tunamost: hmmmm!I broda..dats exactly wat makes me feel sad...after all dat I feel for her she just want me to be her friend and nofin more...well I guess dat is life..we love someone dat doesn't really want us...

Guy, on behalf of all d guys in dis forum I plead wif u to simply walk away wif wateva little dignity u hv left... as it z now, no gal wud be in her shoes and still want to date u... u can ask dem WHY evn tho dey may not reli knw, buh dey wnt...
Hold down ur head, pocket ur dyke n get ur tail btw ur legs and sneak away... hey hey hey, dnt fink uve given too much to turn back o! humble ursef n go as a looser b4 she begin to complain to pple abt u... try smwhr else, u go win b4 she kill ur self esteem...

Just passing by and smh... This guy no know how far sha... Chai! Full blast!

[quote author=lexi-b][/quote]fanx alot lexy b...so much appreciate ur advice...am gonna work on it...lolz...need to get laid urgently sounds so funny to me man...can't stop laffin...funny dude...lolz

lexi-b:


Guy, on behalf of all d guys in dis forum I plead wif u to simply walk away wif wateva little dignity u hv left... as it z now, no gal wud be in her shoes and still want to date u... u can ask dem WHY evn tho dey may not reli knw, buh dey wnt...
Hold down ur head, pocket ur dyke n get ur tail btw ur legs and sneak away... hey hey hey, dnt fink uve given too much to turn back o! humble ursef n go as a looser b4 she begin to complain to pple abt u... try smwhr else, u go win b4 she kill ur self esteem...

fanx alot bro...I get u..

D lady is just suffering U jare, nd u too ure helpin her suffer u. U asked her out nd she refused, den she should stop doin tinz done by lovers to u lik kalin nd cuddling. If ure not comfortable wit just been frnds, tel her to give u space so u can get over her,if not u'll continue sufferin

My brother the only thing I will tell you is that the girl in question may be confused about what she want for herself. From your story I saw where you said she told you that she has a guy who I will say in your position, correct me if I am wrong. She said she is with a guy who she has not said yes to for 7 years. The guy in question is doing good things for her and she told you that she does not love him but likes him and that he has not done anything bad to her. So for that reason she cannot date you. She said she wants you to be her very best friend who she can confide in at any time. My advice is that you either accept what she said or let her go.

boxer022: My brother the only thing I will tell you is that the girl in question may be confused about what she want for herself. From your story I saw where you said she told you that she has a guy who I will say in your position, correct me if I am wrong. She said she is with a guy who she has not said yes to for 7 years. The guy in question is doing good things for her and she told you that she does not love him but likes him and that he has not done anything bad to her. So for that reason she cannot date you. She said she wants you to be her very best friend who she can confide in at any time. My advice is that you either accept what she said or let her go.

fanx alot boxer...dats exactly wat am finking as well maybe she doesn't even know wat she wants herself cuz she told me shes yet to make up her mind on who to settle down wit...even now when ever my counternance changes she's always d first person to ask me wat is wrong and even when I refuse to tell her she will pester me until I tell her...she's always there for me....she tell me stuffs abt her family and she's always willing to get close to my family as well...but am gonna follow u pple's advice anyway...am just gonna accept to be her friend and keep my fingers crossed..

jemsi: D lady is just suffering U jare, nd u too ure helpin her suffer u. U asked her out nd she refused, den she should stop doin tinz done by lovers to u lik kalin nd cuddling. If ure not comfortable wit just been frnds, tel her to give u space so u can get over her,if not u'll continue sufferin

fanx alot jemsi...u know u ladies can be funny sometimes...I was just finking she's trying to play hard to get as I wasn't even xpecting her to sau yes immediately...but considering d other guy she's dating I fink she has a specila place for dat guy in her heart...so am gonna stick to ur advice and keep my fingers crossed...

tunamost: fanx alot jemsi...u know u ladies can be funny sometimes...I was just finking she's trying to play hard to get as I wasn't even xpecting her to sau yes immediately...but considering d other guy she's dating I fink she has a specila place for dat guy in her heart...so am gonna stick to ur advice and keep my fingers crossed...

Some pple r just masochists... Wetin u dey cross finger for How does walk away or leave her amount to crossing finger... d space we r saying u nid z to hv d chance of dating sm1 else dat will even be better... not space just enof to cross ur fingers cos u can do dat wif ur hand insyd ur pocket... Na wa o! All these hopeless romantics sef... mtchew!!!

lexi-b:


Some pple r just masochists... Wetin u dey cross finger for How does walk away or leave her amount to crossing finger... d space we r saying u nid z to hv d chance of dating sm1 else dat will even be better... not space just enof to cross ur fingers cos u can do dat wif ur hand insyd ur pocket... Na wa o! All these hopeless romantics sef... mtchew!!!

...fanx lexi b...I really understand wat u saying but I don't fink u should be harsh wit d way u speak...u only misunderstood wat I mean by keeping my fingers crossed...all I meant is giving her space and reduce d way I play wit her...walking away is totally impossible cuz we work in d same department everyday but we don't stay @ d same place...but as per dating someone else dats for sure and am working on it...talking to her doesn't stop me from dating someone else...