Monicasque: i sense a lot of pain in this thread from the poster but never write off love just because you met one person who was not for you. When it comes to real love your bank account means nothing to her. You were just at the wrong place at the wrong time. Remember not everyone is for you. You will never know when love is coming your way. Still blv in love, your soul mate is on her way

hyperflex: you don't believe in that logic more than i do but u can allow yourself to be smashed against the wall a few times the next time u either push back or knock the person the Bleep out. i gotta say ur right tho. shit just hurts like a mutha. plus most chics are like that nowadays

hyperflex: I thought i gave my all, i loved her so much. matter of factly i stll do. if she comes back it'll be the happiest day of my life. But my brain tells me how pathetic i sound. yes for the sake of love I am. Maybe am even getiing the concept wrong. she never really liked me she thought she would and it took a string of events and some space to make her make up her mind and tell me to Bleep off in the nicest of ways. I still love her. the day she comes back wld be the greatest day of my life. She managed me, why? i just started working and earn a bit over a hundred, i avnt gotten a car and a personal residence yet. i guess that cant make her love me. the signs were there, the unneeded anger, the sidelining when with friends, the few calls, no texts, vexations over little questions, the bbm flirtings...it was all there but I was in love. I am left standing here licking my wounds while she moves on like i never happened. Yes I still love her.I never learn how to get my emotions in check and understand the simple basic rule, BITCHES WANT MONEY AND COMFORT!!! give it to them and they will fall in love even if you are Lucifer. WHAT DO WOMEN WANT? 90% is money and you see the remaining 10% it's easy to figure it out later just get your money first. Women's love ain't for free no more u gotta pay. PAY UP MUTHAFUCKAH. I hurt, memories hunt me, her pictures are all over my phone and laptop and in my cerebellum.

N.B: you wanna fall in love? ask yourself two questions, Where is this girl coming from? and How much do you have? oh it's three, Do you have a car?
Good girls are out there but you have a 10:1 chance of meeting them because even that one girl is just discovering she's a material girl. I still love her tho and i want her back.

Monicasque: i sense a lot of pain in this thread from the poster but never write off love just because you met one person who was not for you. When it comes to real love your bank account means nothing to her. You were just at the wrong place at the wrong time. Remember not everyone is for you. You will never know when love is coming your way. Still blv in love, your soul mate is on her way

Monicasque:


i have noticed that guys are very sensitive beings. You get hurt ones then you wana punish the whole world but see with ladies , we get hurt almost all the time but we always deal with the pain and never let it ruin our hearts. Hun before you meet that one good girl, you are going to get hurt a thousand times. Do not fear pain. Its all relative. Just learn to deal with it you will be fine. The reason we have so many men who are players is because men just fear pain. Guys a breakup is not the end of you. Never let it turn you into a monster

hyperflex: I thought i gave my all, i loved her so much. matter of factly i stll do. if she comes back it'll be the happiest day of my life. But my brain tells me how pathetic i sound. yes for the sake of love I am. Maybe am even getiing the concept wrong. she never really liked me she thought she would and it took a string of events and some space to make her make up her mind and tell me to Bleep off in the nicest of ways. I still love her. the day she comes back wld be the greatest day of my life. She managed me, why? i just started working and earn a bit over a hundred, i avnt gotten a car and a personal residence yet. i guess that cant make her love me. the signs were there, the unneeded anger, the sidelining when with friends, the few calls, no texts, vexations over little questions, the bbm flirtings...it was all there but I was in love. I am left standing here licking my wounds while she moves on like i never happened. Yes I still love her.I never learn how to get my emotions in check and understand the simple basic rule, BITCHES WANT MONEY AND COMFORT!!! give it to them and they will fall in love even if you are Lucifer. WHAT DO WOMEN WANT? 90% is money and you see the remaining 10% it's easy to figure it out later just get your money first. Women's love ain't for free no more u gotta pay. PAY UP MUTHAFUCKAH. I hurt, memories hunt me, her pictures are all over my phone and laptop and in my cerebellum.

N.B: you wanna fall in love? ask yourself two questions, Where is this girl coming from? and How much do you have? oh it's three, Do you have a car?
Good girls are out there but you have a 10:1 chance of meeting them because even that one girl is just discovering she's a material girl. I still love her tho and i want her back.

lyfe: What the poster said isn't far-fetched. Money! Money! Yea money is important and should not be looked on as something not necessary as far as relationship is concerned. Have money I mean good money that oozes on you, then watch love walking your way left and right.

Princelyod: ...now is this what you call love these days?

lyfe:
Since the beginning of civilization.

Forget about chemistry, trust me, no kind of chemical reaction will take place if you do not have a decent amount of money to meet the demands of today's love. Do you think girls from wealthy background want just some random guys around them? They want someone who is richer or at par with them when it comes to money, even if they don't have monetary demands.

Don't be deceived that money has nothing to do with love. I have sisters and I have been around many ladies (from the wealthy and poor background) and I know how they think. if you are poor, most girls will just pity you and some maybe nice to you and let you be friends and no graduation from that. Love exists either true or not but don't ever misconstrue the fact that love has nothing to do with money.

Infact, love = calculation. You have what I like, you can supply my demands. Ever wondered why guys get stunned and fall in love with a girl by just mere physical looks or why it is impossible for you to fall in love with that beggar on the street that needs love and affection or the girl wey get tribal marks and get one and half leg?

lyfe:
Forget about chemistry, trust me, no kind of chemical reaction will take place if you do not have a decent amount of money to meet the demands of today's love.

Do you think girls from wealthy background want just some random guys around them? They want someone who is richer or at par with them when it comes to money, even if they don't have monetary demands.

Don't be deceived that money has nothing to do with love. I have sisters and I have been around many ladies (from the wealthy and poor background) and I know how they think. if you are poor, most girls will just pity you and some maybe nice to you and let you be friends and no graduation from that. Love exists either true or not but don't ever misconstrue the fact that love has nothing to do with money.

MRbrownJAY:

FAIL #1
this is exactly the reason why so many people like you will never understand the issue.....but here is a clue:
no kind of chemical reaction will take place if you do not have a decent amount of money to meet the demands of today's LIFE
the minute you understand the above, is the day you will have a chance at understanding the issue.



FAIL #2
wealthy women live a certain lifestyle, and would therefore A) meet partners in their social circle, B) search for guys who can understand their lifestyle and C) prefer meeting guys who LIVE such lifestyle so that they can continue enjoying it.

smart women know that no man wants to depend on their partner (thanks to the male ego). so its very easy to understand that if a rich woman is dating a poor man, it will never work unless A) she lowers her lifestyle to what that man can provide, B) she is dating some guy who is just interested in improving himself financially and/or want to take her for all she can offer or C) she finds a humble man who dont think like most African men do (finding such man in Nigeria is casi impossible).

smart rich women would also understand that the number ONE goal for 99% of African men is to MAKE MONEY AT ALL COST......and since finding a rich woman would be a short cut to such goal, the only way a rich woman would know for certain that her man is not with her JUST for her money, is to date an equally rich man. are you educated on the matter now still following me now?



FAIL #3
again, if a person has no money to either feed themselves, clothe themselves or live a decent life, then they have no business looking for love. if a person CAN feed themselves, clothe themselves and live a decent life then nothing can stop them from finding true love. the problem is that most poor women today are looking for a rich guy to save them from the miserable lives they are living, they want to live the life of the rich and famous without hardworking for it, they want to cut corners and have it all (BB, Louboutin shoes, Gucci bag) RIGHT NOW.........and this is something the guy (that hasnt got much money but who live a decent life) CANNOT offer to these ladies.
this is the direct result of poverty and the mental destruction it creates.

MULTIPLE FAIL
- "love = calculation."
wrong, LOVE = CHEMISTRY

- "You have what I like"
means what these women like and focus on is SOLELY money, and therefore these women are ashewos that will be with any man who has money (whether he is fine/ugly, fit/fat, nice/rude, gross etc). this aint no LOVE!

- "you can supply my demand"
again, clearly shows that these are broke aaasss babes who have desperate needs in their lives and who are looking for benefactors who will be able to take them out of their miserable begging lives. sadly these benefactors will demand in return to use these babes as sex slaves for as long as they will be on payroll. this aint no LOVE!

- "Ever wondered why guys get stunned and fall in love with a girl by just mere physical looks?"
yes, its called LUST. this aint no LOVE!

-"why it is impossible for you to fall in love with that beggar on the street that needs love and affection?"
again, you cannot fall in love with someone you just saw on the street. you may think they are beautiful or sexy, but thats it. to fall in love you would need to meet them again, communicate with them, discover them, spend quality time with them etc......so i certainly understand why NOBODY can fall in love with a beggar.
but here is a clue: if a lady looking like Beyonce or Nicki Minaj was begging on the street then you would certainly LUST for them.

- "the girl wey get tribal marks and get one and half leg?"
whats wrong with either of them? we can now fully understand that you have absolutely NO IDEA what love is.
here is a clue: the reason why most women with tribal marks (or one leg) find happiness is because of LOVE.........and the reason why the others dont, certainly has nothing to do with their markings or disability. but then again, some guys (like yourself) may not like tribal marks or disabilities, and thats your PREFERENCES, but just dont believe it has anything to do with LOVE.

FIRST you find someone that you are physically attracted to (and vice versa), SECOND you get to know them and see if they have the attributes you require in a mate (and vice versa), THIRD you subsequently fall in love with them. thats the way it goes, NOT the way around!