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Why Does A Relationship Get Boring After A While? by Ijeleigbo(m): 3:45pm On Jun 07, 2013 |
So why does it happen? You see no matter how well the relationship might start there will always be a time when you would feel that things are not what they used to be and something seems to be missing. This is a stage where the relationship starts going down hill and you must do something immediately as your partner might dump you or even in some cases cheat on you. This is the reason why this is extremely important for you to know. Read on to discover some of the major reasons why a lot of relationships get boring after a while and what you can do about it……. We stop focusing on out partner- This is one of the major reasons why a lot of relationships get boring after a while. You see a lot of people out there forget about their partner and get more self centered as the relationship progresses. We forget that a relationship is a mutually beneficial agreement and it can never survive unless both partners are happy. We stop trying- You see in life when you stop doing things which are needed you start getting results you want to avoid. This same concept applies to your relationships as well. The moment you stop trying to make an effort your relationship would automatically get boring and you would not be able to get what you desire out of it. We never try new things- Another reason why it gets boring is simply due to the fact that you know everything you need to know about your partner and he or she knows everything about so it just gets boring since there is nothing new in the relationship. This is the time you need to bring in new things into your relationship and maybe do something new every day so that it remains fresh.
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Re: Why Does A Relationship Get Boring After A While? by 25omega(m): 4:10pm On Jun 07, 2013 |
Because in all reality one man and one woman are not supposed to spend their lives together. 1 Like |
Re: Why Does A Relationship Get Boring After A While? by Ijeleigbo(m): 4:25pm On Jun 07, 2013 |
25omega: Because in all reality one man and one woman are not supposed to spend their lives together. So what do you suggest? One man and many wives? What if one of your wives have a boyfriend, would you be cool with it? 1 Like |
Re: Why Does A Relationship Get Boring After A While? by CrazyMan(m): 4:27pm On Jun 07, 2013 |
Relationships don’t get "boring" by themselves, people make them boring. Reason is that you’ve been together, had sex with each other, shared romantic jokes and all that…so nothing seems new to either of you, hence you tag such as a boring relationship. I would suggest that whenever you begin to feel that your relationship is becoming boring, both parties should figure out a way to keep it from becoming a past tense…(boring leads to cheating, and cheating leads to breakups.) Find ways to spice it up. Take a night or two every week and go out...could be a cinema, could be to the gym...just re-ignite that honeymoon days when you first met each other and I'm sure that the word boring would be a thing of the past. 1 Like |
Re: Why Does A Relationship Get Boring After A While? by Ijeleigbo(m): 4:34pm On Jun 07, 2013 |
CrazyMan: Relationships don’t get "boring" by themselves, people make them boring. Nice contribution........ |
Re: Why Does A Relationship Get Boring After A While? by Nobody: 4:34pm On Jun 07, 2013 |
Because people stop courting!!! 1 Like |
Re: Why Does A Relationship Get Boring After A While? by Ijeleigbo(m): 4:44pm On Jun 07, 2013 |
rokiatu: Because people stop courting!!! What do you really mean? |
Re: Why Does A Relationship Get Boring After A While? by Nobody: 4:54pm On Jun 07, 2013 |
Ijele-igbo: They stop doing all the romantic and sweet stuff they used to do when they first started dating/doing the chase. |
Re: Why Does A Relationship Get Boring After A While? by slymm(f): 5:02pm On Jun 07, 2013 |
Because its not normal for one woman to be stuck with one man all the days of her life, neither is it normal for one man to be stuck with one woman all the days of his life. Its unnatural and a forced concept of society and civilization. If we all had an open honest relationship with our partner, we will be free to engage in other relationships and live a better life. Stop laying claim to any one human being. |
Re: Why Does A Relationship Get Boring After A While? by Nobody: 5:11pm On Jun 07, 2013 |
@OP People generally have it all wrong. I think people should just stop DEPENDING on others to fulfill life for them. They have to fulfill it themselves. If because you know everything about a person makes a relationship boring, are you sure you are ready for long tins like marriage? If you are not passionate about other things besides your relationship, you will never be happy. Your relationship most likely has very little to do with it. It's just blame transference. To be in a relationship is not the only thing God put you on this earth to do and until you truly explore yourself and find other outlets of passion, you will be empty inside. The other person is not supposed to be your entertainment or the solver of all your problems. A serious mature relationship comes with this understanding. It also helps if you both share the same long-reaching goals as well. This is why women who have no other passion, big goals or plans besides who they will marry so they can move out of their daddy house tend to turn me off. There must be more... 3 Likes |
Re: Why Does A Relationship Get Boring After A While? by Ijeleigbo(m): 5:17pm On Jun 07, 2013 |
rokiatu: Less s'ex, less shopping, less going out on dates and less telling each other "I love you" everyday |
Re: Why Does A Relationship Get Boring After A While? by 190: 5:17pm On Jun 07, 2013 |
if the punny is boring i get tired as well |
Re: Why Does A Relationship Get Boring After A While? by Ijeleigbo(m): 5:20pm On Jun 07, 2013 |
slymm: Because its not normal for one woman to be stuck with one man all the days of her life, neither is it normal for one man to be stuck with one woman all the days of his life. Its unnatural and a forced concept of society and civilization. If we all had an open honest relationship with our partner, we will be free to engage in other relationships and live a better life. Stop laying claim to any one human being. Having a husband and keeping boyfriends? You call that a better life?? WTF |
Re: Why Does A Relationship Get Boring After A While? by lomaxx: 5:22pm On Jun 07, 2013 |
2buff: @OP People generally have it all wrong. Here's e-alomo for you 1 Like |
Re: Why Does A Relationship Get Boring After A While? by Ijeleigbo(m): 5:26pm On Jun 07, 2013 |
2buff: @OP People generally have it all wrong. MILLION DOLLAR CONTRIBUTION |
Re: Why Does A Relationship Get Boring After A While? by Ijeleigbo(m): 5:44pm On Jun 07, 2013 |
190: if the punny is boring i get tired as well Hmmm....... What makes a punny boring? Just wondering?? |
Re: Why Does A Relationship Get Boring After A While? by Nobody: 6:01pm On Jun 07, 2013 |
Ijele-igbo: Trademark of a purely physically relationship, which is the architecture of most relationships in the world today. |
Re: Why Does A Relationship Get Boring After A While? by 25omega(m): 7:00pm On Jun 07, 2013 |
Ijele-igbo:No it doesn't have to be one man many wives. you are already making it a man thing. What i mean is no marriage you can decide to stay with someone for the rest of your life if you want to but you should be able to leave when you want without thinking about filing for divorce or feeling guilty about the person you are leaving behind. You should be able to chase as many women as you want and women should be able to chase as many men as they want too. When you finally stop being attractive and old then you find a mate for companionship till you expire. 1 Like |
Re: Why Does A Relationship Get Boring After A While? by Ijeleigbo(m): 7:07pm On Jun 07, 2013 |
25omega: No it doesn't have to be one man many wives. you are already making it a man thing. OMG! I won't be comfortable if I find out other men are Bleep'ing my wife! I'll always endeavor to be her perfect man!! |
Re: Why Does A Relationship Get Boring After A While? by Ijeleigbo(m): 7:11pm On Jun 07, 2013 |
2buff: True! Relationships should be more than s'ex! |
Re: Why Does A Relationship Get Boring After A While? by Temismith(f): 9:06pm On Jun 07, 2013 |
Cos life ℓ̊Ƨ̷̜̩̌̋ nt a bed of roses, chooku chooku dey am too. |
Re: Why Does A Relationship Get Boring After A While? by Ijeleigbo(m): 9:25pm On Jun 07, 2013 |
Temismith: Cos life ℓ̊Ƨ̷̜̩̌̋ nt a bed of roses, chooku chooku dey am too. What kinda chooku chooku |
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