190: im sure lack of s-e-x is the main cause of your problems today

my advice

go s-e-x that man of yours asap and end the problems in your relationship

if it doesnt work, s-e-x 190 for more advice

Jhulyan: HW DO U KNW WE AINT HAVING SEX?

cos as a sharp guy and a bad guy at that
i would keep vexing with a girl that hasnt s-e-x-ed me,
truss me, s-e-x ur man and save ur relationship

It would do you MORE harm and NO good to listen to 190,,let alone replying him.
#jt a word of caution....@OP

why - cant i voice my own opinions too

25omega: if you guys have been fighting and breaking up then it obvious that there is no communication. when i say communication i dont mean talking but i mean actually talking about the issues you both fight over while figuring out how to avoid those pit falls. if you want it to work you both will have to create a comfortable situation where you both can say whats on your mind without blowing up while finding solutions to the trivial issues you fight over

is this just a ploy to get on FP?

Afam4eva: @OP
Can yhou intimae us with some of the things that has been making you guys breakup and makeup.

190:

cos as a sharp guy and a bad guy at that
i would keep vexing with a girl that hasnt s-e-x-ed me,
truss me, s-e-x ur man and save ur relationship

Jhulyan: like I'll be paid millions for being on fp.mtcheeeew.thanks for your comment tho.appreciated

Jhulyan: actually he wants intimacy but am not ready, so cus of that other small meaningless things cause problems

Dygeasy: 190 is right afterall

Jhulyan: actually he wants intimacy but am not ready, so cus of that other small meaningless things cause problems

MRbrownJAY:

190 was right on the money!
so your guys wants something that you cannot give him, and you are wondering why there are issues in your r/ship? lol! isnt it obvious?! you guys tried to be together while you are different and want different things from that r/ship, simple as that!

Jhulyan: can't someone have a perfect and problem free relationship without s e x?

MRbrownJAY:

YES THEY CAN, if thats what they are "both" seeking......but we can safely say that this is NOT what you guys are about. this guys has an untamed tiger in his groin, and although you are not having sex with him, you should find ways to tame that tiger, in some ways or another. failure to do so will result in problems such as the ones you are having (or worse).

there are many ways to give this guy "happy endings" without having sex, the catch is:"how far are you willing to go to keep this r/ship on track?".

Jhulyan: actually he wants intimacy but am not ready, so cus of that other small meaningless things cause problems

Jhulyan: actually he wants intimacy but am not ready, so cus of that other small meaningless things cause problems

190:


why - cant i voice my own opinions too

alutacontinua:

Don't tell me that 190 guy is actually correct!
The boy dey make sense sometimes sha oo

DigitalSignal:

Any reason why you are not ready but want to keep him around?

Mr knowitall.:
from your writing you sound like a kid that shouldn't even be in a relationship to begin with....because i just dont see anyone 20 and up asking this kinda question on nairaland.....my advice to you is to face our education for now...when you are a bit more mature while not give it another try.....

Jhulyan: nothing really, am just scared things might change after it.i just need some time

sexkillz: No one should force you to do what you do not want. That boy doesn't love you. A loved one never forces you against your wishes. It's your body and you decide what to do with it, and not some stup!d boy who is only after the sex. He can as well go to hell. You don't need such persons.