Loadedtech: ]I've been dating my girlfriend for over a year now but suddenly i noticed her closeness to my senior in school, they guy had already made a love proposal to her but she turned him down but yet this guy refused to stop caring and paying too much attention to her, and my girlfriend also does to him too, they share pictures with one another nd he do call nd text my girlfriend frquently, about three weeks ago was the birthday of my girlfriend, the birthday was on friday but my girlfriend wasn't around on that day so i couldnt visit her to celebrate with her, i asked her if she will be available but she replied no. Later i found out that in that same week , she invited this guy to her house to give her the gift this guy promised her but never invited me, when i got to her house yesterday i saw this gift and i was shocked, she was the one who told me it was that guy who gave her the gift and anytime i tell my girlfriend that this closeness is too much and i'm not feeling comfortable with it she will tell me that i'm too jealous. During sometimes back, that guy told me that 'this your girl that you are fightung for, i wont leave her and stop all what am doing until i get her from you' so this thing is givin me a troubled mind since and with all what i'm seeing.though she has already told me she cant leave me because of any guy and she cant doubledate but it seems this guy really wants to win her heart and my girl is giving him her attentions also.. Pls what can i do?

Loadedtech: ]I've been dating my girlfriend for over a year now but suddenly i noticed her closeness to my senior in school, they guy had already made a love proposal to her but she turned him down but yet this guy refused to stop caring and paying too much attention to her, and my girlfriend also does to him too, they share pictures with one another nd he do call nd text my girlfriend frquently, about three weeks ago was the birthday of my girlfriend, the birthday was on friday but my girlfriend wasn't around on that day so i couldnt visit her to celebrate with her, i asked her if she will be available but she replied no. Later i found out that in that same week , she invited this guy to her house to give her the gift this guy promised her but never invited me, when i got to her house yesterday i saw this gift and i was shocked, she was the one who told me it was that guy who gave her the gift and anytime i tell my girlfriend that this closeness is too much and i'm not feeling comfortable with it she will tell me that i'm too jealous. During sometimes back, that guy told me that 'this your girl that you are fightung for, i wont leave her and stop all what am doing until i get her from you' so this thing is givin me a troubled mind since and with all what i'm seeing.though she has already told me she cant leave me because of any guy and she cant doubledate but it seems this guy really wants to win her heart and my girl is giving him her attentions also.. Pls what can i do?

Black Peni5:

You sound like you're still in Secondary school based on the "senior" remark. Please face your studies and forget about fighting over women at this stage of your life.

Oohrhii:

You seriously don't know your worth...ill advice you to just face your studies..or work and let things play out naturally, forget about her promises about not leaving you for another guy n stuffs.. ladies do break marriage vows, so what is class vow Mr don't fool yourself, just work more on bettering your own personal life..at the end all go join.

Kids of these days.. and na person dey hustle for your school fees ooO, you dey here dey form lover boy

Loadedtech: ]I've been dating my girlfriend for over a year now but suddenly i noticed her closeness to my senior in school, they guy had already made a love proposal to her but she turned him down but yet this guy refused to stop caring and paying too much attention to her, and my girlfriend also does to him too, they share pictures with one another nd he do call nd text my girlfriend frquently, about three weeks ago was the birthday of my girlfriend, the birthday was on friday but my girlfriend wasn't around on that day so i couldnt visit her to celebrate with her, i asked her if she will be available but she replied no. Later i found out that in that same week , she invited this guy to her house to give her the gift this guy promised her but never invited me, when i got to her house yesterday i saw this gift and i was shocked, she was the one who told me it was that guy who gave her the gift and anytime i tell my girlfriend that this closeness is too much and i'm not feeling comfortable with it she will tell me that i'm too jealous. During sometimes back, that guy told me that 'this your girl that you are fightung for, i wont leave her and stop all what am doing until i get her from you' so this thing is givin me a troubled mind since and with all what i'm seeing.though she has already told me she cant leave me because of any guy and she cant doubledate but it seems this guy really wants to win her heart and my girl is giving him her attentions also.. Pls what can i do?

@tjololade:
Well I expressly believe she is already cheating on you. Remember I said I believe.

This may not be true but trust me she is having feelings for the guy and she is already seeing you as incomplete in certain areas.

Loadedtech:
can you pls gv me an evidence that she is already cheating pls

Loadedtech: ]I've been dating my girlfriend for over a year now but suddenly i noticed her closeness to my senior in school, they guy had already made a love proposal to her but she turned him down but yet this guy refused to stop caring and paying too much attention to her, and my girlfriend also does to him too, they share pictures with one another nd he do call nd text my girlfriend frquently, about three weeks ago was the birthday of my girlfriend, the birthday was on friday but my girlfriend wasn't around on that day so i couldnt visit her to celebrate with her, i asked her if she will be available but she replied no. Later i found out that in that same week , she invited this guy to her house to give her the gift this guy promised her but never invited me, when i got to her house yesterday i saw this gift and i was shocked, she was the one who told me it was that guy who gave her the gift and anytime i tell my girlfriend that this closeness is too much and i'm not feeling comfortable with it she will tell me that i'm too jealous. During sometimes back, that guy told me that 'this your girl that you are fightung for, i wont leave her and stop all what am doing until i get her from you' so this thing is givin me a troubled mind since and with all what i'm seeing.though she has already told me she cant leave me because of any guy and she cant doubledate but it seems this guy really wants to win her heart and my girl is giving him her attentions also.. Pls what can i do?

sexkillz: If you honestly answer these question of mine, I'll tell you the solution to this problem.

Question: Can you tell the man who pays your school fees what you just told us now? And why?

How much do you make a month as salary?

We need to get to the root of this matter.

Loadedtech:
my dad pays my school fees and i'm not yet a worker, i'm a 200L Futa Student

Loadedtech:
my dad pays my school fees and i'm not yet a worker, i'm a 200L Futa Student

Loadedtech:
my dad pays my school fees and i'm not yet a worker, i'm a 200L Futa Student

rigormortis:
great futarian, guy i be ex futarian but i dey work for abj now, no fall futa boys hand o, you know say we no dey carry last

Loadedtech:
my dad pays my school fees and i'm not yet a worker, i'm a 200L Futa Student

Sen Danny: am talking from experience , i encountere same n my 200l n d uni, the babe has left you.....she is sleepn with dat guy........ a birth day is a special day....meant to b shared with those u care abt, but she turned u down n invited ur frnd. so let her go, face ur gp.
though is not gonna b easy....but do wat i did, snub her, focus on ur studies, till i left esut, becus of dat incident, i had no biz wit any gal....and it paid off.....I MADE A COMFORTABLE 2.1= 4.15, I WAS D 3RD BEST STUDENT N MY DEPT.....FORGET D BABE, TAK HRT, LIFE ISNT AS U C IT,

Loadedtech:
can you pls gv me an evidence that she is already cheating pls