philusaau: i have got no job and i am getting married thins year. What most people do not understand is this. There are some blessings attached to marriage.

pato405: doesn't always work that way..

how about those who had lucrative jobs but lost it shortly after marriage, or those who had nothing,took a step of faith into it and got enviable jobs immediately after matrimony.

just try your best & leave the rest. sometimes, providence has something beyond your imagination in store for u

chlowi: Personally , I tink its a thin of choice , for instance , if I truly love my man and he isn't so financially stable and he is got potentials , ill marry him I for one don't ebven want the flambouyant wedding , we cud do a low key wedding , I know on my own am not a lazy woman , we both wd pt heads together , drink that garri together and see to it that we become made. Once a man is hardworking and smart success isn't far anymore . As a woman I also need to look at our financial capabilty before having babies , so far we can rent a house and feed and transport , 2 heads are always better dan one , so far the man and the woman work hard , if I can date a man why wnt I marry him ? ?? But den again sme men tend to forget in a hurry the woman who stood by them wen dey had nothing ...
My advice is , you don't have to be millionaire before u marry , at the same time don't be a lazy man that's wen I will not marry you .

jackbauersballs:

You must be an ugly girl.

A beautiful woman with loads of suitors will not settle for 'Drinking Garri'

No Offense.

chlowi:
Seems your fingers are so fast at lashes out stupid statements , I bet if u shud see my pictures ul swallow back ur word (ugly) and besides why does my opinion offend you? Its my opinion taake it or leave and u sound like a lady who wd marry for better days only , ur type dnt go far and end up single for d rest of ur miserable life. As ur sorry gold digging ass ends up a old retired LovePeddler ...let me repeat my point... So far I love that man and he loves me bak and he is got potentials ill stand by him ....now shut d Bleep up and digest wht I wrote earlier bfor telling your mum she is ugly

c.fours:


no need to be so disrespectful about women.
all u need to say is to advice men not to marry above their means. imagine a poor broke guy chasing after a miss world or a woman not in his league. of course he will be TOO poor for her.
then no need to be bitter or calling a woman gold digging azzz just because she's just not ur type. move on and marry a more homely or modest looking woman who can complement you. ie marry a makoko slum looking woman if ur finances resemble a makoko slum man LOL
we all know most men want a hot, beautiful, high maintenance woman to show off to their friends but plz be reasonable.. be honest first to yourself and also to others.

cut your coat according to your cloth and u will have no problems.

chlowi:
Seems your fingers are so fast at lashes out stupid statements , I bet if u shud see my pictures ul swallow back ur word (ugly)

and besides why does my opinion offend you?

Its my opinion taake it or leave and u sound like a lady who wd marry for better days only , ur type dnt go far and end up single for d rest of ur miserable life. As ur sorry gold digging ass ends up a old retired LovePeddler ...let me repeat my point...

So far I love that man and he loves me bak and he is got potentials ill stand by him ....now shut d Bleep up and digest wht I wrote earlier bfor telling my mum she is ugly

c.fours:


the guy spoke the truth. no need to be defensive.
if you are having suitors left and right. and have a choice between a financially stable good man or a broke good man. all women in their right senses will choose the good stable guy. this is not rocket science. just common sense.
i'm sure men also will not think twice to choose between a good beautiful girl and a good ugly girl.

Mr knowitall.:


Sorry but i failed to see where and how i disrespected women....are there no gold digging-asss women? All i said was if one is has a gold diggin-asss fiance...then it would be advisable to be financially stable before marring her....and for the record...not only beautiful girls are gold diggers....ive dated gorgeous girls that were completely humble and cared less about money....as long as one has a stable job....that all u need for marriage...a stable job...if a women is asking for more than a stable job...then you have a gold diggin-asss fiance chalay.... and i would advice you to run for your life....

c.fours:


ok. good for u. next time, go with a woman at ur level.
one man's meat is another monkey's "gold digger" fiance.

there are plenty of humble, modest women out there. they aren't glamorous but u will be much happier with them.
cut ur coat according to size and u will be happy.

Texas.Cowgirl:


Huh? When did I say a woman has to sit around and just relax?
Both of them have to be financially stable i.e stable job = stable income.
Marriage, almost all the time, leads to offsprings.....so if we're going to talk about marriage, we need to talk about children.

Anyway, this is where I leave the discussion. Goodnight.

chlowi:
Seems your fingers are so fast at lashes out stupid statements , I bet if u shud see my pictures ul swallow back ur word (ugly) and besides why does my opinion offend you? Its my opinion taake it or leave and u sound like a lady who wd marry for better days only , ur type dnt go far and end up single for d rest of ur miserable life. As ur sorry gold digging ass ends up a old retired LovePeddler ...let me repeat my point... So far I love that man and he loves me bak and he is got potentials ill stand by him ....now shut d Bleep up and digest wht I wrote earlier bfor telling your mum she is ugly

jackbauersballs:

You must be an ugly girl.

A beautiful woman with loads of suitors will not settle for 'Drinking Garri'

No Offense.

philusaau: i have got no job and i am getting married thins year. What most people do not understand is this. There are some blessings attached to marriage.

jackbauersballs:

I hope you post your pics with a note so we know it's you. I would like to be proved wrong



It doesn't...I honestly just think you're ugly based on your comments. Generally speaking, only ugly/deformed/old cargo women have to settle for for anything.
Truly beautiful women always have a host of suitors to choose from and as such can never be seen with POOR men.



I am a man. A fairly well-to-do one at that.

Once again exposing the fact that you are ugly.
No Beautiful woman is interested in looking at a man's potential because they can have already MADE men. Because the made men are already taken, the ugly girls have to roam further afield to scout for men with POTENTIAL similar to how Big and Small Football Clubs operate.
It is completely natural to be ugly so you shouldn't get angry at what I said.

You are an Ugly Girl. Embrace your Talent.

c.fours:


the guy spoke the truth. no need to be defensive.
if you are having suitors left and right. and have a choice between a financially stable good man or a broke good man. all women in their right senses will choose the good stable guy. this is not rocket science. just common sense.
i'm sure men also will not think twice to choose between a good beautiful girl and a good ugly girl.

slimyem: This question is a no-brainer.
What to do with a man who cannot provide for himself talk less a family?

tomber:
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You sound very unserious and i'm persuaded that you will b such an irresponsible husband looking for some disadvantaged women you can lord your ill gotten wealth on.
Everybd has the right to voice there opinion .
Not every lady is a gold digger lookin for some already made zombis.
And you'l be surprise that it will take a forever for your generatn unburn to have someone as beautiful as her.

dayokanu:

Then the woman can provide while the man does the housework

c.fours:


ok. good for u. next time, go with a woman at ur level.
one man's meat is another monkey's "gold digger" fiance.

there are plenty of humble, modest women out there. they aren't glamorous but u will be much happier with them.
cut ur coat according to size and u will be happy.

tomber:
o
You sound very unserious and i'm persuaded that you will b such an irresponsible husband looking for some disadvantaged women you can lord your ill gotten wealth on.
Everybd has the right to voice there opinion .
Not every lady is a gold digger lookin for some already made zombis.
And you'l be surprise that it will take a forever for your generatn unburn to have someone as beautiful as her.

Mr knowitall.:


am even confused i thought i was just giving an advice..when did this become about me? I would prefer to marry a girl from Makoko slum

tomber:
o
You sound very unserious and i'm persuaded that you will b such an irresponsible husband looking for some disadvantaged women you can lord your ill gotten wealth on.
Everybd has the right to voice there opinion .
Not every lady is a gold digger lookin for some already made zombis.
And you'l be surprise that it will take a forever for your generatn unburn to have someone as beautiful as her.

c.fours:


ok. good for u. next time, go with a woman at ur level.
one man's meat is another monkey's "gold digger" fiance.

there are plenty of humble, modest women out there. they aren't glamorous but u will be much happier with them.
cut ur coat according to size and u will be happy.

I love this piece . I noticed that when the issue of money comes into pre-intimacy in marriage or relationship, most guys object the idea of being financially stable before u can plunge into it. why This could only comes from 'broke' guys or the lazy ones who still want to enjoy both ways preaching LOVE as the most imoprtant factor. It is these set of people that implore their girlfriends to do abortions all because there's no money yet. Then why not work hard in your prime and stop messing around with girls or better still go with your level and be over with this gold-digging redundancy