tpacalipse: I bet this is a maga to the core. How could these boyz just assume the role of a babe's father and they think love would always be the response from the babe.

Dawdy: Nairalanders, abeg make una support dis maga with gud advice, No make d girl finish am patapata.

K@zZ¥:
I also thought we were dating despite the refusal she gave at first nt until when recently like a week ago, i sent a series of luv text and she called and spoke angrily on the phone that i shld stop sending her love messages. She said we're not dating. Just friends. I was so hurt. It hit me like a bomb.

* ONUKU*

My advice to u is to sell all u've got in this world and give her the proceed

K@zZ¥:
My Fellow nairalanders, good evening to you. Please i need your help. I've been in a relationship with this girl for the past 4 months. I'm so into this girl. I have strong feelings for her. I LOVE HER. The problem here is this. I don't think she loves me. Just of recent, she got into deep financial problem. I sold some of my stuffs to help her raise half of the money. Thats to show i really care for her. I dnt want her to love me for what i can give her. I want her to love me for me. She has so many guy friends, with this, i was able to work my way to get her. I asked her then (4 months) ago to be my girl friend which she turned down. With that, there's nothing she asks me dat i cant do for her. I even find it hard to refuse whenever she asks for anything. Our relationship is so close that people believe we're dating. I also thought we were dating despite the refusal she gave at first nt until when recently like a week ago, i sent a series of luv text and she called and spoke angrily on the phone that i shld stop sending her love messages. She said we're not dating. Just friends. I was so hurt. It hit me like a bomb. After a while, she called back to appologise for what she said. All i did was play it cool. Her actions contradicts her word. She acts to me like we're dating. Deep in me, i still dnt think she loves me. Please help. What do i do?

Ijogz K: Sending love messages to someone who's yet to give you total green light.. In fact I wouldn't advice anyone to send love messages to a babe dey aint dating yet, cuz you might just be a laughing stock in midst of her friends. I would advice you to act like a Man, give yourself a little pride and make yourself a little scarce.

If she truly Luvs u, she would look for you. Except you have given her enough reasons to friendzone you.

Maybe it's just me, Mi o ra ye fún iranu

K@zZ¥:
My Fellow nairalanders, good evening to you. Please i need your help. I've been in a relationship with this girl for the past 4 months. I'm so into this girl. I have strong feelings for her. I LOVE HER. The problem here is this. I don't think she loves me. Just of recent, she got into deep financial problem. I sold some of my stuffs to help her raise half of the money. Thats to show i really care for her. I dnt want her to love me for what i can give her. I want her to love me for me. She has so many guy friends, with this, i was able to work my way to get her. I asked her then (4 months) ago to be my girl friend which she turned down. With that, there's nothing she asks me dat i cant do for her. I even find it hard to refuse whenever she asks for anything. Our relationship is so close that people believe we're dating. I also thought we were dating despite the refusal she gave at first nt until when recently like a week ago, i sent a series of luv text and she called and spoke angrily on the phone that i shld stop sending her love messages. She said we're not dating. Just friends. I was so hurt. It hit me like a bomb. After a while, she called back to appologise for what she said. All i did was play it cool. Her actions contradicts her word. She acts to me like we're dating. Deep in me, i still dnt think she loves me. Please help. What do i do?

K@zZ¥:
Nairalanders, i've been thinking of all your comments. I so much appreciate it...i gladly welcome all insults and advice. You're looking out for me. THANKYOU. please, permit me to ask. Is there any kind of test i can give to her to prove that she's using me?

deshclones:

Bro,she is not feeling you one bit...you are her mugu raised to power of infinty...you should just take that walk now that you still have some dignity intact.

But incase u want to test her love for you...tell her u just got a megaa job or contract..or some inheritance..see her reaction..use dis opportunity to bleep her and dump her sorry ass..just dat u no go fit do am..love don cover ya silly brain nd eyes..nansense

alutacontinua: Another confused lady again!

Something is confusing her, either you're not good enough for her or there's someone else. She feels something for you but she's not ready to be with you. Sit her down and talk to her maturedly, she should tell you what she wants from you and decide if you can abide by her terms.

SIMPLES!

K@zZ¥:
Nairalanders, i've been thinking of all your comments. I so much appreciate it...i gladly welcome all insults and advice. You're looking out for me. THANKYOU. please, permit me to ask. Is there any kind of test i can give to her to prove that she's using me?

Morayo747: Use your head man. What test again? Stop indulging her and giving her stuff. Claim you lost your job or are in some bad debt. Watch her reaction. Na wah for you o. This is why I recommend street wisdom for every one. The sort knowledge you don't get in school...

K@zZ¥:
Nairalanders, i've been thinking of all your comments. I so much appreciate it...i gladly welcome all insults and advice. You're looking out for me. THANKYOU. please, permit me to ask. Is there any kind of test i can give to her to prove that she's using me?

Scarpon: this guy is an imported mugu

nevderek:

Ogbeni wetin dey worry u? E be like say you dull, so all this hard truths people don tell you here you still dey find test? Even girls dey tell you to waka now before you go sell your papa land.

She don already tell you say e no go work, she no be your girlfriend, wetin concern her concern test
How you wan test girl wey no be your girlfriend? You dey use your number 6 at all? She no dey use you, she no dey do you maga, na only you dey carry your hand dey maga yourself.

If you wan spend on her based on say you get genuine feelings for her then go ahead, no complain afterall love is not conditional. But if your spending for her go only make you feel unused when she don accept your offer of relationship, then you no love anything and it will thus be extremely stooopid to use love as an excuse for your irrationality.
Omo wake the furkk up from your silly infatuation and stop confusing yourself. Which kain yeye test you wan test another person girlfriend, shuuuuuuu!!!!

Ma I calm down, you don't need to have any talk with her, na all doz ones dey bring long thing. Simply delete her contact and create value for yourself by absence before your dignity die finish.
No ask any other question here!!!!

K@zZ¥:
see, i love this girl oo...i cnt just run......