pleep: génération désordonnée

you and i both know its not difficult.

pleep: Why r you trying to do it, isn't it kinda unethical?

scale of 1 to 10 how attractive are you and the how attractive is his current Gf 1 to 10?

be honest now.

Mindependent:
Ehn but it's difficult for me na

Mindependent: all tips and comments welcome

Enegod: you have to accept the fact that, he used and dumpd youyou are now a waste in his eyes...find yourself another man , plssss leave them alone

firetrap: humans and their selfish and brutish nature. you care only for yourself and your not considering whether he's happy in his current relationship and u want to throw a wrench in his cog.

lesson 1: "trust" there must be trust in a relationship, if there's no trust it will never work. if you caused the breakup due to your philandering, he will never trust you again. and if he left you for someone else; how can you ever bring yourself to trust him.

lesson 2: as a man I can tell u that no man values a woman who cheaply offers herself to him. if he cannot fight to a certain extent to keep u. then you're of no use to him. if you ever beg him to take you back, him go use your eye see something. he'll use you and when he's done he'll move on to the next one.

my advice to you is that you apologise to him for whatever you did to him and let him know that you know that it will be hard for him to fully trust you again but your willing to earn his trust and try the hardest to make things work between the both of you. don't ever tell him to leave the person he's with for you cos if u hadn't left in the first place he wouldn't be with someone else

Mindependent:
Thanks but I didn't necessarily leave, it was long distance and things just went wrong

firetrap:

out of sight is not necessarily out of mind but in your case it probably is. I don't know the dynamic of the relationship but from the original post I can deduce that you started seeing someone else cos he was not around. so its safe to say that the main problem to your relationship is distance. if you want it to work you must be ready to up and move to the city he's in. if not, all the nairaland advice gotten will amount to nought. if you want it to work first fix the problem "distance". since your the one who wants back into his life you should be ready to go the distance (pun intended)

Mindependent:
Yes I'm willing to fix the distance problem but even when I do I don't know if he still wants me

firetrap:

you never know if u never try

gabon: Firetrap, on behalf of Missindependent I must say thank you for the advice you gave to her.

Missindependent, try to get him back, you love him and thats all that matters. you never can tell, he might not be happy in his present relationship.

girl fight the good fight.

Good Luck

tpia@:
smacks of low self esteem and deeper personal problems.

op, do you have issues you're afraid a new person wont be able to handle?

jubrealguy: Attack him with your pussy, he will succumb

aniispice: Go on baby!!!!!!!!!!! That's the spirit!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I'm gonna learn a lot from this thread!!!!!!!!!!!

pleep: not if hes already had it