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10 Men You Should Avoid by ojubi(m): 9:41am On Jul 24, 2013
Here is a list of types of men that women should avoid at any cost. Read on...

Are you looking out for a new relationship or want to just date men? You might come across somebody and hit it off nicely for a year or so, and then you begin to notice things that could make you part ways. To avoid the pain you undergo when things go wrong, here's a list of ten types of men you should run miles away from.

The rebound shot
A man, who is fresh out of a relationship, is still lurking in the transition. At this point of time, he can be quite weak and might lean on the nearest support he can find. But that doesn't mean that he's really fallen for you. Although for some people it has worked, but mostly in the long run, there can be no assurance of this one coming to term.

No money, honey
Understood you are not a materialistic girl, you are independent and are alright with going dutch on a date. Women don't necessarily want a rich millionaire, but a little something can be a good thing. Even the guy would feel his dignity is safe if he can contribute some. And a man who still cannot understand this - girl, dump the slowpoke now!

'Ex' factor
'You are good, but she was better!' Are you still with a guy who says that? Bang your head on the nearest wall and tell him you might as well go back. He's not yet over the ex-relationship, and somewhere he's sulking about it. Good or bad, the experience could be anything, but the fact that he still talks about her doesn't help in getting the current relation any better. And even if you don't dump him, but make him realise, talk it out; and if it still doesn't work, it's unbelievable you are still putting up with it!

'Ex' out the friendly factor
Men do have a tendency to still retain a certain amount of care for the woman they once loved. So, it doesn't make any sense for them to remain friends once it's over. What was there once can be reignited in some weak moments. So, dearest men, dump the 'ex' as 'friend' and concentrate on your current love. A bird in hand is always better than two in the bush.

Love at first sight
Well, it happens only in books or films. Most often, it's just a liking or lust. But love, dearies, takes time to blossom. So, lady, if the gentleman has told you 'I Love You' a bit too soon, hold your horses and don't jump into taking yet another big step.

'The world is hard on me'
No darling, you are just a selfish man who has taken certain wrong decisions perhaps, but doesn't want to admit it. I know you just said 'no', but deep down you know it's a 'yes'! Unaccountable, selfish or plain immature, grow up or stop pulling the other person down with you by blaming the world or her for your problems, lest she decides to move the 'problem' away from your life.

Can't take 'no' for an answer
Even if it's just gaining control over the remote. Read the key words 'gaining control' and get the hint. If you are ready to be a doormat, and are happy with it, man your relation is going to last a historical era! But if you are a person who commands respect, there are better people out there who give you that.

Mr. Richie Rich
The poor little rich guy, if he shows off a lot of moolah, either he's going to run out of it or, well, just keep believing that 'love can be bought'! And if you're the guy who's lying about it, you're hurting your chances of having a real relationship as the facade will eventually come back to bite you.

Momma's boy
Better stay in momma's lap! If your guy can't move a nerve without 'mom's consent', you better move yourself away from him.

Dad's the financier
If the guy is still living with his parents despite being all but 25 years of age, are you still going to to live with him? The first thing he should do is get a job! If he cannot do that, he'll be dependant on dad, or you! And if you cannot pay his bills, 'you are a no-good girlfriend' is all you'll hear from him!

SOURCE: NAIJA.
Re: 10 Men You Should Avoid by Borngreater1(f): 10:08am On Jul 24, 2013
Those men does not really worth being with. When i meet him, i wil kn its him!!!
Re: 10 Men You Should Avoid by 190: 10:13am On Jul 24, 2013
u might as well avoid all men cos all men fall atleast into one of these categories

btw lemme quickly book down this space just incase this thread hits Front page

then i'd be back to edit my comments and lastly i wanna quickly give a quick shout out to all my girlfriends in the house

shollypopz,smoothly,nomonski, modella, abiL, spongback

uncle 190 loves you all tongue
Re: 10 Men You Should Avoid by babadey(m): 11:03am On Jul 24, 2013
190: u might as well avoid all men cos all men fall atleast into one of these categories

btw lemme quickly book down this space just incase this thread hits Front page

then i'd be back to edit my comments and lastly i wanna quickly give a quick shout out to all my girlfriends in the house

shollypopz,smoothly,nomonski, modella, abiL, spongback

uncle 190 loves you all tongue

Why u shouting out? undecided. This thread is talking about men to avoid, you come here to shout out,smh.

Op. Its better they don't date/marry cos most men do have those traits, if not all angry
Re: 10 Men You Should Avoid by Excel30: 12:10pm On Jul 24, 2013
They are boys&not men.
Re: 10 Men You Should Avoid by Nobody: 1:04pm On Jul 24, 2013
Lastly, avoid me... I no dey market again
Re: 10 Men You Should Avoid by deshclones(m): 1:21pm On Jul 24, 2013
190: u might as well avoid all men cos all men fall atleast into one of these categories

btw lemme quickly book down this space just incase this thread hits Front page

then i'd be back to edit my comments and lastly i wanna quickly give a quick shout out to all my girlfriends in the house

shollypopz,smoothly,nomonski, modella, abiL, spongback

uncle 190 loves you all tongue

what in fccks gracious name is the bolded doing in your list mate??...you can do better abeg...quit hanging with e-touts...
Re: 10 Men You Should Avoid by 190: 6:47pm On Jul 24, 2013
deshclones:

what in fccks gracious name is the bolded doing in your list mate??...you can do better abeg...quit hanging with e-touts...



Rotfl

Is shollypopz an e_tout

Hahaha something must have happened
Care to tell me more
Re: 10 Men You Should Avoid by Nobody: 6:56pm On Jul 24, 2013
190:

Rotfl

Is shollypopz an e_tout

Hahaha something must have happened
Care to tell me more
He was running his mouth so I whooped his silly a*ss

The dude is butt hurt, hence the unnecessary comment grin grin cool
Re: 10 Men You Should Avoid by deshclones(m): 7:17pm On Jul 24, 2013
190:

Rotfl

Is shollypopz an e_tout

Hahaha something must have happened
Care to tell me more

Bro u bet i was tongue whooped for real...i have always been with cream kids,well reserved and discipline pretty gals...was a bit taken aback by this shollpoop character...still cant believe such venom gutter language could come out of a gal's buccal cavity...now i know why some guys use their fist..some gals sure deserve the fist treatment....
Re: 10 Men You Should Avoid by 190: 7:52pm On Jul 24, 2013
Dies

Hahahahahhahahahahaa!!!!


I'm laffin so hard and peeps staring @me

Please sholly biko desh is one the few ni99az out here I got maximum peak respect for -

Please settle wif him - this is an sos message to shollypopzz
Re: 10 Men You Should Avoid by Nobody: 8:06pm On Jul 24, 2013
'The world is hard on me'.... lol read my mind... but sometimes I think hes joking tongue
Re: 10 Men You Should Avoid by Omobarca: 8:09pm On Jul 24, 2013
grin 190 brought M̶̲̅ε̲̣̣̣̥ here grin Okay who's this man who had his asss whooped by a lady tongue tongue
Re: 10 Men You Should Avoid by Nobody: 8:16pm On Jul 24, 2013
@190: I don't beef my victims. I'm not even the slightest bit mad @ him....... I know he is still hurt from the a*ss whooping, that's why I'm ignoring his shots at me.

Tell him to let it go and that I'm really nice smiley
Re: 10 Men You Should Avoid by owolabifunke14(f): 8:23pm On Jul 24, 2013
I give such men the long spoon. Once you are staying with your dad at 26 and you are not a student it means you are not for me. Am still living with my dada can never take care of any lady. If you take it for me what would be his response or support? No be me and dem ni
Re: 10 Men You Should Avoid by jeffizy(m): 8:33pm On Jul 24, 2013
U dnt want a broke ar.s,.e at the same time u dont want a free spender.
Why do you seek to confuse the ladies like you have done to yourself?
Re: 10 Men You Should Avoid by 190: 9:50am On Jul 27, 2013
Desh uve heard her - she ent mad @ya

Let it go okay

Sholly'z one of the realest few arund here cheers x

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