There are a number of things that you should never
tell a man if you would like to have a good dating
relationship with him. Let us take a look at them so
that you can avoid them.

1. Being the first to say "I love you." You may say
this as a way of making him say that he loves you
too, but you should not try to push him to say
something he is not yet prepared for. You will
remain in an awkward position when he does not
do it.

2. If he promised to call but didn't, don't confront
him and ask why he did not call. You will be
basically accusing him of not caring for you, and it
is more likely that you will make him turn
defensive.

3. When you go out on a date, do not press him to
tell you when you should expect to see him once
more. If he is really interested, he will get in touch.
On the other hand, if he has no interest, then you
should not keep your life on hold for him.

4. In case he does not keep his promise to see you,
you should not ask him where he had been. The
hidden question is really whether he was out with
another girl, which will just show your fear and
insecurity.

5. In case he had gone out with another woman,
you will simply put both of you in an uncomfortable
position when you ask him whether he went to bed
with her. Even if he did, he is not doing it now.

6. Whether you have just started going out with a
guy or you have dated for some time, do not press
him with the question as to where your relationship
is going. If the relationship is promising, you will
simply
know this from his actions.

7. If you have something you would like to discuss
with him, bring it up casually at an appropriate
time. When you tell him that you would like to have
a talk, he will automatically become defensive as he
does not expect the conversation to be enjoyable.
You just need to choose your time well.

8. However much he has hurt you, going around
stating how you have him won't solve the issue. In
fact, when you maintain your cool even during a
breakup, you will win his admiration. But throwing
temper
tantrums will only push him further away from you.

9. In case you suspect that he has been up to no
good, telling him that you don't trust him won't
make him change. Instead, he will just get more
careful, and you won't be able to get the much
needed evidence.

Oh! You forgot number

10 - don't ask him for money or material gifts, he is not your father.

1. Being the first to say "I love you." You may say
this as a way of making him say that he loves you
too, but you should not try to push him to say
something he is not yet prepared for. You will
remain in an awkward position when he does not
do it.

lol, i guess no one will say it then

50calibre: Oh! You forgot number

10 - don't ask him for money or material gifts, he is not your father.

No stingy for ya girl side..... If she ask and you get give am! Who go chop ya money before?

Ijele-igbo:


what the Bleep a monkeys doing on my thread?

its you na

pleep: its you na

Weere na him be ya second name

Another list?

Smh

Ijele-igbo:


Weere na him be ya second name

weere na him be ya first name, and ya mamas name too

haha jk bro

Ijele-igbo:


No stingy for ya girl side..... If she ask and you get give am! Who go chop ya money before?

I get sister, mother, father, cousins, relations and my padi padi na them first b4 any gal unless she was there with me when I de hustle 4 the money

well i know what not to tell a man.but thats private and confidential.

Crap!

pendo89: well i know what not to tell a man.but thats private and confidential.

ur aids status?

50calibre: Oh! You forgot number

10 - don't ask him for money or material gifts, he is not your father.

why not, when he collects from me, what my father or brother connot collect from me?

amuneke-uto:
why not, when he collects from me, what my father or brother connot collect from me?

for your own self pride.he collects what? it's a give and take,call it sharing.

What with all these boring lists by this guy?
If you even start comparing the lists, they've started contradicting each other.

and dont tell him he has a small di* k compared to ur ex boyfrnd