Have you felt hurt or angry at your man and found yourself saying a whole bunch of things that started with: "I need. I want. I deserve. You should. You need to. You'd better"?

If those phrases sound familiar to you, that's because you were talking from the space of ENTITLEMENT.

Meaning, you felt like you were "entitled" or deserved to have your man do or say something to make you feel better about yourself or the relationship. You can have very good reasons for feeling this way.

When you're feeling hurt and start telling him, "You should" or "You really need to", you'll likely not get the kind of reaction you're expecting.

Instead of seeing how you feel, a man will simply SHUT DOWN and back even further away from you.

A man has to have HIS OWN REASONS for wanting to do all the things that make you happy and keep your relationship strong. You can never, ever, ever tell a man how to feel or act - just as a man should never do this with you.

But you can INSPIRE a man,and you can share what it is that you like, love and want. And therein lies the secret of having a solid relationship.

I am so stuck in that movie called lost