Am sorry oh but I can't not date/marry anyone below my level.My future plan is to proceed forward not backwards

tRoOE:

Am sorry oh but I can't not date/marry anyone below my level.My future plan is to proceed forward not backwards
I need a man that can take good care of his woman, not a man that can not afford to eat 3 square meals for himself
[b]A real man that isn't afraid to spend on his lady once in a while, show me a good time [/b]and i will surely do the same for him

fabiyi:

WELL SAID TROOE,

A MAN THAT CAN NOT PROVIDE 4 HIS ENTIRE HOUSEHOLD IS WORSE THAN AN INFIDEL. HOLY BIBLE.

HOW ON EARTH WOULD A MAN GO FOR SOMEBODY THAT IS ABOVE HIS SOCIAL AND ROMANCE CLASS? THE MARRIAGE WILL CERTAINLY CRASH.

WE MEN, WE LIKE TO BE IN CONTROL AND ONLY FEW WOMEN IF NOT NONE WILL SUCCUMB TO A MAN THAT CAN'T OUTSTAND HER FINANCIALLY AND EVEN ROMANCE WISE.

THAT IS Y I DON'T DEPEND ON LADIES CASH. WHO CARES HOW MUCH SHE TAKES HOME PER WEEK/MONTH.

GUYS PLS LEARN HOW TO BE ON TOP IN UR RELATIONSHIP. I HATE MEN THAT FEED FROM WOMEN. OH MA GOD. I CAN'T STAND THEM. I CALL THEM 'OLE AND OLE'
THEIF AND LAZYMAN.

OMO IBO:

in as much as i believe there is absolutely nothing wrong is marrying someone below your social class i think the person in the lower class bracket stands a chance of being insulted (by a buffoon) when there's disagreement.
ever heard of 'who do u think you're?' or 'i brought u out of the slums'.

in my opinion those are the things anyone would need to watch out for. forget gold-diggers. i believe putting someone down because of their social standing hurts more than a gold-digging asswipe

fabiyi:


A MAN THAT CAN NOT PROVIDE 4 HIS ENTIRE HOUSEHOLD IS WORSE THAN AN INFIDEL. HOLY BIBLE.

HOW ON EARTH WOULD A MAN GO FOR SOMEBODY THAT IS ABOVE HIS SOCIAL AND ROMANCE CLASS? THE MARRIAGE WILL CERTAINLY CRASH.

WE MEN, WE LIKE TO BE IN CONTROL AND ONLY FEW WOMEN IF NOT NONE WILL SUCCUMB TO A MAN THAT CAN'T OUTSTAND HER FINANCIALLY AND EVEN ROMANCE WISE.

THAT IS Y I DON'T DEPEND ON LADIES CASH. WHO CARES HOW MUCH SHE TAKES HOME PER WEEK/MONTH.

GUYS PLS LEARN HOW TO BE ON TOP IN UR RELATIONSHIP. I HATE MEN THAT FEED FROM WOMEN. OH MA GOD. I CAN'T STAND THEM. I CALL THEM 'OLE AND OLE'
THEIF AND LAZYMAN.

HOW ON EARTH WOULD A MAN GO FOR SOMEBODY THAT IS ABOVE HIS SOCIAL AND ROMANCE CLASS? THE MARRIAGE WILL CERTAINLY CRASH.

who ever said marriage between people of different social class don't exist or is doomed to fail need to wake up. only the stuck up, lazy and people who munch off papa and mama do and think like that. well most of them

OMO IBO:

in your opinion, a real man is someone in your class i may have read it wrong but,

No No stop twisting my words against me

A real man is someone who is able to take care of himself, his lady and still got some saved up , not a man feeding from mouth to mouth

@fabiyi

You've said it all
I know someone that the marriage couldn't work out because the partner feels insured, less of a partner.

People do not have any idea what he will go through since he can not fit the social class circle. Man like this can not even have a say in the decision of the family because his wife family will surely put him where he belongs at.

So tell me, why in the world will I have to put my partner through this

A real man is someone who is able to take care of himself, his lady and still got some saved up , not a man feeding from mouth to mouth

TopBooty:


I think what they are saying is that men always have this inferiority complex in them if the women belong to a higher social class, as such, the marriage fails.

TopBooty:


Some men that feed from mouth to mouth cannot help it and I don't think it necessairly makes them not real.

some of u ladies need to get off the horses you're riding. whatever happened to humility

WELL SAID TROOE,

A MAN THAT CAN NOT PROVIDE 4 HIS ENTIRE HOUSEHOLD IS WORSE THAN AN INFIDEL. HOLY BIBLE.

HOW ON EARTH WOULD A MAN GO FOR SOMEBODY THAT IS ABOVE HIS SOCIAL AND ROMANCE CLASS? THE MARRIAGE WILL CERTAINLY CRASH.

WE MEN, WE LIKE TO BE IN CONTROL AND ONLY FEW WOMEN IF NOT NONE WILL SUCCUMB TO A MAN THAT CAN'T OUTSTAND HER FINANCIALLY AND EVEN ROMANCE WISE.

THAT IS Y I DON'T DEPEND ON LADIES CASH. WHO CARES HOW MUCH SHE TAKES HOME PER WEEK/MONTH.

GUYS PLS LEARN HOW TO BE ON TOP IN UR RELATIONSHIP. I HATE MEN THAT FEED FROM WOMEN. OH MA GOD. I CAN'T STAND THEM. I CALL THEM 'OLE AND OLE'
THEIF AND LAZYMAN.

he better not take long sha. Providing for the family is his place.

~Lady~:

Truth.

If you're ready to get married, then this is for you. If you're just having fun, then it's not for you.

The man is the head of the house, full stop. He needs to be able to take care of the woman and children. The woman shouldn't be the one doing that.
If there is a situation where they were together and things were well and he looses it, then she needs to know that it's for better or for worse. If she has the means she needs to step in and take care fo the family, until the man can get on his feet, he better not take long sha. Providing for the family is his place.

TopBooty:

What do you mean by better not take long? What if he's disabled?

Where is the disabled coming from
Was he disable when they got married or after
Btw, are you related to needless or hotfunmi, you guys have the same trait

WHAT

If you are not just say so, and it was just a question

bawomolo:

it's funny the women so hung up on equality have no problem spewing gender roles about men being providers and protectors when it suits them.

it's funny the women so hung up on equality have no problem spewing gender roles about men being providers and protectors when it suits them.