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7 Reasons Women Lose Respect For Men by Nobody: 5:42pm On Nov 19, 2012 |
I just thought I should share this with NL dudes...If a woman loses respect for you as a man, she will also lose attraction and begin to fall out of love with you. It might’ve taken you a long time to find “the one” that you’re now in love with, but unless you’re careful about avoiding the following mistakes, she’ll soon be thinking about backing out of the relationship for good. Let's have some clues... 1. Belittling Her in Public Playful teasing each other in private can be a fun aspect to your relationship, especially if it’s kept light and you both have understand each other’s sense of humor. Too often though, some men will belittle their woman in front of their friends or family in a way that she feels is cruel and sincerely harmful to her confidence and sense of pride and comfort in front of others. In an effort to “show off” to his friends or because he believes that some “habit” his girl has is stupid, some guys will say hurtful things about their girlfriend/wife. Even if it’s done when she’s not there, what the man says about his woman is probably going to get back to her eventually and she will feel betrayed and lose respect for him when it does. 2. Being Too Bossy Women like to have their man be the head of the relationship, but when he starts getting too bossy and treating her like a slave or a servant, that’s when she will begin to lose respect for him. Being bossy sets in when it has to do with house chores. If you want your relationship to last, you should let your girl do much of the housework, while you spontaneously help out with the housework, but focus mainly on doing the “manly” jobs around the house, making the big decisions and basically leading the relationship. However, when the man decides that he’s the “boss” and his woman has to do whatever he demands of her as if he “owns” her, she will lose respect for him and want out; especially if their sex life isn’t that fulfilling for her either. 3. Always Letting Her “Win” On the opposite side of being too bossy, some guys will give in to whatever a woman wants because he is too fearful of losing her if he doesn’t yield to her every whim and desire. While it’s true that a woman will usually “test” you to see how much she can “get away with,” what she really wants is reassurance that you are in-charge of their relationship by seeing that you don’t agree to her every request. If it gets to the point where her man agrees with her every request or “demand,” especially out of fear of her leaving him, she will walk all over him until she eventually loses all respect for him. She’ll then fall into the arms of another man who will show her who is truly “in charge” of their relationship. Girls may act like they want to be the boss in this new age of independent women who can do whatever they want, but deep down they all want a man who is a man and who can and will continually take the lead in a relationship. Any bros out there fumbling..., c'mon dude you the man, act up! 4. Being Weak or Submissive Around Other Men This one point you must not toy with. A woman is always watching to see how much of a man a guy really is. One of the best ways a woman can see how strong (mentally and emotionally) a guy is, is to watch him interact with other men. Whether he’s chatting to men at a party or talking to a male shop attendant in a store, the woman is watching to see if he acts submissively and places the other man/men above him in terms of dominance. If he bosses her around at home, but let’s most (if not all) other guys boss him around outside of the home, she will lose respect for him instanta and won’t want to “follow his orders” at home - even akpos no go gree if na you date am! If you want to learn how to be an alpha male who men respect and women love and lust after,please read wide about being an alpha male. You’ll be surprised at how easy it is to be the alpha male in a situation and how much your life will improve, not only with women, but at work (or study) and around friends and family. I no say make you turn commando...abeg na nigeria police go carry you shine! Life is completely different when, everywhere you go, people look up to you and respect you. Good things will just start happening to you all of the time. Doors open up for you and women just naturally want to be with you. There’s no need to try to get a woman attracted – she already is because you’re alpha bravo - just saying 5. Being Suspicious of Her Every Move Trust is essential for the health of a relationship. Without it, all sorts of problems begin to emerge. One of the fastest ways to erode and eventually destroy the trust in a relationship is to become suspicious and overly protective of your woman. Regularly accusing her of wanting to cheat or of doing things behind your back will only lead to a breakdown of trust and a halt to the flow of love in the relationship. Whether she’s legitimately working with a male co-worker on a project, going out with her friends to the movies or to do some shopping or running errands, some guys will find it difficult, if not impossible, to trust their woman unless they are with her. In an effort to control and keep tabs on her, some guys will stay in constant contact with their woman to find out where she is and what she is doing, snoop on her e-mails and phone messages to see if any guys are saying anything that could mean she wants to be more than “just friends” with them and so on. Women find this to be a major turn-off because they aren’t attracted to men who desperately need them for their emotional security and feelings of self-worth. My advice get yourself busy looking for money. 6. Whining Like a Victim For a variety of reasons, a man might find that his life plans are suddenly in jeopardy (e.g. he loses a job, his shares/stocks/investments plummet and lose tremendous value, he gets caught up in heated disagreements with family or friends, etc.). It’s understandable that when things go wrong like that, a man might want to talk about his problems with his woman, but when he whines and complains like a victim without looking for solutions, a woman’s respect for him will quickly dwindle not every lady though but it good you brace up. Everyone has disappointments and problems that have to be dealt with, but some men will let it destroy them by dwelling on it and acting like a “victim of life.” When a man is in a relationship, he should sometimes seek his woman’s advice to see how she feels and what she thinks might be a good way of tackling a problem. Even if he doesn’t follow her suggestions, but instead weighs them up as a possible solution against his ideas, a woman will greatly appreciate that her opinion matters to him and that he is actively trying to find a way to resolve his problems instead of moping, whining and complaining, but not actively seeking a solution. Boys complain and whine, while men decide and act. 7. Lying Being able to rely on you to be truthful and live with integrity is one of the most important things to a woman when in a relationship with you. It doesn’t matter if it’s a “little white lie” to “keep out of trouble with her” or a major fib that, if discovered, will have life-altering ramifications, most women won’t tolerate their man routinely being dishonest. In fact, once your woman has caught you lying, she will never be able to fully rely on you again. She will not be able to see you as her “rock” or her man of stone and her respect for you will diminish. Personally speaking, I’ve been able to consistently win arguments with my girlfriends and consistently stop women from putting heat on me about something, simply by saying, “Hey, have I ever lied to you? I always tell you the truth, right?” and the woman then has to give in and smile. From there, she can rely on you to lead her with the integrity and strength of a true alpha male. So, as a general rule, I recommend you just tell it how it is with women. Don’t lie, don’t cheat and don’t pretend to be something you’re not. Be the straight up, cool guy that you are and everything will be fine. but some girls like lie lie sha don't fall deep into it least you turn a pathological liar - just learn how to garnish it.. Finally - get money man, bc I have seen some men who are trespassers of the above but bc of how heavy their pockets are they however succeed in sustaining relationship(s). http://www.themodernman.com/dating/relationships/why-women-lose-respect-for-men.html Have fun 38 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 7 Reasons Women Lose Respect For Men by Tedyk(m): 6:19pm On Nov 19, 2012 |
Tori too much,aha.U try sha |
Re: 7 Reasons Women Lose Respect For Men by DExplorer1: 6:40pm On Nov 19, 2012 |
Dude, do post the website url you copied it from. |
Re: 7 Reasons Women Lose Respect For Men by Nobody: 7:36pm On Nov 19, 2012 |
Very good points OP, Am glad u ended by underscoring the importance of money in a r/ship. However,avoid plagiarism by adding the link to the source of info 1 Like |
Re: 7 Reasons Women Lose Respect For Men by 190theclown: 9:47pm On Nov 19, 2012 |
the quickest way a NIGERIAN GIRL can ever loose respect for you is when you STOP GIVING HER MONEY 52 Likes |
Re: 7 Reasons Women Lose Respect For Men by cdamsel(f): 9:53pm On Nov 19, 2012 |
190-the-clown:u re really beginning 2 annoy me,dis isn't funny again 3 Likes |
Re: 7 Reasons Women Lose Respect For Men by born2boink(m): 10:01pm On Nov 19, 2012 |
190-the-clown:thank 190 for saying the truth, if a man is broke in nigeria, respect is automatically lost from a woman 4 Likes |
Re: 7 Reasons Women Lose Respect For Men by 190theclown: 10:05pm On Nov 19, 2012 |
cdamsel: u re really beginning 2 annoy me,dis isn't funny again born2fuck: [size=18pt]thank 190 for saying the truth[/size], if a man is broke in nigeria, respect is automatically lost from a woman 11 Likes |
Re: 7 Reasons Women Lose Respect For Men by born2boink(m): 10:09pm On Nov 19, 2012 |
cdamsel: u re really beginning 2 annoy me,dis isn't funny againmost handsome, good looking and nice men are hawking pure water,galas and newspaper on the roads. But you (most women ) will rather go for ugly,wicked bankers or lawyers and you come on nairaland crying men dissapoint you. Biko, no bi today tail dey commot for monkey nyansh 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 7 Reasons Women Lose Respect For Men by 1920MaMa: 10:53pm On Nov 19, 2012 |
190-the-clown: true, only if the girl is jobless. i don't see the reason y a working class lady would depend on a man for money. 2 Likes |
Re: 7 Reasons Women Lose Respect For Men by cdamsel(f): 11:10pm On Nov 19, 2012 |
born2fuck: most handsome, good looking and nice men are hawking pure water,galas and newspaper on the roads. But you (most women ) will rather go for ugly,wicked bankers or lawyers and you come on nairaland crying men dissapoint you. Biko, no bi today tail dey commot for monkey nyanshwho Is dis 1 Abi go follow ur mates dey dustbin,do we know each other? 1 Like |
Re: 7 Reasons Women Lose Respect For Men by camgal(f): 11:46pm On Nov 19, 2012 |
This is a good post but I have a quick, unlinked question. Do you think hitting a woman can ever be justified? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2YNMFxciY20&feature=plcp |
Re: 7 Reasons Women Lose Respect For Men by obowunmi(m): 12:37am On Nov 20, 2012 |
Sometimes, lying is necessary. |
Re: 7 Reasons Women Lose Respect For Men by OdenigboAroli(m): 1:01am On Nov 20, 2012 |
Nonsense; This is for broke a.ss nigguhs....Women love money and you will win and control about any woman if you got the cheese. I will tell all of you guys here to go rake some mullah,clean your self up and watch the magic crackles...nansense. 5 Likes |
Re: 7 Reasons Women Lose Respect For Men by obowunmi(m): 1:43am On Nov 20, 2012 |
born2fuck: most handsome, good looking and nice men are hawking pure water,galas and newspaper on the roads. But you (most women ) will rather go for ugly,wicked bankers or lawyers and you come on nairaland crying men dissapoint you. Biko, no bi today tail dey commot for monkey nyansh Hahahaha - funny guy. |
Re: 7 Reasons Women Lose Respect For Men by born2boink(m): 2:26am On Nov 20, 2012 |
cdamsel: who Is dis 1BBMM- Big Boy Making Money, you don't need to know me, my money and dick speak anywhere I go while my tongue remain silent 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 7 Reasons Women Lose Respect For Men by Mynd44: 4:03am On Nov 20, 2012 |
I saw the first and realised that the whole thing is full of poo. "BATTERING HER IN PUBLIC" so it is okay to do so in private? 2 Likes |
Re: 7 Reasons Women Lose Respect For Men by azpekuliar: 7:51am On Nov 20, 2012 |
Plagiarism. |
Re: 7 Reasons Women Lose Respect For Men by cdamsel(f): 7:58am On Nov 20, 2012 |
born2fuck: BBMM- Big Boy Making Money, you don't need to know me, my money and dick speak anywhere I go while my tongue remain silentdoes it look like I ve plans 2 know u?4 all those una hungry girls way una dey meet,my father's pension is ur yearly salary,tell me wat more u ve 2 offer,even if I don't work 2day,I ve an inheritance so pls Bleep off jare :- my vibrator works way beta dan ur dick dat looks like dat of a toothpick |
Re: 7 Reasons Women Lose Respect For Men by born2boink(m): 8:17am On Nov 20, 2012 |
cdamsel: does it look like I ve plans 2 know u?4 all those una hungry girls way una dey meet,my father's pension is ur yearly salary,tell me wat more u ve 2 offer,even if I don't work 2day,I ve an inheritance so pls Bleep off jare :-laugh my ass off, who told I rely on salary and be flirting which such money, baby niggar, U don't know anything.... 2 Likes |
Re: 7 Reasons Women Lose Respect For Men by cdamsel(f): 8:24am On Nov 20, 2012 |
born2fuck: laugh my ass off, who told I rely on salary and be flirting which such money, baby niggar, U don't know anything....& I bet u know?d only tin u know as u ve told me is dat u were born 2 fucc'k,come bk wen u learn 2 wear ur pants 2 Likes |
Re: 7 Reasons Women Lose Respect For Men by born2boink(m): 8:39am On Nov 20, 2012 |
cdamsel: & I bet u know?d only tin u know as u ve told me is dat u were born 2 fucc'k,come bk wen u learn 2 wear ur pantsI don't argue or fight with women, I'm too big for that 1 Like |
Re: 7 Reasons Women Lose Respect For Men by Mynd44: 8:46am On Nov 20, 2012 |
Interesting |
Re: 7 Reasons Women Lose Respect For Men by cdamsel(f): 9:33am On Nov 20, 2012 |
born2fuck: I don't argue or fight with women, I'm too big for thatgood boi,admit defeat wen u've been beaten,do ve a swell day,don't 4get 2 put ya pants on |
Re: 7 Reasons Women Lose Respect For Men by UncleJJ(m): 9:52am On Nov 20, 2012 |
cdamsel: does it look like I ve plans 2 know u?4 all those una hungry girls way una dey meet,my father's pension is ur yearly salary,tell me wat more u ve 2 offer,even if I don't work 2day,I ve an inheritance so pls Bleep off jare :- Do toothpicks have joysticks. Just because ur dad is rich, dnt mean ur cool. Ur talkin bout ur honeyPot in public already says wat sort of person u r. Low selfesteem, ur probably black and ugly too, wear too much perfume and use huge designer glasses to cover ur frog eyes. Make sure u disinfect ur vibrator regularly, we dnt want u to catch "no man wants to fuk me". Ugly duck. 9 Likes |
Re: 7 Reasons Women Lose Respect For Men by Nobody: 9:59am On Nov 20, 2012 |
@ topic, Being a career Borrower of Money (read 'moni'). |
Re: 7 Reasons Women Lose Respect For Men by born2boink(m): 9:59am On Nov 20, 2012 |
cdamsel: good boi,admit defeat wen u've been beaten,do ve a swell day,don't 4get 2 put ya pants onI only keep silent for one reason and forever silent for same reasons, who knows what the future, you and I may find ourselves intimate with each other in future, so why will I fight or argue now 3 Likes |
Re: 7 Reasons Women Lose Respect For Men by Mynd44: 10:02am On Nov 20, 2012 |
Y'all don't stop now |
Re: 7 Reasons Women Lose Respect For Men by Nobody: 10:47am On Nov 20, 2012 |
Mynd_44: Y'all don't stop now 1 Like |
Re: 7 Reasons Women Lose Respect For Men by cdamsel(f): 11:15am On Nov 20, 2012 |
born2fuck: I only keep silent for one reason and forever silent for same reasons, who knows what the future, you and I may find ourselves intimate with each other in future, so why will I fight or argue nowjust go ahead & chyke me I go gree,I've a tin 4 u,& u know wat dey say about angry sexxx |
Re: 7 Reasons Women Lose Respect For Men by Redmosquito(m): 11:39am On Nov 20, 2012 |
Minion: Your Sickness! Why do women lose respect for men? Hades: Let me ask you this instead. Why give unto Caesar what is not Caesar's? Minion: I shield my face from your intense wisdom, I don't want my eyes of ignorance to be burnt 2 Likes |
Re: 7 Reasons Women Lose Respect For Men by joyblinks(f): 11:46am On Nov 20, 2012 |
@OP U forgot to add cheating... Even if she decides to still be with him, she will loose respect for him. 2 Likes |
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