I met my husband in a fast food joint some years back, and while we were dating i never knew him to be into women before we married. We had some hiccups as in the family members including the mum did not like me as such. But we went on to fix date and got knot up.

After marriage, a week after, women started calling him, and at one point i decided to hide my number to call one of them, and found out that, he was into women a lot. So this now became so pronounced that most times, he does not sleep at home...

He is a military man though, and he brings women and sleeps with them in the [military] base. His friends knew all of these, and when I confront them because they knew what he is into they will just say they would talk to him. 

I have confronted him myself and he told me, if I don’t like it, then I should leave him. He travels a lot because of the nature of his job, so this last time when he came back, he never slept at home for once, he comes back very late, he has been very unfaithful to me, though we have been married for some time now and no kids. I am a believer and I have told God that I will not sin against my body and God.

We have a car that we both use, and I use it during the day while he uses it at night. Now most time when I want to go to the office, I will see some funny things in the car, like a woman’s hair, a lipstick kiss on the chair, condoms. And the most recent one that has made me to write this is, just this morning. I saw a woman’s bra hand in the car. 

My parents are aware of all these, but for some time, he has stopped relating to them about what happens to me. Majority of his friends are not married, and even the ones that are married are worst than a single fellow.
One thing he does that grips me is the fact that he uses his male friends picture as his dp on bbm instead me or his mum as he's always done.

Myself and his male friend's birthday was just the same day, he chose to make his friend’s birthday unique by even went out with him to make it well for him while my own, he returned home frowning.

What do you think I can do to get out of this mess I am into? I no longer concentrate at work. I'm not happy at all, my pastor has told me not to go that the Lord will make all things beautiful.

The bitter truth is that I don’t know whether he already has children out side.

Please what is the way out for me?

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Dis 1 pass ma power!

Advisers oya una don get work

It is well my sister, with time my God in which u serve will open his eye again 2 see the beauty in you,
go in this might



in Case i 4got second sheun or shegun beware!!!

@op do u have kids?

Read the write up at least before any fulish qwestion!

Aafulenu: @op do u have kids?

@op you probably dining with a gay n serial womanizer. STDs round the corner as freebies. I think desertation should be an offence in the military? On what to do...who did you ask before getting knotted as you said? Abeg make your choice once again it's your life and Y.O.L.O!

smartchoice: Read the write up at least before any fulish qwestion!

hehehe since u read the write up, does she have kids?

toluxa1: I met my husband in a fast food joint some years back, and while we were dating i never knew him to be into women before we married. We had some hiccups as in the family members including the mum did not like me as such. But we went on to fix date and got knot up.

After marriage, a week after, women started calling him, and at one point i decided to hide my number to call one of them, and found out that, he was into women a lot. So this now became so pronounced that most times, he does not sleep at home...

He is a military man though, and he brings women and sleeps with them in the [military] base. His friends knew all of these, and when I confront them because they knew what he is into they will just say they would talk to him. 

I have confronted him myself and he told me, if I don’t like it, then I should leave him. He travels a lot because of the nature of his job, so this last time when he came back, he never slept at home for once, he comes back very late, he has been very unfaithful to me, though we have been married for some time now and no kids. I am a believer and I have told God that I will not sin against my body and God.

We have a car that we both use, and I use it during the day while he uses it at night. Now most time when I want to go to the office, I will see some funny things in the car, like a woman’s hair, a lipstick kiss on the chair, condoms. And the most recent one that has made me to write this is, just this morning. I saw a woman’s bra hand in the car. 

My parents are aware of all these, but for some time, he has stopped relating to them about what happens to me. Majority of his friends are not married, and even the ones that are married are worst than a single fellow.
One thing he does that grips me is the fact that he uses his male friends picture as his dp on bbm instead me or his mum as he's always done.

Myself and his male friend's birthday was just the same day, he chose to make his friend’s birthday unique by even went out with him to make it well for him while my own, he returned home frowning.

What do you think I can do to get out of this mess I am into? I no longer concentrate at work. I'm not happy at all, my pastor has told me not to go that the Lord will make all things beautiful.

The bitter truth is that I don’t know whether he already has children out side.

Please what is the way out for me?

toluxa1 m, i thought you are a male? How can you register as a male while in your post you stand as a female? Who are you trying to decieve? I bet your post is fictitious since you can not be truthful about your personalty. Assuming you story is true, i believe you have taking your lies to your family and your partner found out and start treating you like RAG.

op the best solution for you is just to juju your husband , he wont even go to the toilet without ur permission

CHIMCO: toluxa1 m, i thought you are a male? How can you register as a male while in your post you stand as a female? Who are trying to decieve? I bet your post is fictitious since you can not be truthful about your personalty. Assuming you story is true, i believe you have taking your lies to your family and your partner found out and start treating you like RAG.

that also confused me, the poster is male

smartchoice: have confronted him myself and he told me, if I don’t like it, then I should leave him. He travels a lot because of the nature of his job, so this last time when he came back, he never ,slept at home for once, he comes back very late he has been very unfaithful to me, though we have been married for some time now and no kids. I am a believer and I have told God that I .will not sin against my body and God

now please check urself to see if anything happened to u. if u have pointed this out to me like dis, instead of calling my question 'fulish' would u have died?

Aafulenu:

hehehe since u read the write up, does she have kids?

Baby I love you.

Kirinwa:

Baby I love you.

i love u too

What makes you think that it's children that makes a marriage binding.What God has joined together...Many ladies these days don't have any clue about marriage and they are the most desperate about it.She saw all these while they were dating unless she was clueless or blind.Marriage is an eye opener.Don't be unequally yoked with unbelievers,I guess she must have said it was her life so let her enjoy it.She can invite her sisters,cousins and even female dog and goat to join the groove.
But wait o op are you gay?I prefer the victim to post it by herself.

Set the car ablaze hahahahhaaaahah

Who is this?

Kirinwa:

Baby I love you.

Read/study to show thyself approved. Use the stuff between ur ears!

Aafulenu:

now please check urself to see if anything happened to u. if u have pointed this out to me like dis, instead of calling my question 'fulish' would u have died?

chidindufrank: Set the car ablaze hahahahhaaaahah

good idea.

op is a man. smh

The way out for you is to visit a doctor so you can be cured of your hallucination.

@op, are you the same person as angelcj.?same post,different I.d.smh

smartchoice: Who is this?

I be your Papa.

Kirinwa:

I be your Papa.

No you're just another sewage rat...

CHIMCO: toluxa1 m, i thought you are a male? How can you register as a male while in your post you stand as a female? Who are you trying to decieve? I bet your post is fictitious since you can not be truthful about your personalty. Assuming you story is true, i believe you have taking your lies to your family and your partner found out and start treating you like RAG.

texaco1: op the best solution for you is just to juju your husband , he wont even go to the toilet without ur permission

euromoney: @op, are you the same person as angelcj.?same post,different I.d.smh

Aafulenu:

that also confused me, the poster is male

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How in St. Peter's name did you guys come to the conclusion the story is about me. You go school so? Can't you guys comprehend the Grammatical structure of the Topic? HER HUSBAND SLEEPS..... (Will I refer to myself as 'her'?).....CAN SHE DO.....(refer to myself as 'she'?). For goodness sake this is THIRD-PERSON Narrative. Oga o

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I strongly belive that where u meet a partner matters a lot, not jst some random place.

Its never too late to turn all ur needs to God, only him can help u here.

^^ Very true.

toluxa1: I'm not happy at all, my pastor has told me not to go that the Lord will make all things beautiful.

The bitter truth is that I don’t know whether he already has children out side.

Please what is the way out for me?

Your Pastor asked you to wait for God...ok o I hope you're waiting for him.
For God's sake your husband might be a notorious gay and a high class philanderer...and someome is asking you to wait for God? What about your life which might be at risk...have you really find out what you're husband is into?. He told you if you didn't like it, you should go and yet you still waiting for God. Do you think God would cure your HIV should incase you wait for him and get the disease. Even if he cures others, he will never cure you because you could've saved yourself when you should.
We are not praying for any kind disease or harm befalling you but your life is in danger. Find a way to save it....find out what your husband is into and get a yourself a solution even it means ending the marriage........thats the only thing God can do for you and by his help you will get real happiness in the future. Dnt just sit down and wait for God...afterall the wife of your pastor is a home with him.