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Re: Dealing With The Pressures From Married Men by lafflaff123(m): 2:14pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
freecocoa: ^My sister, this thing with many nigerian men is actually very scary. If you are happily married I am happy for you. And if you are happily married to somebody other than a Nigerian and happy in your marriage then I am doubly happy for you, since Nigerian men are scary but I do want to let you know that infidelity is not an exclusive club of the Nigerian man alone. Ask Bill Clinton ala Lewinsky and ask Arnold(terminator) about his child with his house maid. While I do not condole infidelity both in marriages and committed relationships, I dare say as compared to most men in the world Nigerian men still fare better. I do not know the country you reside in, but if you visit most western countries and even some developing countries like Jamaica, Zimbabwe, SA and the rest of them, then you will know that though Nigerian men have their bad sides, women to a large extent get treated with respect. Even the married men running after skirts outside their marriages in Nigeria are usually discreet in such act, and while you might not agree with them on why or how they do it, they at least try not to flaunt it in their wives face. @ freecocoa if you are not married, then I suggest you get married to an African American man and see how women are treated. Very rarely do you see an African American man that does not have babies outside( baby mama's) while still happily married to their wives and they don't even care to hide their multiple outside relationships. Ditto the married African American woman too. I do not look like Tuface Idibia (fine boy) but at the rate married American women blatantly throw caution to the wind wanting to get laid can scare the strongest of heart( you go dey wonder abi she get wetin she wan infect you with) so coming here to say NA THESE THINGS WOMEN WAN MARRY is actually outside the point, as there are good/faithful and bad/unfaithful men all over the world as infidelity knows no race, country ,gender or color. Some people will tell you that Yoruba women are the most unfaithful in Nigeria, but I usually tell people with such thoughts that the are actually wrong as unfaithfulness knows no tribe( after all IDOWU na Yoruba and she dey my eye now)and I come from a part of Nigeria where JUJU is suppose to kill a cheating wife, but I have met a lot of women from my tribe, especially on visits to Europe(London and Italy still fresh in my mind) who are happily married in Nigeria but are getting laid left and right there and still JUJU no kill them. This story started with a girl complaining about single/married men hitting on her a lot, and as I said she alone knows herself and she alone knows the truth on how/why/where she and her multiple hitters(married/single) come across each other, and as an adult she should deal with it privately and not come here and start telling us about her adventures or why she even chooses to embark on them at all. 2 Likes |
Re: Dealing With The Pressures From Married Men by Pataki: 2:16pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
Ujujoan: You would do well to attend to your issues and ignore me forthwith. Please I take God beg you. I hate your despicable online personality and I try as much as possible never to interact with you whether foolishly or 'intelligently' on this forum. Kindly avoid my post forever. Thanks in advance. OMO IBO: First of all, who informed your profound idiotic self that Pataki is married? I laughed at your earlier moooronic submission directed at me. You know zilch about me, and your insults do not move me one inch. Failed attempts at NL chics you say? Please feel free to drop the shyte you have on Pataki! Arrrrsssswipe! Oh well, the less you know, the more I am amused and entertained by your ignorance. You dumb ignorant gnat! Keep on throwing the cyber tantrums! Anumanu. One thing I am most certain about you is that - you are a certified OMO OBO! Monkey pikin! |
Re: Dealing With The Pressures From Married Men by Nobody: 2:21pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
biolabee: Do you want me to list Nigerian male crimes to women and girls[/b]documented and [b]undocumented, punished and unpunished? The crimes they commit is not even my main concern at the moment. It is the crude and crass manner of speech to women you see online and outside here. So dirty and sickening! It is now very clear to me why barbaric acts are committed. Just take a look at the speech! I do not and will not appreciate dirty behavior! 1 Like |
Re: Dealing With The Pressures From Married Men by Nobody: 2:22pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
stillwater: God bless you for this post! |
Re: Dealing With The Pressures From Married Men by Nobody: 2:23pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
stillwater: Preach!! |
Re: Dealing With The Pressures From Married Men by Pataki: 2:34pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
Stillwater, what kinda fines are you advocating for ladies to pay? See it is so easy to put the blame on one particular gender in this case - men. But the truth is that if the men are so shyyyytie as you indicate - the blame should start from women/mothers who do not raise these sons/men to be proper role models to their ladies. Ladies like Tashamania, I see them as such potential women/mothers! Her previous posts on this forum indicates that; so far you have a dangling stick in between your legs, you are a good game for her. 1 Like |
Re: Dealing With The Pressures From Married Men by Nobody: 2:35pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
Pataki:Guess what, the feeling is mutual! Men like you make me lose faith in Nigerians . . You are such a terrible excuse for a man! accusing the lady of lying about being pestered by married men looks very much like guilt to me! Why does this thread bug so much huh? You must live a sad sorry life . . . *spits on you and walks away* |
Re: Dealing With The Pressures From Married Men by biolabee(m): 2:36pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
lafflaff123: Bros you have killed it These ladies never miss an opportunity to hit on the naija male The lady may be lying but they will slyly channel their frustrations onto naija males I don't know why I say amin to your prayers Please leave the males for the women who need them Shuo |
Re: Dealing With The Pressures From Married Men by Nobody: 2:39pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
stillwater: Tell it! |
Re: Dealing With The Pressures From Married Men by coogar: 2:40pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
Ujujoan: ujujoan, mechonnu.... you have been on this forum for as long as i can remember. how many married men came looking for you in your single/married status? tashamania is telling porkies. personally, i think she just wants the attention and this is the cheapest way of getting. reverse psychology at the very best! 1 Like |
Re: Dealing With The Pressures From Married Men by biolabee(m): 2:40pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
Pataki: Stillwater, what kinda fines are you advocating for ladies to pay? OUCH!! Yekparipa I warned her about her reputation o #nameandshame |
Re: Dealing With The Pressures From Married Men by Nobody: 2:40pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
Pataki: Stillwater, what kinda fines are you advocating for ladies to pay? Foooooool . . so now it's only the woman who has the responsibility of raising her son? What about the fooolish men like you who go about answering 'daddies'. What am I even saying sef, expecting you to teach your kids about responsibilities. I really shouldn't expect a lion to birth a monkey! 1 Like |
Re: Dealing With The Pressures From Married Men by Nobody: 2:43pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
coogar: Bros mii, I dont know why you guys are getting upset over her post . . shei married men should not disturb her agian abi? Married men leave her alone na . . . If she wants attention, she can post a nude pix of herself and the like of Pataki will be PMing her 20x a day! Honestly, I think the men are objecting too hard . . |
Re: Dealing With The Pressures From Married Men by Nobody: 2:45pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
Lilian married solomon knowing he was already married. Go figure |
Re: Dealing With The Pressures From Married Men by freecocoa(f): 2:45pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
Connoisseur: Na these same men you dey do fasting and prayer for.You own your hands so you are free to type whatever it is you wish but just for the records, if men like yourself and the rest of the hediots ones on here are what's left for marriage, then baba God please don't give me a husband. Luckily, there are still a few reasonable ones, I'll get a husband from such ones and I won't have to run from pillar to post for that to happen, nonsense. 1 Like |
Re: Dealing With The Pressures From Married Men by Nobody: 2:48pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
Ujujoan: So much word!! |
Re: Dealing With The Pressures From Married Men by coogar: 2:50pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
Ujujoan: why won't we object to her lies? it's one thing to seek attention, it's another thing to smear the reputation of married men in the name of scoring cheap brownie points. the world is so sick these days that being a gentleman to any woman is misconceived as trying to hit on the woman. stillwater: oh lord! see the species of women you are breathlessly defending.......there goes your window of hypocrisy. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Lw3uAqT2iQE are these women from congo republic or benin republic? you should understand why some naija men spew bile when it comes to naija women. the women have not exactly covered themselves in glory as far as indecency is concerned! 1 Like |
Re: Dealing With The Pressures From Married Men by biolabee(m): 2:52pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
Getting bloody.... |
Re: Dealing With The Pressures From Married Men by Pataki: 2:52pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
Ujujoan: Duhhhhh! You are a dumb goat for a woman! I don't do NL attention seeking babes. Not my interest and never would be. Keep loitering around for PMs from dudes here. Dodoyo omo. You and Tashamania definitely fit as a tagteam. Crackhead! 2 Likes |
Re: Dealing With The Pressures From Married Men by Nobody: 2:53pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
Pataki: Go ask your mother where you picked up this much foolishness from. From her or from daddy . . But since even a 1yr old knows that a man will remains the No 1 role model for his sons, I'm guessing daddy Stop being loser, go find something useful to do with your life. . . Go to a church, find a shrink, do something to improve yourself. Your foolishness is irritating! 1 Like |
Re: Dealing With The Pressures From Married Men by coogar: 2:56pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
biolabee: Getting bloody.... you know the end is nigh when only 3 out of 20 randomly picked naija women have a single partner. the other 17 have 4-5 boyfriends at a time. |
Re: Dealing With The Pressures From Married Men by biolabee(m): 2:57pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
Is tasha an agent of discord planted to fan flames |
Re: Dealing With The Pressures From Married Men by Nobody: 2:57pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
Pataki: 'duhhhhhh!' . . . what are you, 12 You are right about one thing dou, I detest married men seeking my attention so yea, I'm with Tash on that . . It disgust me, maybe even more that your foolishness! Please, I beg of you . . face your wife and leave young girls alone. I hate creepy older men like you trying to get 'friendly' . . ewwww! *spits again* |
Re: Dealing With The Pressures From Married Men by Idowuogbo(f): 2:57pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
Ghen Ghen Ghen! Eshin shin carry kpomo! Oga bee, u dey jot the scores? |
Re: Dealing With The Pressures From Married Men by coogar: 2:58pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
biolabee: Is tasha an agent of discord planted to fan flames tasha is a bloody attention seeker....... |
Re: Dealing With The Pressures From Married Men by Pataki: 2:58pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
coogar: Thank you! How do you people even hold a discourse with this dumb Ujujoan of a being? It takes two to tango. To come and start denigrating men here all in the name of attention seeking I really don't get it. If you don't want men either married or single to hit on you, kindly avoid the cyberspace. 1 Like |
Re: Dealing With The Pressures From Married Men by biolabee(m): 2:58pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
coogar: Poke and clean mouth All is fall in love and lucre |
Re: Dealing With The Pressures From Married Men by Idowuogbo(f): 3:00pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
biolabee: Is tasha an agent of discord planted to fan flamesShe's a fine looking Bebelet! Mr Pataki, I dey suspect u o! Na u dey disturb Tashibaby? Confess o! 1 Like |
Re: Dealing With The Pressures From Married Men by lafflaff123(m): 3:00pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
Make I concentrate on the one wey dey pain me now IDOWU. Even with the WAR/FIGHTNG going on around me on this page, I am crawling with bullets flying over my head and trying to get to my objective IDOWU. Hey Idowu I don try PM you but I no know if I do am well. Check your inbox or nairaland box if anything show. |
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