I dont know how you feel about this but sincerely speaking, i dont like it...hv dated my bf for 4yrs, we do hv misunderstanding and i hv never gone to his frens to discuss our quarrel.. i believe in settling it ourselves without any third party not even family.... but his frens gurl fren to run to him wen they hv misunderstanding and i dont feel comfortable about this, as i've told him. some call him every midnight, wen i ask he says "she is hving misunderstanding with her bf and wants me to settle"..at 11pm?!.... some girls cud be wild, cheap and hysterical....in d process cud result to smth else..she falls in luv with d bf fren thinking he is nicer........ ..