Hi wise ones:

I need your candid opinion guyz. i ve been thinking seriously of how to present this to u all for dayz now, i am of the opinion that two GOOD heads are better that one.

I ve a GF she just clocked 29 2wks ago, a lawyer by profession. i am going to 31, an investment analyst.

Now the challenge i ve is this: we ve been dating for close to one year +, we luv each oda n we do things 2geda most times we r 2geda but we ve not had sex, not because she doesnt want to but because i am not sure i want to disvirgin her, y because i am not sure if i would want to end up with her. she is always eager to have sex with me just like i want too, being the first one she would ever experience in life but i keep refusing her and this makes her sometimes feel bad and quarell with me at times which i dont like to see her in such condition ( vowed to always make her happy) all i do is kiss her real good which she commends me for and named me GOOD KISSER. My girl is beautiful, good body posture, clean & smells nice, flat tummy, Normal size hips level n well structured ass, not to tall nor too short. (small size boobs, i LIKE IT DAT).

i dont want a situation whereby we get down, her pride is gone and we dont end up settling down together, wont it look like i jilted her or something (lied, etc)

i have not spoken to her on this either n i dont intend too.

I need your help pple, wat do i do?

Oscar J:

Hi wise ones:

I need your candid opinion guys. i ve been thinking seriously of how to present this to u all for dayz now, i am of the opinion that two GOOD heads are better that one.

I ve a GF she just clocked 29 2wks ago, a lawyer by profession. i am going to 31, an investment analyst.

Now the challenge i ve is this: we ve been dating for close to one year +, we love each oda n we do things 2geda most times we r 2geda but we ve not had sex, not because she doesnt want to but because i am not sure i want to disvirgin her, y because i am not sure if i would want to end up with her. she is always eager to have sex with me just like i want too, being the first one she would ever experience in life but i keep refusing her and this makes her sometimes feel bad and quarell with me at times which i don't like to see her in such condition ( vowed to always make her happy) all i do is kiss her real good which she commends me for and named me GOOD KISSER. My girl is beautiful, good body posture, clean & smells nice, flat tummy, Normal size hips level n well structured ass, not to tall nor too short. (small size boobs, i LIKE IT DAT).

i don't want a situation whereby we get down, her pride is gone and we don't end up settling down together, wont it look like i jilted her or something (lied, etc)

i have not spoken to her on this either n i don't intend too.

I need your help people, what do i do?

I can't even get what your problem is. You want people to help you for what? Only story you full ground for us. She is this and that. My advise for you is: Bleep the smelling ass well. That's what she wants and nothing more. Whether you marry her or not should not bother you.

At 29, she probably sees you as a potential husband and you don't sound like you're ready for such. Why don't you inform her of your fears and hear what she has to say about it?

okay! so you dont think you want to marry her so therefore, you dont want to disvirgin her, dude, she is 29 so beta let her know ur plans, if u dont intend marrying her, let her be b4 its to late as u can see she is 29 already, From what you wrote, she gat it all, pray oooooooo
B/w, the way u discribed her body, I thought it was me, lol only dat am not 29, lol

U ought to delete the portion where u said u loved this babe
Because if you do, i don't know whats keeping u from marrying her
Or are u saying that at 31 u aren't ready for marriage
Don't make this look like the posting of a tenager

I appreciate the resspect u have for her by keepong away from sexual intercourse with her until u are married
But dude, if u can't marry her or u aren't convinced she's the one for u then give chance for other eligible and ready young men
Who aren't contemplating to try their Luck while u keep procrastinating!!!

Open ur eyes

i wonder o iice, low things stop

Oscar J:

Ibut because i am not sure i want to disvirgin her,

how are u sure she is still a virgin?

tngtech:

how are u sure she is still a virgin?

Word of mouth

tngtech:

how are u sure she is still a virgin?

he must have rolled an egg and it got stuck

NaJa HaJe:

he must have rolled an egg and it got stuck

on thats it?

tngtech:

on thats it?

do you mean 'OH dats it?

u love the girl yet u're not sure she's the one mmhhh! u probably dont know wat love is or maybe there's another chikata (tell us the truth)
newaiz quit screwing with the girls head and let her no wats up.

yea thats wat i mean

Oscar J:

i don't want a situation whereby we get down, her pride is gone and we don't end up settling down together, wont it look like i jilted her or something (lied, etc)

I at least commend you for this, most guys dont care cos they are mere bastards

Now the question is, why dont you see yourself settling down with her?

(small size boobs, i LIKE IT DAT).

blasphemy, just give her what she wants u good samaritan

just cant stop l;affing

you dont want to sleep with her, you dont want to marry her, you dont want to hurt her, you dont want to hurt her pride, she is beautiful, you like her small tits blah blah blah blah balh

WAT THE HELL ARE YOU DOING WITH HER!!!
WHY DO YOU KISS HER!!!!
INFACT WHY HAVE YOU DATED HER FOR MORE THAN A YEAR!!!

i am just sick of your hipocritic life. stop trying to sound good.

and she is somewhere saying: i LOVE him, he is such a good kisser, he will marry me.

At 29? you are a devil

and i know you could be one of these guys who preach the perfectness of love. JJUSR TELL ME WHAT YOU WANT FROM HER
why now, why now.

Una dey try Oh! me I been no know watin be the guy problem! whether na their occupation abi na the age or the girl sharp or say she say she never do!
All the same, I'll label them two confused people. At 29, she no know whether na the guy she want or nice f**king! The guy too at 31 still no know watin him want! my guy I bet you that girl no fine as you describe! but if I lie, you need to go see your doctor! something dey wrong with you! and if I hear you say Vir? not to add Gin just because she say so, I go tear you real slap!

frank 3.16:

you don't want to sleep with her, you don't want to marry her, you don't want to hurt her, you don't want to hurt her pride, she is beautiful, you like her small tits blah blah blah blah balh

WAT THE HELL ARE YOU DOING WITH HER!!!
WHY DO YOU KISS HER!!!!
INFACT WHY HAVE YOU DATED HER FOR MORE THAN A YEAR!!!

i am just sick of your hipocritic life. stop trying to sound good.

and she is somewhere saying: i LOVE him, he is such a good kisser, he will marry me.

At 29? you are a devil

and i know you could be one of these guys who preach the perfectness of love. JJUSR TELL ME WHAT YOU WANT FROM HER
why now, why now.

Lmao. abi o

all they do is string people along. Omolomo is probably going around calling herself "Mrs so and so" already.

lol, really confused
as i said earlier, da way u described da girl sounds like me except am not 29, lol,

bawomolo:

blasphemy, just give her what she wants u good samaritan

lmao omfg hahahahaha

perfect example of why some men don't know what they want.

@poster,
u have finished describing her with no fault and almost too perfect.

she's a lawyer, pretty, not too tall or short, small sized boobies which u like, and a virgin?

[size=14pt]what else do f**king want??[/size]

lol@Busta,
shez old now, 29 chei, wen he can get excately da same thing but younger, lol

Ezinwannem:

lol@Busta,
shez old now, 29 chei, when he can get excately da same thing but younger, lol

lol . . .are u trynna give him a hint that u're available??

Um isnt this thread about the Op's girl anymore

@busta, am a married lady, lol, besides, confused and focused person doesnt match

Ezinwannem:

@busta, am a married lady, lol, besides, confused and focused person doesnt match

ok . . I believe u.
nice pics by the way.

Yes nice pictures but why are they posted here?
Is this the girlfriend?
Sorry Im confused

LadyT:

Yes nice pictures but why are they posted here?
Is this the girlfriend?

I wish I knew

anyway hello dear

D-R and Lady-T,

eyin temi. . . how una dey?