kegel: As to your husband been HIV Positive, u need to find out how it happened? Has he been cheating on you? Then count yourself lucky that u are tested negative. Ufaithfulness is a legal ground for satan to enter a home and afflict them. If he becane HIV+ thru no fault of his own, then u need to stick with him. After all, u knew he wasn't working before marrying him. But if he got infected thru unfaithfulness, then u may do well to reconsider your stand. U need to find out how it happened first.

fellis:

Maybe the guy got AIDS from infected clippers or blood transfusion or something else, not necessarily through cheating.

Regardless of how he contacted AIDS, she cannot stay married to him unless she wants to put herself at great risk of contacting the disease. Best berth is to end the marriage, I am sure there are other HIV women he can get married to. That doesn't mean he shouldn't be shown support though. He can be supported and encouraged and loved but the marriage is over.

Hard truth I know, but life isn't a bed of roses.


BTW, I am only humoring myself by actually giving advice. I know for a fact that this story is just madeup bullshit

kulyie: gbam because is it possible for husband and wife to live together for years and not have s3x

fellis:

hehe
the picture op put under the story is enough to clear all doubts that it is fake.
Seun has removed the filter for 'sex', you can spell it correctly if you wish.

Afriface: Good day, I like your page a lot and I would like to share my story and I hope to get meaningful pieces of advice.

I got married December 2012 to a man that I thought was God-sent to me because of a pastor’s prophesy about him.

We met in January 2011, but we stay in different states so I worked my NYSC so that I would be with him. He stopped going to work in June 2012 because the construction firm he was working was bankrupt. After our marriage, we have been living on money we beg from family or relatives.

His family knows he is jobless, but I keep lying to my family that he is doing fine in his office. We have been going from one interview to the other. Right now, our house rent has been due since July and we could only afford half of the money.

The worst of it all is that, yesterday he went for a medical test for a job placement and he just discovered that he is HIV positive and I did the test too but I am negative.I don’t know what to do right now or where to go. We shed tears everyday even while praying. We have lost our appetite and going to church aint fun anymore.I know this is a spiritual problem.

I forgot to include that he is 36, I am 31 and we have no kids yet because we are not working.

Please I need advice Here http://www.tundeola.com/2013/04/i-just-got-married-i-have-been-unhappy.html#more

....he's HIV positive?? And you're not?? What are u waiting for and thank your stars the marriage is still "NEW" , no kids yet! Yh, I knw you're in love buh think straight! Marriage is FOR a life time, are u sure u want to be married to a HIV+ person wen you're not??

....I refuse to concur he's cheating tho', the virus must hav been contacted differently! Make ur investigations...

+ a man of God told u he's ur husband ?? Lemme tell u something, whatever u don't want to do, DON'T DO IT! dnt be all religious and say, "because the pastor said......" *smh*

kulyie: ehwn,thank God for the life of seun then he needs to do something about this names too that they change here on nairaland e.g vagina,penis,kitten,rapist,rape,Mouth Action,fingering,vibrator.it should be given the exact name not changed to something else

fellis:

I tire for the guy. I thought he was putting all those nonsense replacements because google threatened that they won't pay him if he does not do it. Now he is no longer collecting money from google so I wonder why we are still seeing self service and joystick on this site.

centje: are you in any way related to seun osewa?

fellis:

I tire for the guy. I thought he was putting all those nonsense replacements because google threatened that they won't pay him if he does not do it. Now he is no longer collecting money from google so I wonder why we are still seeing self service and joystick on this site.

fellis: I tire for the guy. I thought he was putting all those nonsense replacements because google threatened that they won't pay him if he does not do it. Now he is no longer collecting money from google so I wonder why we are still seeing self service and joystick on this site.

Seun: We're still doing it because it's cute, unique, and makes the site less offensive to people who are sensitive to that sort of thing.

dmalam: i dnt want to scare u...u may be in ur HIV window period since u hv bn exposed to him, u hv to repeat d test afta like 3—6mnths..
ur hubby fit repeat d test o.... false positiv dey happen too

kamdyjenny: My dear there r trying times in everyone's life.wat I advice is dat u put all ur hope in God nd continue to pray God will surly answer ur prayers. Do not tink of leaving him. Let d both of u continue in prayers..cheers

nawtiichic:



He tested HIV positive and your not? and ur here asking what to do?? seriously? girl ur life is far to valuable to be wasted on a deadbeat who isnt just a loser but also a cheater. what exactly do you stand to gain being with him and what do you have to lose by leaving? dont let anyone fool you by bringing "God" into this matter. this is YOUR happiness we are talking about here. do not let the fact that ur 31 push you into being unhappy for the rest of your life all in the name of having a husband.

repogirl: Is this for real? As in really for real? D pastor that saw prophecy didn't ask you guys to do hiv test b4 marriage. HIV hibernates for 6 months o, u mite not see it now, check in 6 months time. D Job thing sef is not really a problem, jobs come and go. I'm more concerned about your health, you should be too.

And please let's stop blaming spirituality from our own lapse in judgement. If you are a true, bible believing christian and in a good church, attacks will not near you abi d HIV sef join spiritual problem?