With reference to a thread titled ''Lets talk about Nigerian women, money, sex and fake hair'' created by Caracta, I would like to ask our wonderful Nigerian/Non-Nigerian ladies on Nairaland the question below.

What would make you feel happier in a relationship, sharing(includes buying gifts and other spending activities) or sacrificing/compromising?

Dont say both

I wanted to say Both....

Compromising let it be 2 sided and Mutual

Spending and not feeling as if have spent

Which kind question be this?

Ofcourse one would prefer a relationship that is balanced and that includes sharing, sacrificing\compromising.


A relationship where one party has to be the one always compromising, is not a real relationship.

freecocoa: Which kind question be this?

Ofcourse one would prefer a relationship that is balanced and that includes sharing, sacrificing\compromising.


A relationship where one party has to be the one always compromising, is not a real relationship.

I said happier. One must supercede the other

I don't understand? Sacrificing? Sacrificing what? Animals and crops?

Relationship in itself is about sharing and living.

First to comment. No comment

Caracta: I don't understand? Sacrificing? Sacrificing what? Animals and crops?

Relationship in itself is about sharing and living.

sharing and living but no sacrifice right?

xynerise:
sharing and living but no sacrifice right?

Sharing itself is sacrificing. Or maybe i don't understand your point. What do you mean by sacrificing?

*Edit.

Sacrificing and compromising are two different things!

Caracta:

Sharing itself is sacrificing. Or maybe i don't understand your point. What do you mean by sacrificing?

Sacrificing/compromising means giving up something you cherish for the sake of making another happy or satisfied.

Clarify

Antelope, which kain topic be dis?

alutacontinua: Antelope, which kain topic be dis?

My topic is always complicated abi?

xynerise:
Sacrificing/compromising means giving up something you cherish for the sake of making another happy or satisfied.

I'll strike out compromising because i still don't understand.

We can't make sacrifices all the time (going by your definition). I can't sacrifice my income every month, but i can share it. I can't sacrifice my house, but i can share it.

Make i no lie. I no understand your kwesion. I just dey form

xynerise:
My topic is always complicated abi?

Not complicated...but incomprehensible!

Sharing.

For me it's going to be sharing

From peoples experience: SACRIFICING may turn out to be regrets if at the end things don't go well between the two.

While SHARING makes you a loving and cheerful giver.

My Opinion

Caracta:

Not complicated...but incomprehensible!

THIS!
How Andy dey do?