Many women are in relationships with guys I refer to as "still single" and "seriously searching" it's a very challenging situation to be in as a woman. From a man's perspective here are the 7 ways to dictate it.

1: The Answer To Everything Is "Maybe"

Example:

He’ll maybe have time to see you tomorrow. He’ll maybe be able to come over and watch a movie for the night. When maybe becomes his go-to answer for nearly everything, maybe he’s single too. Okay, he most likely is single and very unavailable.

2: He Doesn't Go Out and Do Things Publicly With You: When your relationship is kept quiet and out of the public, he’s hiding you from something. Which technically implies, he's still single.

3: He's Not Interested In Meeting Your Friends: If your guy has no desire to meet your friends or vice-versa,you’re probably just a temp girlfriend.It's a matter of time before you realize,there isn't any relationship.

4: He Still Keeps In touch with Ex Girlfriends: Why would he still keep in touch with her? Your guess is as good as mine.

5: He Doesn't Answer The Phone In Front Of You: We're meant to be open and honest with each other, right? So why is he off you to take a call if he's not hiding something.

6: He Never Invites you To His Place: One key reason to this,is that,he's not ready to share life with you yet.

7: He Sees You only At Night Hours: Like often said "women are men's trophy" so why would a guy parade his only at night hours?

I don't understand really. Im confused.

Nice OP

can somebody summarize this long post for me

@op, I don't seem to understand the basis of this ur post

Food for thought 4 2day

Unto the next one

As a guy am 100% on the op's side.. very true. But you know what op, often times girls prefer it that way cos they are not even sure of themselves.

Are those signs that he's into you or the opposite.

Nothing is absolutely absolute !



Not even your laws or signs,


If you doubt me, ask karma, she now dwells in Nigeria .

[size=50]AND SO WHAT SHOULD THE GIRL DO SINCE SHE HAS FALL INTO LUV[/size]

Flaubert Ajiero: Many women are in relationships with guys I refer to as "still single" and "seriously searching" it's a very challenging situation to be in as a woman. From a man's perspective here are the 7 ways to dictate it.

1: The Answer To Everything Is "Maybe"

Example:

He’ll maybe have time to see you tomorrow. He’ll maybe be able to come over and watch a movie for the night. When maybe becomes his go-to answer for nearly everything, maybe he’s single too. Okay, he most likely is single and very unavailable.

2: He Doesn't Go Out and Do Things Publicly With You: When your relationship is kept quiet and out of the public, he’s hiding you from something. Which technically implies, he's still single.

3: He's Not Interested In Meeting Your Friends: If your guy has no desire to meet your friends or vice-versa,you’re probably just a temp girlfriend.It's a matter of time before you realize,there isn't any relationship.

4: He Still Keeps In touch with Ex Girlfriends: Why would he still keep in touch with her? Your guess is as good as mine.

5: He Doesn't Answer The Phone In Front Of You: We're meant to be open and honest with each other, right? So why is he off you to take a call if he's not hiding something.

6: He Never Invites you To His Place: One key reason to this,is that,he's not ready to share life with you yet.

7: He Sees You only At Night Hours: Like often said "women are men's trophy" so why would a guy parade his only at night hours?

I am totally confused. This should be the opposite because all the signs highlighted here goes to show that he is not single but passing time with you. Abi na only me dey observe this?

Mtscheeeewwwww!

What the hell is this American bullshyt. That shyt doesn't fly in naija.

..Well, number 6

There's dis girl, anytime she wanna come over my place for the night I by default have this answer why she can't

1. I really love her
2. I show her to all my friends, both male n female
3. I love moving with her I public n during day times
4. I dnt keep in touch with ex..they kip in touch wif me
5. I answer calls infront of her, with loud speaker sef
6. I really love meeting her friends n relatives sef


OP, your theory is kinda not true sha

BTW she nearly always say "I think you have another lady somewhere"
Dat sentence sabi vex me die eh, evn wen I've done 1-6 above and much more sef, wen she says dat my answer mostly is "I wanna go home now, cnt start proving wot you said is a lie" or "I'd be quiet"

Cos really, she's d only one...d ONLY one

Women sha, I cnt understand em

vizboy: AND SO WHAT SHOULD THE GIRL DO SINCE SHE HAS FALL INTO LUV

see English sha... seun go ban u ooo

op nice .so what next?

iamswizz: see English sha... seun go ban u ooo

rule no.21...lol

vizboy: [size=50]AND SO WHAT SHOULD THE GIRL DO SINCE SHE HAS FALL INTO LUV[/size]

It's '..since she has fallen in love' sir, not '...since she has fall into love'

#ThankMeLater

Mod shey you no see say him break rule 11 and 21?....*In Seun's voice

vizboy: [size=50]AND SO WHAT SHOULD THE GIRL DO SINCE SHE HAS FALL INTO LUV[/size]

She should continue with it who knows love is unpredictable

Dazz all

stupid post,nothing makes sense abt ur post.

Gombs: ..Well, number 6

There's dis girl, anytime she wanna come ova I by default have this answer why she can't

1. I really love her
2. I show her to all my friends, both male n female
3. I love moving with her I public n during day times
4. I dnt keep in touch with ex..they kip in touch wif me
5. I answer calls infront of her, with loud speaker sef
6. I really love meeting her friends n relatives sef


OP, your theory is kinda not true sha

BTW she nearly always say "I think you have another lady somewhere"
Dat sentence sabi vex me die eh, evn wen I've done 1-6 above and much more sef, wen she says dat my answer mostly is "I wanna go home now, cnt start proving wot you said is a lie" or "I'd be quiet"

Cos really, she's d only one...d ONLY one

Women sha, I cnt understand em

gbam...some women no matter what you do, they wont give u d trust.
Even if u r Jack Dawson or Romeo

Odunharry: gbam...some women no matter what you do, they wont give u d trust.
Even if u r Jack Dawson or Romeo

Aswear..and then there's the Blackmail-Crying over nothing

The same old usual stuff. So because am tied to a new relationship i shouldnt pick my ex-gf calls again? So crappy!

iamswizz: can somebody summarize this long post for me

This post is "long"? If it was the full gist of how Wizkid bought a new wristwatch yesterday, complete with all the details, you wouldn't say it's long

iamswizz: can somebody summarize this long post for me

no, cause it can't be any shorter

Toks2008:

I am totally confused. This should be the opposite because all the signs highlighted here goes to show that he is not single but passing time with you. Abi na only me dey observe this?

Same here...

@Flaubert guy, how far nah!

You don finally join Nairaland. I go advice you to choose a different user name and remove your real photo from your profile to avoid identity theft.

Na Is... be dis, we don rock Sunderland before.

Nice thread by the way.

iamswizz: see English sha... seun go ban u ooo

Not every one can phonate properly

iamswizz: see English sha... seun go ban u ooo

Not every one can phonate properly

your post is very confusing. all the signs listed are typical of a married guy and not someone who is single as indicated in your post. (i mean why will a single guy only want to see you at night, or even not interested in you knowing his place.