dopeJemi: u gat a better pLace?

dopeJemi: u gat a better pLace?

mekaboy: yes nw, basket ball court, mechanic workshop, outside police station, orphanage, stream, river, bridge, farm, library, bus stop,park, gym, freedom square. Venue plenty.

mekaboy: yes nw, basket ball court, mechanic workshop, outside police station, orphanage, stream, river, bridge, farm, library, bus stop,park, gym, freedom square. Venue plenty.

SniperInADiaper: There are so many public options without having to resort to eatery...

Mynd_44:
But we have become so lazy, we can't think of those places

SniperInADiaper:

I dont think its about lazy.. I think its a preconceived notion that that is what is expected because its become so normal.

SniperInADiaper:

I dont think its about lazy.. I think its a preconceived notion that that is what is expected because its become so normal.

mekaboy: It is possible that most Nigerian girls will agree to go out with you on a first date at an eatry even if they don't like you.

If you call other venues they might change their mind and say they are busy.

SLIDE waxie: it's not becomin normal in any way! The kids started it, they can upold their lagacy!

Now, biliv ds, IN MY WHOLE WILD LIFE, I AV NEVA BEING TO AN EATERY WITH A LADY!!!
It looks degrading and so shameful to me!

Mrs..Chima:
First dates are about getting to know each other in a fun place. Its not about fucking and kissing.

Mynd_44:
You need to stop asking hungry cheap girls out who the only thing they care about is "rice and chicken". A lot of girls would not mind going bird watching with you if they would enjoy it.

Must you always think food?

Mrs..Chima:
First dates are about getting to know each other in a fun place. Its not about fucking and kissing.

SniperInADiaper:

Indeed.

But I just think there are better places to get to know somebody without having to be eating.

mekaboy:

Even the rich and satisfied ones still want to assess for by the type of restaurant you take them. They will drive and meet you at an expensive restaurant. After which they will say they like your taste, your classy.that is after you spent 14k on food for two of you and 8,500 on a bottle of cheap red wine.

You probably go on two or 3 such dates before she is comfortable enough to visit your or u visit her.

Both the hungry ones and the comfortable ones all prefer
Restaurant. The only difference is the class of the restaurant.

Mynd_44:
Just cos a girl is from a wealthy background does not mean she is not cheap and hungry. Change your taste in woman and go for those who have something to care about other than food.

mekaboy:

You have to be physically attracted to a girl first approach her before you get to know which category she belongs to. If she says u can't come to her house and she can't come to yours. They you let her choose, then she suggest an eatery close to her house, you won't run because u feel she is hungry. There are different types of girls in Nigeria. Hungry at different levels.

Example. You met a girl in a flight going to Abuja, u chatted, exchanged number. Now u want to meet her on her first date. She tells you to come to her house instead that she is cooking.

You are excited and feel you have met the a good type. Then you go to her house. She is wearing something hot. Serves you indomie and red wine. After eating and chatting she tells you to come to her room and see something.

You enter room she takes your shoes off, your mind don dey think about condom. She opens a box and bring out a shoe and tell u to try it on. She says it fits you. Brings some shirts, then tell u to choose from the shoes and shirts.

Now the shoe is 28k each. And 2 shirts for 12k each. She starts to pet you and ask you to take 2 shoes and 2 shirts.

If you say you don't have enough money on you, she says she will use her car to take you to the atm that you don't need to drive.

You manage to escape, she will tell you she will keep them for you. So the next time you call it means your ready to come pick them.

So you never can tell who a person is from his or her looks.

Mynd_44: You can't tell a person by looks yes, but why must the first date be an eatery?

You meet a girl on a flight, exchange numbers and you call her when you are in lagos that you would love to meet her again. She says she would love that and you tell her about some art exhibition at some art gallery and that she would love the paintings on display there. What is wrong with my scenario?

Why must we always mention Tantalizers and Sweet Sensations as a meet up place?

mekaboy:

And if she asks you to buy an expensive one, that it will fit her room . You tell her you jst brought her to watch not buy. Lol


Date in Nigeria today automatically translates to eating and drinking. I think insecurity is actually a contributing factor.

Mynd_44:
If a stranger walks up to you in the middle of the road and asks you for 10k what would you do? Give the stranger or tell the person no?

Is it that difficult to say no?

mekaboy:

Its not as easy as u say. When you invite a girl you jst met to accompany you to an art exhibition you have to prepare for emergency.

Using the word NO on a first date is abit harsh.

Mynd_44:
Truth.

The kids started it and they can stick with it. They don't have enough game to ask a girl out and hence they use the food as a smoke screen and since they only go after the hungry ones, they have a high success rate