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You Want Her To Love You Without Money by Bootylicious(f): 8:29pm On Jul 22, 2013 |
Henhen, You want her to LOVE you without MONEY,Can you LOVE her without SEX? Did i hear you say money is not love? please help me ask if sex is love 1 Like |
Re: You Want Her To Love You Without Money by Nomski0(f): 8:32pm On Jul 22, 2013 |
Neither money nor sex is love. Just because he asks for sex doesnt mean you ask for money, and just because she asks for money doesnt mean you ask for sex. Sex nor money doesnt define a good relationship. 2 Likes |
Re: You Want Her To Love You Without Money by IZUKWU(m): 8:35pm On Jul 22, 2013 |
Na poverty dey cause all these things. 4 Likes |
Re: You Want Her To Love You Without Money by Bootylicious(f): 8:54pm On Jul 22, 2013 |
This is fair enough Nomski0: Neither money nor sex is love. Just because he asks for sex doesnt mean you ask for money, and just because she asks for money doesnt mean you ask for sex. |
Re: You Want Her To Love You Without Money by Nobody: 9:10pm On Jul 22, 2013 |
Now I understand why Boys re becoming very open, give dem money n f***ck dem, I think all gurls re same, give them money if dey so wish n f**ck dem den it ends, it all boyles dowwn to dat. B4 now I was seen guys patronizing roadside gurls as ill virtued now I know every gurl is desame. 4rm now on, I mek a solemn declaration I SHALL NVR HLP ANY LADY FINANCIALLY IF SHE. CAN'T OFFER SUMTIN IN RETURN N pls no gurl should comehere n talk ill about "ashawos" cus all U gurls re "PRostitutes" No hard feeling , just saying d truth as it is,n I am aware d truth hurts, buh datz not my fault either 4 Likes |
Re: You Want Her To Love You Without Money by Sanboy25: 10:30pm On Jul 22, 2013 |
I agree with you poster. |
Re: You Want Her To Love You Without Money by Nobody: 10:34pm On Jul 22, 2013 |
Nomski0: Neither money nor sex is love. Just because he asks for sex doesnt mean you ask for money, and just because she asks for money doesnt mean you ask for sex.True Nomski0:They definitely have their roles |
Re: You Want Her To Love You Without Money by scribble: 10:38pm On Jul 22, 2013 |
Lol. Remember one Nigerian celeb that said her mother told her to be prostituting herself. The same with Joseph Yobo's wife now. Lol! May God give Nigerian women wisdom. I know some women from afar and I pity the men who will settle down with them. A super story really. Tragic! |
Re: You Want Her To Love You Without Money by Bootylicious(f): 12:09am On Jul 23, 2013 |
Why do men also ask 4 sex? Premarital sex is wrong nd so many of u will dump a girl if she refuses having sex, if money and love doesn't go hand in hand den u guys shld stop using sex as a bait scribble: Lol. Remember one Nigerian celeb that said her mother told her to be prostituting herself. The same with Joseph Yobo's wife now. Lol! May God give Nigerian women wisdom. I know some women from afar and I pity the men who will settle down with them. A super story really. Tragic! |
Re: You Want Her To Love You Without Money by scribble: 3:40am On Jul 23, 2013 |
Bootylicious: Why do men also ask 4 sex? Premarital sex is wrong nd so many of u will dump a girl if she refuses having sex, if money and love doesn't go hand in hand den u guys shld stop using sex as a bait lol. i dont know why most men do it, but a lot of women too love premarital sex. infact my present girlfriend is the reason im always sinning. she doesnt get money in exchange though. infact she's very supportive to me too, like a real relationship we are both giving of ourselves. this money for sex thing is a nigerian woman and corrupt politician/businessman created construct. Naija girls like sex too, so dont go with the premarital sex argument. it just makes u look silly. naija women just learnt that men will pay for what they enjoy doing anyway, so its a win-win-win for y'all 2 Likes |
Re: You Want Her To Love You Without Money by Bootylicious(f): 4:53am On Jul 23, 2013 |
No1 is talking abt paid sex here. Lots of men feel sex is dre right in a relationship and somehow so many ladies one wayy or d oda may end up needing d help of dre bf,and once she ask shez termed as being materialistic or term it to paid sex like most of u are.. A matured man anyway shld b able to fix @least little of his woman's problem and not just d man, it's a vice versa tin!!! scribble: |
Re: You Want Her To Love You Without Money by dBard: 6:08am On Jul 23, 2013 |
The problem here is d total Lack of Self Respect prevalent these days..cos I dont see y any secure, self respecting girl will EXPECT her man t foot her bills if he wants t or not, it is His CHOICE not Obligation. Same goes f d guys..I Cannot spend on a girl expecting sex in return..NO! If am t spend, its becos I Chose To. If I end up wit her, I then know its becos We Both chose to..I cannot Respect a girl that meets me f regularly f her needs..is she handicapped This thread just exposes d warped mentality of d boys n girls out there..its becoming annoying. RELATIONSHIPS IS FOR MATURE MINDS.. 2 Likes |
Re: You Want Her To Love You Without Money by Arsenate(m): 8:22am On Jul 23, 2013 |
Raymondenyi: Now I understand why Boys re becoming very open, give dem money n f***ck dem, I think all gurls re same, give them money if dey so wish n f**ck dem den it ends, it all boyles dowwn to dat. B4 now I was seen guys patronizing roadside gurls as ill virtued now I know every gurl is desame.you are just knowing this? Ok! Good morning to you. I've always known this, anyway. most Nigerian girls are ashawos. The op is a good example of one. I don't have regards for these ashis...only mugus and magas do. |
Re: You Want Her To Love You Without Money by Mynd44: 8:28am On Jul 23, 2013 |
Okay no money and no sex. The problem here is that most of these guys coming here to say "Truth" will cannot stay in a relationship without sex. A lot of men can not even stand their women paying for the meal as they will enforce themselves sayin "it is my duty as a man" and they come her to for solidarity. Nonsense 1 Like |
Re: You Want Her To Love You Without Money by SLIDEwaxie(m): 8:47am On Jul 23, 2013 |
Bootylicious: Henhen, You want her to LOVE you without MONEY,Can you LOVE her without SEX? Did i hear you say money is not love? please help me ask if sex is loveif u ask for money, and i no give u, make carry ur sex dey go o! No be say i no fit get elsewhere. And we all knw that kind girl's toto go don wide finish, cos she go fucck anythin wey drop d cash! And d toto no kukuma get air conditioner, abi street light. So, wetin be d fuss all abt sef? 1 Like |
Re: You Want Her To Love You Without Money by kliq(m): 8:58am On Jul 23, 2013 |
Bootylicious: Why do men also ask 4 sex? Premarital sex is wrong nd so many of u will dump a girl if she refuses having sex, if money and love doesn't go hand in hand den u guys shld stop using sex as a baitjus d same way premarital spendin is wrong...cus d guy myt as well kip his money for his future wife...and the ladies are like"if u love me u'll wait"like she never bin there b4 smh |
Re: You Want Her To Love You Without Money by dmcdad: 9:00am On Jul 23, 2013 |
Dang!!! this is ridiculous.... I have stated this times without number, sex is enjoyed by both parties. Ohh, are you implying that men are the ones who enjoy sex, while women feel nothing about it? Seriously? FYI there is no authentic proof yet that men are just the ones who crave for sex. And what makes you think you are doing a man a favour by having sex with him? Gosh! This is pure Naija mentality. No offence @op. How many of you will even give in to the idea of no-sex-no-money in relationships? Since you now align them side-by-side, I guess you don't give in to sex except when money emanates from a guy's pockets. That would mean that you are more like a.... Anywayz, as far as I am concerned, you are not doing any man a favour by having sex with him, Infact, you enjoy it more. Is the word órgasm more familiar with men or women? And you still think you are doing a man a favour because of what you enjoy more than him? Think again gurly.... Besides, its obvious girls who always weigh money and sex in relationships are the dependent kinda girls with low self-esteem and values... If in giving out sex to a man you feel something should always be given back in return, what makes you different from a love-peddler? Probably you are just doing it a more revised way, yet you are doing the same thing.... God, with all these, who is gonna be that true one for me when it seems virtually all girls are just after money and all and have forgotten about the real values that makes a person unique? I think maybe I should reconsider going to the seminary oooooooo. Cause it seems I am not safe with the kinda women the world is producing.... Lol God help us all. 3 Likes |
Re: You Want Her To Love You Without Money by kliq(m): 9:02am On Jul 23, 2013 |
SLIDE waxie: if u ask for money, and i no give u, make carry ur sex dey go o!heyyyyy Mr Raw....lmao....nice 1 |
Re: You Want Her To Love You Without Money by EejaNla01(m): 12:04pm On Jul 23, 2013 |
Smh! This thread reminds me of Dailynews. |
Re: You Want Her To Love You Without Money by Mynd44: 12:27pm On Jul 23, 2013 |
Eeja Nla01: Smh!Who knows, it might be him |
Re: You Want Her To Love You Without Money by Nobody: 12:31pm On Jul 23, 2013 |
Maybe it's because I have a lil fever at the moment, I just cannot seem to understand the purpose of this thread. Mynd, abeg, Save a Sister! |
Re: You Want Her To Love You Without Money by Mynd44: 12:34pm On Jul 23, 2013 |
alutacontinua: Maybe it's because I have a lil fever at the moment, I just cannot seem to understand the purpose of this thread. Mynd, abeg, Save a Sister!Just the normal crap. The OP is saying that if a man wants a woman to love him without him spending money, he should be ready to love her without sex. In order words, if you don't spend on me, no sex........ |
Re: You Want Her To Love You Without Money by Nobody: 12:38pm On Jul 23, 2013 |
Mynd_44: @ the bolded. @op, if you're not comfortable doing something in a relationship, DON'T. As simple as ABC. |
Re: You Want Her To Love You Without Money by sexymoma(f): 12:57pm On Jul 23, 2013 |
No Money No Sex ba Dont come to this section and cook up wan story that the man you married to is impotent i wont listen o. Instead mak you sample am now you saying no money no sex. Come o do you go into relationships basically to invest through your boyfriend eh na wa o. Money is not love, sex in not love either. 1 Like |
Re: You Want Her To Love You Without Money by Mynd44: 12:59pm On Jul 23, 2013 |
She can as well go stand at a street corner 1 Like |
Re: You Want Her To Love You Without Money by dmcdad: 1:05pm On Jul 23, 2013 |
Mynd_44: She can as well go stand at a street cornerThat's what I thought.... |
Re: You Want Her To Love You Without Money by Nobody: 1:08pm On Jul 23, 2013 |
This fever is dealing with me no be small tin....I actually missed the part where the op is a female. I thought he's male. Guess that's why I didn't understand the thread in the first instance. op, what exactly is your point That your man is supposed to be paying for sex Oooohhhhhh Laaawwwwdddd...what has this world turned into? Dear op, just give me 3 solid differences between you and a prostitute. Thanks in advance. 1 Like |
Re: You Want Her To Love You Without Money by Mynd44: 1:08pm On Jul 23, 2013 |
dmcdad:But then due to globalization, a street corner might be her phone or laptop and they meet in the room |
Re: You Want Her To Love You Without Money by Teespice(f): 1:35pm On Jul 23, 2013 |
dBard: The problem here is d total Lack of Self Respect prevalent these days..cos I dont see y any secure, self respecting girl will EXPECT her man t foot her bills if he wants t or not, it is His CHOICE not Obligation. Same goes f d guys..I Cannot spend on a girl expecting sex in return..NO! If am t spend, its becos I Chose To. If I end up wit her, I then know its becos We Both chose to..I cannot Respect a girl that meets me f regularly f her needs..is she handicapped Well said. |
Re: You Want Her To Love You Without Money by dmcdad: 3:13pm On Jul 23, 2013 |
Mynd_44:Gbam!!! Your head is there... If you were a girl I would say you are guilty of this, but I know you ain't. Lol. |
Re: You Want Her To Love You Without Money by Mynd44: 4:42pm On Jul 23, 2013 |
dmcdad:I know their tricks na? Street things |
Re: You Want Her To Love You Without Money by jmoore(m): 5:31pm On Jul 23, 2013 |
sex+money = prostitution |
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