So why does it happen? You see no matter how
well the relationship might start there will always
be a time when you would feel that things are not
what they used to be and something seems to be
missing. This is a stage where the relationship
starts going down hill and you must do
something immediately as your partner might
dump you or even in some cases cheat on you.
This is the reason why this is extremely important
for you to know. Read on to discover some of the
major reasons why a lot of relationships get
boring after a while and what you can do about
it…….

We stop focusing on out partner- This is one of
the major reasons why a lot of relationships get
boring after a while. You see a lot of people out
there forget about their partner and get more self
centered as the relationship progresses. We
forget that a relationship is a mutually beneficial
agreement and it can never survive unless both
partners are happy.

We stop trying- You see in life when you stop
doing things which are needed you start getting
results you want to avoid. This same concept
applies to your relationships as well. The moment
you stop trying to make an effort your
relationship would automatically get boring and
you would not be able to get what you desire out
of it.

We never try new things- Another reason why it
gets boring is simply due to the fact that you
know everything you need to know about your
partner and he or she knows everything about so
it just gets boring since there is nothing new in
the relationship. This is the time you need to
bring in new things into your relationship and
maybe do something new every day so that it
remains fresh.

Because in all reality one man and one woman are not supposed to spend their lives together.

25omega: Because in all reality one man and one woman are not supposed to spend their lives together.

So what do you suggest? One man and many wives?
What if one of your wives have a boyfriend, would you be cool with it?

Relationships don’t get "boring" by themselves, people make them boring.

Reason is that you’ve been together, had sex with each other, shared romantic jokes and all that…so nothing seems new to either of you, hence you tag such as a boring relationship.

I would suggest that whenever you begin to feel that your relationship is becoming boring, both parties should figure out a way to keep it from becoming a past tense…(boring leads to cheating, and cheating leads to breakups.) Find ways to spice it up. Take a night or two every week and go out...could be a cinema, could be to the gym...just re-ignite that honeymoon days when you first met each other and I'm sure that the word boring would be a thing of the past.

CrazyMan: Relationships don’t get "boring" by themselves, people make them boring.

Reason is that you’ve been together, had sex with each other, shared romantic jokes and all that…so nothing seems new to either of you, hence you tag such as a boring relationship.

I would suggest that whenever you begin to feel that your relationship is becoming boring, both parties should figure out a way to keep it from becoming a past tense…(boring leads to cheating, and cheating leads to breakups.) Find ways to spice it up. Take a night or two every week and go out...could be a cinema, could be to the gym...just re-ignite that honeymoon days when you first met each other and I'm sure that the word boring would be a thing of the past.

Nice contribution........

Because people stop courting!!!

rokiatu: Because people stop courting!!!

What do you really mean?

Ijele-igbo:


What do you really mean?

They stop doing all the romantic and sweet stuff they used to do when they first started dating/doing the chase.

Because its not normal for one woman to be stuck with one man all the days of her life, neither is it normal for one man to be stuck with one woman all the days of his life. Its unnatural and a forced concept of society and civilization. If we all had an open honest relationship with our partner, we will be free to engage in other relationships and live a better life. Stop laying claim to any one human being.

@OP People generally have it all wrong.

I think people should just stop DEPENDING on others to fulfill life for them. They have to fulfill it themselves. If because you know everything about a person makes a relationship boring, are you sure you are ready for long tins like marriage?

If you are not passionate about other things besides your relationship, you will never be happy. Your relationship most likely has very little to do with it. It's just blame transference. To be in a relationship is not the only thing God put you on this earth to do and until you truly explore yourself and find other outlets of passion, you will be empty inside.

The other person is not supposed to be your entertainment or the solver of all your problems. A serious mature relationship comes with this understanding. It also helps if you both share the same long-reaching goals as well.
This is why women who have no other passion, big goals or plans besides who they will marry so they can move out of their daddy house tend to turn me off. There must be more...

rokiatu:

They stop doing all the romantic and sweet stuff they used to do when they first started dating/doing the chase.

Less s'ex, less shopping, less going out on dates and less telling each other "I love you" everyday

slymm: Because its not normal for one woman to be stuck with one man all the days of her life, neither is it normal for one man to be stuck with one woman all the days of his life. Its unnatural and a forced concept of society and civilization. If we all had an open honest relationship with our partner, we will be free to engage in other relationships and live a better life. Stop laying claim to any one human being.

Having a husband and keeping boyfriends? You call that a better life?? WTF

2buff: @OP People generally have it all wrong.

I think people should just stop DEPENDING on others to fulfill life for them. They have to fulfill it themselves. If because you know everything about a person makes a relationship boring, are you sure you are ready for long tins like marriage?

If you are not passionate about other things besides your relationship, you will never be happy. Your relationship most likely has very little to do with it. It's just blame transference. To be in a relationship is not the only thing God put you on this earth to do and until you truly explore yourself and find other outlets of passion, you will be empty inside.

The other person is not supposed to be your entertainment or the solver of all your problems. A serious mature relationship comes with this understanding. It also helps if you both share the same long-reaching goals as well.
This is why women who have no other passion, big goals or plans besides who they will marry so they can move out of their daddy house tend to turn me off. There must be more...

Here's e-alomo for you

2buff: @OP People generally have it all wrong.

I think people should just stop DEPENDING on others to fulfill life for them. They have to fulfill it themselves. If because you know everything about a person makes a relationship boring, are you sure you are ready for long tins like marriage?

If you are not passionate about other things besides your relationship, you will never be happy. Your relationship most likely has very little to do with it. It's just blame transference. To be in a relationship is not the only thing God put you on this earth to do and until you truly explore yourself and find other outlets of passion, you will be empty inside.

The other person is not supposed to be your entertainment or the solver of all your problems. A serious mature relationship comes with this understanding. It also helps if you both share the same long-reaching goals as well.
This is why women who have no other passion, big goals or plans besides who they will marry so they can move out of their daddy house tend to turn me off. There must be more...

MILLION DOLLAR CONTRIBUTION

190: if the punny is boring i get tired as well

Hmmm....... What makes a punny boring? Just wondering??

Ijele-igbo:


Hmmm....... What makes a punny boring? Just wondering??

Trademark of a purely physically relationship, which is the architecture of most relationships in the world today.

Ijele-igbo:


So what do you suggest? One man and many wives?
What if one of your wives have a boyfriend, would you be cool with it?

No it doesn't have to be one man many wives. you are already making it a man thing.

What i mean is no marriage you can decide to stay with someone for the rest of your life if you want to but you should be able to leave when you want without thinking about filing for divorce or feeling guilty about the person you are leaving behind. You should be able to chase as many women as you want and women should be able to chase as many men as they want too. When you finally stop being attractive and old then you find a mate for companionship till you expire.

25omega: No it doesn't have to be one man many wives. you are already making it a man thing.

What i mean is no marriage you can decide to stay with someone for the rest of your life if you want to but you should be able to leave when you want without thinking about filing for divorce or feeling guilty about the person you are leaving behind. You should be able to chase as many women as you want and women should be able to chase as many men as they want too. When you finally stop being attractive and old then you find a mate for companionship till you expire.

OMG! I won't be comfortable if I find out other men are Bleep'ing my wife! I'll always endeavor to be her perfect man!!

2buff:

Trademark of a purely physically relationship, which is the architecture of most relationships in the world today.

True! Relationships should be more than s'ex!

Cos life ℓ̊Ƨ̷̜̩̌̋ nt a bed of roses, chooku chooku dey am too.

Temismith: Cos life ℓ̊Ƨ̷̜̩̌̋ nt a bed of roses, chooku chooku dey am too.

What kinda chooku chooku