cry, but when u hurt me and I don't talk or argue, then you should watch ur back, cos I'm definitely up to something not good.
So I guess my friends and family understand this aspect of me, and I know its bad and I'm trying to work on it so hard. They don't take it to heart and I sincerely apologise after.

When someone I love says hurtful things to me, I just cry. When s/he apologises, I forgive. Even if s/he doesn't apologise, I forgive. I cry and forgive easily.

hmmm. Well, I sometimes say words like "Anumpama", "Ote" but I say it with a smile on my face but she frowns and I hug her and apologise. But when she says hurtful words to me, I playfully tell her to come outside and fight me and that is how we settle and apologise to each other.

xynerise:
hmmm. Well, I sometimes say words like "Anumpama", "Ote" but I say it with a smile on my face but she frowns and I hug her and apologise. But when she says hurtful words to me, I [b]playfully tell her to come outside and fight me an[/b]d that is how we settle and apologise to each other.

Agbero! She resemble dose guys for ya street wey u dey run gidigbo sessions wiv? Antelope!

Idowuogbo:
Agbero! She resemble dose guys for ya street wey u dey run gidigbo sessions wiv? Antelope!

Tesco . I be think say she be u

xynerise:
hmmm. Well, I sometimes say words like "Anumpama", "Ote" but I say it with a smile on my face but she frowns and I hug her and apologise. But when she says hurtful words to me, I playfully tell her to come outside and fight me and that is how we settle and apologise to each other.

By my standard, those are no hurtful words.
But I'm just imagining a scenario where my man would ask me to come and fight him? Nah, just hugging won't do the magic, we would need to finish that fight inside our ring.
I just loved it when we fight, provided he would lift me up like a chicken while I shout in the air, I love that. Then, its not possible to stay mad at me for long plus I'd get so many goodies, and he gets to cook for me, or do anything to appease me. In fact, its boring when we don't fight biko. I would miss a lot.

xynerise: Sometimes we say hurtful words to our partner and it causes violence in the house. Some words we say can affect someone psychologically. Do you say hurtful words to your partner and how would you deal with it if a hurtful word was said to you?

depends if she black or white..... backhand slap!

Mr..Cork:



depends if she black or white..... backhand slap!

. She is black. Antelope

xynerise:
. She is black. Antelope

if she black...Double backhand slap plus 3% headbooot..they lack respect!

Mr..Cork:



if she black...Double backhand slap plus 3% headbooot..they lack respect!

Kid

Hurtful speeches are not inevitable even though they could dissipate the internal heats between both parties. Nonetheless, for the sake of love and the rigmaroles behind the driving force of this love, certain blickers form over our eyes when we here these speeches to a point that the only panacea to make peace reign in that house is to condone them and finally embrace your better half as long as he/she is prone to penitence.

I WALK. I like happy atmospheres . If I stay there, I won't be happy neither will I make him happy.

ashmanpolo: Hurtful speeches are not inevitable even though they could dissipate the internal heats between both parties. Nonetheless, for the sake of love and the rigmaroles behind the driving force of this love, certain blickers form over our eyes when we here these speeches to a point that the only panacea to make peace reign in that house is to condone them and finally embrace your better half as long as he/she is prone to penitence.

Oyibo!

Woman never abuse you before. I am not talking about the normal get out, you are stupid, foolish man, useless man etc cos there are hurtful words you will hear from a bad woman that either tell your true life story in a damaging manner or maybe your extended family being ridiculed!

Most romance section ladies indeed got that attributes.

I have a problem and to the best of my knowledge, I have solved it. I have a very wicked tongue and I have a way of saying really hurtful things but I have learnt to keep my mouth shut when I am angry. I just shut up and watch whoever is doing the talking and tell myself it is not worth it.

Later, I might then decide to call whoever it is to talk about what happened but right then, it is me shutting my mouth

Mynd_44: I have a problem. I have a very wicked tongue and I have a way of saying really hurtful things

Na so. No be today we know sey you get bad mouth.

Ishilove:
Na so. No be today we know sey you get bad mouth.

But I don learn to padlock am na.

When someone close to me says hurtful things to me i breakdown and cry or withdraw into my shell.I've got a very foul mouth when i'm angry so i try hard not to get angry often cos i when utter those words it take's long for the person to talk to me even after i have apologised.

Ishilove:
Na so. No be today we know sey you get bad mouth.

It have tay

I will ignore the person..
I dont know how to shout and rant..
I cant even do it even if i wanted to..
So there is no point in trying..


And funny enough, s/he will be the one to come back and apologise...

xynerise:
It have tay

Who asked you?

Mynd_44:
Who asked you?

your ex

I ignore dem, or listen to music with ear-piece

Beautful.B:
I ignore dem, or listen to music with ear-piece

that will make him punch your ear

xynerise:
your ex

Have fun with her. She is a witch

xynerise:
that will make him punch your ear

You too like violence

xynerise:
that will make him punch your ear

Den I bite he's pen*nis

D last time I did it,he ended up pleading 4 4gvness.

[quote author=Beautful.B]


Den I kiss he's pen*nis

D last time I did it,he ended up pleading 4 4gvness.[/quote
]

I have an unbelievable immunity to words for my mouth is ever ready to defend me against unwanted spewings.I have never had any need to use hurtful words on my man as he thinks carefully before he speaks(A man careless with speech might have commited suicide living with me).When I get too pissed,I simply tune to mute instead of verbally abusing my mAn.I speak only when am calm enough to articulate reasonable speeches.

For the tender hearted,verbal abuse should be avoided at all cost as some might never recover from a bout of tongue lashing.Silence is always better than multiple hurtful words when it comes to man/woman relationships.