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Is It Better To self-service Or To Have Affair? by thelonestranger: 8:03am On Jun 21, 2013
Which one is better to do for a married man whose wife is not cooperating. Should he have affair or mastu.rbate instead ?
Re: Is It Better To self-service Or To Have Affair? by Lordave: 8:17am On Jun 21, 2013
He should dig a hole size of his dc!k and Bleep. earth.

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Re: Is It Better To self-service Or To Have Affair? by thelonestranger: 9:09am On Jun 21, 2013
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Re: Is It Better To self-service Or To Have Affair? by Lordave: 9:22am On Jun 21, 2013
thelonestranger:
Go f,uck yourself . This is an adult forum
I doubt you are an adult. Shamelessly talking about masturbating and 4cking around like a dog on a public forum. Ordained retarded clever d!kc, you haven't said wat you are up to. Alomo.
Re: Is It Better To self-service Or To Have Affair? by thelonestranger: 9:37am On Jun 21, 2013
I will just ignore you. I shouldn't have commented to your bait earlier.. My mistake.
Re: Is It Better To self-service Or To Have Affair? by tpia5: 9:40am On Jun 21, 2013
too many sickos roaming free.

i simply cant fathom why other people's relationships are some entities' reason for living, are you people handicapped or something?

just asking.

i certainly dont spend my own time jealously eyeing others, wonder how you folks can get anything else done in the course of your day.

of course, if you're being paid, or given some other goodies, then good for you i suppose. undecided
Re: Is It Better To self-service Or To Have Affair? by tpia5: 9:42am On Jun 21, 2013
thelonestranger: I will just ignore you. I shouldn't have commented to your bait earlier.. My mistake.

is the thread for you, as in are you the one with the s.exual problem, or is it your "friend"?
Re: Is It Better To self-service Or To Have Affair? by Lordave: 9:43am On Jun 21, 2013
tpia@:
too many sickos roaming free.

i simply cant fathom why other people's relationships are their reason for living, are you people handicapped or something?

just asking.

i certainly dont spend my own time jealously eyeing others, wonder how you folks can get anything else done in the course of your day.
what are you talking about?
Re: Is It Better To self-service Or To Have Affair? by tpia5: 9:44am On Jun 21, 2013
just letting off some steam, too many sick creeps opening threads or posting on nl recently.

nothing to do with you.
Re: Is It Better To self-service Or To Have Affair? by thelonestranger: 10:15am On Jun 21, 2013
Also a lot of people living in denial if you get my drift. A simple question which has to do with a moral or hygiene issue and which can apply to millions of married people all over the world and the advice given by someone who doesn't know the answer , instead of just moving on, is that the person should stick his peni$ inside a hole in the ground , which is like saying cut it off. That is rude and childish, i beg.
Re: Is It Better To self-service Or To Have Affair? by Temismith(f): 10:42am On Jun 21, 2013
Rahping your wife is better joor!
Re: Is It Better To self-service Or To Have Affair? by druid06(m): 10:55am On Jun 21, 2013
thelonestranger: Also a lot of people living in denial if you get my drift. A simple question which has to do with a moral or hygiene issue and which can apply to millions of married people all over the world and the advice given by someone who doesn't know the answer , instead of just moving on, is that the person should stick his peni$ inside a hole in the ground , which is like saying cut it off. That is rude and childish, i beg.

Sometimes the Misses tend to hold off the se-x for a while post marriage. Happens everywhere and all the time. If you're a GOD fearing man then I must say both practices are not good for you in the spiritual sense but if you don't believe in any faith or would I say have any conscience like I do, then who say you can't do both? wink wink
Re: Is It Better To self-service Or To Have Affair? by jmoha: 11:04am On Jun 21, 2013
great

Re: Is It Better To self-service Or To Have Affair? by AtheistD(m): 11:19am On Jun 21, 2013
Lordave: He should dig a hole size of his dc!k and Bleep. earth.

A form of wa.nking grin
Re: Is It Better To self-service Or To Have Affair? by Monicasque(f): 4:28pm On Jun 21, 2013
people who are in marriage should not deprive each other of each others bodies otherwise that will lead to disaster. That is why married people should by almeans always try to settle their differences before even thinking about cheating or wanking. Marriage is no walk in the park that is why one must be ready when entering in it. Marriage and relationships differ a lot and i really do not understand why one should even need to get sex else where or self-service whereas they are no longer on the market
Re: Is It Better To self-service Or To Have Affair? by AtheistD(m): 4:30pm On Jun 21, 2013
Monicasque: people who are in marriage should not deprive each other of each others bodies otherwise that will lead to disaster. That is why married people should by almeans always try to settle their differences before even thinking about cheating or wanking. Marriage is no walk in the park that is why one must be ready when entering in it. Marriage and relationships differ a lot and i really do not understand why one should even need to get sex else where or self-service whereas they are no longer on the market

What about when she is pregnant or breast feeding? That could equate to 6 months of no nookie
Re: Is It Better To self-service Or To Have Affair? by Monicasque(f): 4:34pm On Jun 21, 2013
Atheist:-D:


What about when she is pregnant or breast feeding? That could equate to 6 months of no nookie


then you gotta wait too sugar. Isn't it she is also waiting? don't both of you equally have needs? why must she pay the price of giving birth to your child and you are not willing to do the same? isn't it that child was created by both you yols? then you must both be ofsex not the other one wanting to cheat the process
Re: Is It Better To self-service Or To Have Affair? by AtheistD(m): 4:36pm On Jun 21, 2013
Monicasque:


then you gotta wait too sugar. Isn't she is also waiting? don't both of you equally have needs? why must she pay the price of giving birth to your child and you are not willing to do the same? isn't that child was created by both you yols? then you must both be ofsex not the other one wanting to cheat the process

Eloquently said... but some men cant wait grin
Re: Is It Better To self-service Or To Have Affair? by Monicasque(f): 4:38pm On Jun 21, 2013
Atheist:-D:


Eloquently said... but some men cant wait grin


patience is a virtue and one should work on self discipline when married. People must understand that marriage is not all about sex and do all the dogging you wana do before entering the responsible union of marriage.
Re: Is It Better To self-service Or To Have Affair? by AtheistD(m): 4:40pm On Jun 21, 2013
Monicasque:


patience is a virtue and one should work on self discipline when married. People must understand that marriage is not all about sex and do all the dogging you wana do before entering the responsible union of marriage.

But men dont have variable drives the way women do. Most remain consistent. So they are likely to be keen on intimacy during pregnancy and even after child birth. 6 months might be a stretch for some... remember Rooney grin
Re: Is It Better To self-service Or To Have Affair? by Monicasque(f): 4:40pm On Jun 21, 2013
Atheist:-D:


Eloquently said... but some men cant wait grin

Ath honey, plz remember that there is a huge difference between a man and a boy and unfortunately there are so many married boys out there. It takes a lot to be a man
Re: Is It Better To self-service Or To Have Affair? by AtheistD(m): 4:43pm On Jun 21, 2013
Monicasque:

Ath honey, plz remember that there is a huge difference between a man and a boy and unfortunately there are so many married boys out there. It takes a lot to be a man

You'd be surprised grin
Re: Is It Better To self-service Or To Have Affair? by Princesszoe: 4:45pm On Jun 21, 2013
@ monicasque i respect your wisdom today. You are really crowned with potentials. With this, you are good to be a marriage counsellor. God bless you abundantly for even making use of this wisdom here. Another like of pastor bimbo odukoya.
Re: Is It Better To self-service Or To Have Affair? by Monicasque(f): 4:45pm On Jun 21, 2013
Atheist:-D:


You'd be surprised grin

meaning?
Re: Is It Better To self-service Or To Have Affair? by AtheistD(m): 4:46pm On Jun 21, 2013
Monicasque:

meaning?

Meaning a lot of men might be weak too. The drive is not so easy to control.
Re: Is It Better To self-service Or To Have Affair? by Monicasque(f): 4:48pm On Jun 21, 2013
Princess zoe: @ monicasque i respect your wisdom today. You are really crowned with potentials. With this, you are good to be a marriage counsellor. God bless you abundantly for even making use of this wisdom here. Another like of pastor bimbo odukoya.


Thanks sister but the truth is no one is innocent in life and we should try share what we have learned inlife because depriving each other of the truth and our own individual views would be injustice to one another. Each one teach one. I have learnt a lot from Nairaland as well and it has helped me shape my life for the better. We all have skeletons in the closet baby , BLV ME

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