I realised Nigerian ladies detest going out with physically challenged people of whatever manner. Not sure if its immaturity or the society we live or the physically challenged themselves do not comport themselves when it comes to relationship matters.

Ok,how would you advise a 25yrs undergraduate paraplegic confined to a wheelchair (someone with spinal cord injury that can make use of the upper limbs 100% but can only sense the lower limbs that is,from the navel downwards) to get into a relationship. I mean online via social networks or face to face. Whichever, what would be your best advice if its a friend or relation.

Not too desperate with the hope that a degree,good job and cash would bring women closer. Is that a good thought?


DON'T PITY,ALL IS WELL.

online world:
hit on many women, put ur full pix shots (on d wheel chair in your pix albums)
, that way anyone that choses to continue chatting with u will do so fully aware of ur physical disability.
chat generally ,see if u connect in chat , from there , hopefully,
feelings may build up and d girl may rethink hooking up with ya.
blind men have been married so its possible.

real world - apply same strategy.

project ur personality .. that's ur trump card.
dont try to buy luv or stuff like that or u'll b sorry in the long run.
i dont think ur as bad as stephen hawkings,the famed theoretical physicists,
but i bet u many able bodied beauty queens will divorce to b with him : a virtual vegetable,physically.

on second tot- ur manhood needs to be working u know?! that's important..(marraige thingz) impotency is a greater turn off ..
or if u can work around that..

I totally agree with the first poster, he took d words outer my lips.

Kambo's words are golden.
A couple of months ago,a paraplegic got married in my church.
Like Kambo said,project your personality.That means you need to work on yourself to pack something upstairs.Listening to the paraplegic who got married in my church,u'll know he's intelligent.He's a post-graduate student too.
You said u're in school right,please take your studies seriously so u can come out with good grades.

I hope you believe in God and you have a relationship with Him too.He's a miracle working God.

onlyme07: I realised Nigerian ladies detest going out with physically challenged people of whatever manner. Not sure if its immaturity or the society we live or the physically challenged themselves do not comport themselves when it comes to relationship matters.

Ok,how would you advise a 25yrs undergraduate paraplegic confined to a wheelchair (someone with spinal cord injury that can make use of the upper limbs 100% but can only sense the lower limbs that is,from the navel downwards) to get into a relationship. I mean online via social networks or face to face. Whichever, what would be your best advice if its a friend or relation.

Not too desperate with the hope that a degree,good job and cash would bring women closer. Is that a good thought?


DON'T PITY,ALL IS WELL.

i'll like to be ur friend if u will let me. I will be a very loyal and true friend. I am female but I do not want a relationship. Its not because of you, it cuts across other guys as well.
I will be expecting your mail.

[quote author=thorpido]Kambo's words are golden.
A couple of months ago,a paraplegic got married in my church.
Like Kambo said,project your personality.That means you need to work on yourself to pack something upstairs.Listening to the paraplegic who got married in my church,u'll know he's intelligent.He's a post-graduate student too.
You said u're in school right,please take your studies seriously so u can come out with good grades.

I hope you believe in God and you have a relationship with Him too.He's a miracle working God.


Thanks bro. Appreciate.

Gboliwe:
i'll like to be ur friend if u will let me. I will be a very loyal and true friend. I am female but I do not want a relationship. Its not because of you, it cuts across other guys as well.
I will be expecting your mail.

Would be glad to have you as a friend as well. My email is tunjioui@gmail.com

thorpido: Kambo's words are golden.
A couple of months ago,a paraplegic got married in my church.
Like Kambo said,project your personality.That means you need to work on yourself to pack something upstairs.Listening to the paraplegic who got married in my church,u'll know he's intelligent.He's a post-graduate student too.
You said u're in school right,please take your studies seriously so u can come out with good grades.

I hope you believe in God and you have a relationship with Him too.He's a miracle working God.

I believe bro. Thanks so much. Appreciate

kambo: online world:
hit on many women, put ur full pix shots (on d wheel chair in your pix albums)
, that way anyone that choses to continue chatting with u will do so fully aware of ur physical disability.
chat generally ,see if u connect in chat , from there , hopefully,
feelings may build up and d girl may rethink hooking up with ya.
blind men have been married so its possible.

real world - apply same strategy.

project ur personality .. that's ur trump card.
dont try to buy luv or stuff like that or u'll b sorry in the long run.
i dont think ur as bad as stephen hawkings,the famed theoretical physicists,
but i bet u many able bodied beauty queens will divorce to b with him : a virtual vegetable,physically.

on second tot- ur manhood needs to be working u know?! that's important..(marraige thingz) impotency is a greater turn off ..
or if u can work around that..

Nice words bro. Appreciate & God bless.

this is what i mean when i say

"I LOVE THIS SITE"

you always gat your back watched here.
thanks to the good minds

onlyme07:

Would be glad to have you as a friend as well. My email is tunjioui@gmail.com

happy sunday. Sent u a mail.

Gboliwe: happy sunday. Sent u a mail.

Awwwww...sweet!

Gboliwe: happy sunday. Sent u a mail.

No message dearie. tunjioui@gmail.com

Lots of women won't mind ,as long as you are a Christian ,respect and love .I also won't mind. I used to say no but I understand life better now and I will never discriminate against nobody ,because an able man can easily become unable.
Don't stress too much op ,there is a girl for you out there ,trust me!

Idowuogbo:
Awwwww...sweet!

my dear idowu. Happy sunday to you too. any goodie?
@tunji: sent again