sexkillz: Yes it's very mandatory if you are a mugu/maga.

The question is, are you a mugu?

xyoung: Understand this post very well and don't quote me out of context
Looking from this angle
I meet a girl, we start talking, she finds out I'm working class, she is probably unemployed or still undergraduate...remember we are just friends and no strings attached..she ask me for money to sort out 'some issues' and I reply "I don't have money to give you"
Out of the blues, she call me stingy and says she was only testing me
Now my questions is
1... Is it COMPULSORY for every dude to help a girl financially even when she isn't ur sister/relation or girlfriend
2... What is ur opinion about a girl always asking dudes (with the exemption of her brother or BF) for money..how do u rate her personality
3... Assuming I use 'zero spending' policy on my interested female friends to seperate out the ones interested in money to the ones interested in me..Is this really a good justification or a stingy attitude
Contribution, comment and suggestions welcomed

Harmvirus: 1.it only depend on how close u guyz are..u can help a gud friend in nid if u av the money .
2.a girl that always ask a guy who is nt her bf sees the guy as a mugu or atm machine
3. 'zero spending policy' haba... u b Onitsha guy? Dats nt a gud approach 2 me.

double08: same thing my friend and I were discussing the other day,the way these girls ask for money these days is alarming and when you don't give them they tell you they were just testing you

went to see another girl and she told me to get hollandia milk for her,just because I forgot to get the hollandia milk she calls me stingy and am like WTF!!!!this was the same girl I took to the pharmacy a day before to get drugs when she was ill and I paid for the drugs and she called me 'stingy' well am patiently waiting for the say she will loose guard,I will so 'hit and run'

double08: same thing my friend and I were discussing the other day,the way these girls ask for money these days is alarming and when you don't give them they tell you they were just testing you

went to see another girl and she told me to get hollandia milk for her,just because I forgot to get the hollandia milk she calls me stingy and am like WTF!!!!this was the same girl I took to the pharmacy a day before to get drugs when she was ill and I paid for the drugs and she called me 'stingy' well am patiently waiting for the say she will loose guard,I will so 'hit and run'

alutacontinua: Op, imagine that your friend is a guy, would you give him the money or not? She's asking you as a friend, not a boyfriend or 'maga'...

It's still your decision to give the money and if you don't give it, she doesn't have a right to start saying 'i was testing you and all that', but you might actually be stingy in the real sense of it.

gree-die:
1: no!! the only reason to help should be bcz u want to.
2: such a girl is an opportunist, feeding off ple... me dont likey.
3:its neither a justification nor a stingy attitude, its simply ur decision.

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