If a woman loses respect
for you as a man, she will
also lose attraction and
begin to fall out of love
with you. It might’ve taken you a long
time to find “the one” that
you’re now in love with, but
unless you’re careful about
avoiding the following
mistakes, she’ll soon be thinking about backing out of
the relationship for good. Let's
have some clues...
1. Belittling Her in Public: Playful teasing each other in
private can be a fun aspect to
your relationship, especially if
it’s kept light and you both
have understand each other’s
sense of humor. Too often though, some men will belittle
their woman in front of their
friends or family in a way
that she feels is cruel and
sincerely harmful to her
confidence and sense of pride and comfort in front of
others.
In an effort to “show off” to
his friends or because he
believes that some “habit” his
girl has is silly, some guys will say hurtful things about their
girlfriend/wife. Even if it’s
done when she’s not there,
what the man says about his
woman is probably going to
get back to her eventually and she will feel betrayed and
lose respect for him when it
does.
2. Being Too Bossy: Women like to have their man
be the head of the
relationship, but when he
starts getting too bossy and
treating her like a slave or a
servant, that’s when she will begin to lose respect for him.
Being bossy sets in when it
has to do with house chores.
If you want your relationship
to last, you should let your
girl do much of the housework, while you
spontaneously help out with
the housework, but focus
mainly on doing the “manly”
jobs around the house,
making the big decisions and basically leading the
relationship. However, when
the man decides that he’s the
“boss” and his woman has to
do whatever he demands of
her as if he “owns” her, she will lose respect for him and
want out; especially if their
sex life isn’t that fulfilling for
her either.
3. Always Letting Her
“Win”: On the opposite side of being
too bossy, some guys will
give in to whatever a woman
wants because he is too
fearful of losing her if he
doesn’t yield to her every whim and desire. While it’s
true that a woman will
usually “test” you to see how
much she can “get away
with,” what she really wants
is reassurance that you are in- charge of their relationship by
seeing that you don’t agree to
her every request.
If it gets to the point where
her man agrees with her
every request or “demand,” especially out of fear of her
leaving him, she will walk all
over him until she eventually
loses all respect for him. She’ll
then fall into the arms of
another man who will show her who is truly “in charge” of
their relationship. Girls may
act like they want to be the
boss in this new age of
independent women who can
do whatever they want, but deep down they all want a
man who is a man and who
can and will continually take
the lead in a relationship. Any
bros out there fumbling...,
c'mon dude you the man, act up!
4. Being Weak or
Submissive Around Other
Men: This one point you must not
toy with. A woman is always
watching to see how much of
a man a guy really is. One of
the best ways a woman can
see how strong (mentally and emotionally) a guy is, is to
watch him interact with other
men. Whether he’s chatting to
men at a party or talking to a
male shop attendant in a
store, the woman is watching to see if he acts submissively
and places the other man/men
above him in terms of
dominance. If he bosses her
around at home, but let’s
most (if not all) other guys boss him around outside of
the home, she will lose respect
for him instanta and won’t
want to “follow his orders” at
home - even akpos no go gree
if na you date am! If you want to learn how to
be an alpha male who men respect and women love and
lust after, please read wide
about being an alpha male.
You’ll be surprised at how
easy it is to be the alpha male
in a situation and how much your life will improve, not
only with women, but at
work (or study) and around
friends and family. I no say
make you turn
commando...abeg na nigeria police go carry you shine! Life
is completely different when,
everywhere you go, people
look up to you and respect
you. Good things will just
start happening to you all of the time. Doors open up for
you and women just
naturally want to be with
you. There’s no need to try to
get a woman attracted – she
already is because you’re alpha bravo - just saying.
5. Being Suspicious of Her
Every: Move Trust is essential for the health
of a relationship. Without it,
all sorts of problems begin to
emerge. One of the fastest
ways to erode and eventually
destroy the trust in a relationship is to become
suspicious and overly
protective of your woman.
Regularly accusing her of
wanting to cheat or of doing
things behind your back will only lead to a breakdown of
trust and a halt to the flow of
love in the relationship.
Whether she’s legitimately
working with a male co-
worker on a project, going out with her friends to the
movies or to do some
shopping or running errands,
some guys will find it
difficult, if not impossible, to
trust their woman unless they are with her. In an effort to
control and keep tabs on her,
some guys will stay in
constant contact with their
woman to find out where she
is and what she is doing, snoop on her e-mails and
phone messages to see if any
guys are saying anything that
could mean she wants to be
more than “just friends” with
them and so on. Women find this to be a major turn-off
because they aren’t attracted
to men who desperately need
them for their emotional
security and feelings of self-
worth. My advice get yourself busy looking for money.
6. Whining Like a Victim: For a variety of reasons, a
man might find that his life
plans are suddenly in jeopardy
(e.g. he loses a job, his shares/
stocks/investments plummet
and lose tremendous value, he gets caught up in heated
disagreements with family or
friends, etc.). It’s
understandable that when
things go wrong like that, a
man might want to talk about his problems with his
woman, but when he whines
and complains like a victim
without looking for solutions,
a woman’s respect for him
will quickly dwindle not every lady though but it good
you brace up. Everyone has
disappointments and
problems that have to be
dealt with, but some men will
let it destroy them by dwelling on it and acting like a
“victim of life.”
When a man is in a
relationship, he should
sometimes seek his woman’s
advice to see how she feels and what she thinks might be
a good way of tackling a
problem. Even if he doesn’t
follow her suggestions, but
instead weighs them up as a
possible solution against his ideas, a woman will greatly
appreciate that her opinion
matters to him and that he is
actively trying to find a way
to resolve his problems
instead of moping, whining and complaining, but not
actively seeking a solution.
Boys complain and whine,
while men decide and act.
7. Lying: Being able to rely on you to
be truthful and live with
integrity is one of the most
important things to a woman
when in a relationship with
you. It doesn’t matter if it’s a “little white lie” to “keep out
of trouble with her” or a
major fib that, if discovered,
will have life-altering
ramifications, most women
won’t tolerate their man routinely being dishonest. In
fact, once your woman has
caught you lying, she will
never be able to fully rely on
you again. She will not be able
to see you as her “rock” or her man of stone and her respect
for you will diminish.
Personally speaking, I’ve been
able to consistently win
arguments with my
girlfriends and consistently stop women from putting
heat on me about something,
simply by saying, “Hey, have
I ever lied to you? I always
tell you the truth, right?” and
the woman then has to give in and smile. From there, she
can rely on you to lead her
with the integrity and
strength of a true alpha male.
So, as a general rule, I
recommend you just tell it how it is with women. Don’t
lie, don’t cheat and don’t
pretend to be something
you’re not. Be the straight up,
cool guy that you are and
everything will be fine. But some girls like lie lie sha don't
fall deep into it least you turn
a pathological liar - just learn how to garnish it.

U might need to kidnap me to read this long thing!

One thing i like about this thread is the title and the use of the word "possible". Seriously OP, if not because you are a guy (i guess), i would have given you a very mighty hug. Better than all those crappy threads filled with generalizations and 'baseless' conclusions.

SLIDE waxie:
U might need to kidnap me to read this long thing!

Bros, chill. Here is one bottle of alomo for you.(dont even know what alomo is)

Caracta: One thing i like about this thread is the title and the use of the word "possible". Seriously OP, if not because you are a guy (i guess), i would have given you a very mighty hug. Better than all those crappy threads filled with generalizations and 'baseless' conclusions.

*blushes* the hug is still welcome.

Arabanco87:

what stops you from hugging him as a guy? are you a nun?

lol, may be a reverend sister.

Arabanco87:

what stops you from hugging him as a guy? are you a nun?

Yes na. Don't you know?

idnoble135:
*blushes* the hug is still welcome.

Aint you a guy?

I love your siggy. Awwwwwwwww!

*hugs him not

Make i read am first...but it's long o...chei!

Arabanco87:

i know now, wondering what a nun is doing here, especially in the romance section, you are fake nun!! indeed

I was passing by. Too many relationship issues, i need to give my opinion (as a nun).

Caracta: Make i read am first...but it's long o...chei!

the reading is worth it and opinion on the topic will be appreciated.

idnoble135:
the reading is worth it and opinion on the topic will be appreciated.

Hmmm. Nice one. I agree with the post. I also think it's applicabe to both men and women. All in all, i like those points up there. You wrote that, huh? I mean, your original work?

This one too long jor! I no fit read am, any woman wey wan lose respect for me dey free..

World war III: This one too long jor! I no fit read am, any woman wey wan lose respect for me dey free..

even your wifey?