*hope I posted this in the right section!!... If not, abeg help me move am to the right spot*

Did u go to UNIBEN? Cos i know hilltop in Ekosodin.

Anyways, forgive and forget bro cos life is too short, little baggages like this could deter u from makin heaven.

Just free ur mind cos u are the greater man....cheers

Pls forgive them. But if i were u, i will let them know they have offended me. Doing this will let them know they are bad and this will reduce thier frequency in your place.

Just like the above posters av said, forgive them. Thank God u r now a big man in your own way

If u feel the burden is too much, u can tell them what they did and pls make sure u forget totally

lrguru: Did u go to UNIBEN? Cos i know hilltop in Ekosodin.

Anyways, forgive and forget bro cos life is too short, little baggages like this could deter u from makin heaven.

Just free ur mind cos u are the greater man....cheers

impossible to forget unless he is insane...op,forgive them..God shall reward you abundantly

Well, I could care less about them but I really wish they don't always have to come to my place....

You know, initially they thought life begins and ends in that their fucking school!!

But now they know no man is an island....

I understand how you feel but this is your house and if you feel they are over-bearing, tell them.

They might be family but you need your own space

Never allow them again in your house. The rule is, forgive all who have offended you but never forget the offence. Sometimes you just have to serve some people a little dose of their own poison.

Paul Amio, just forgive them. Difficult to forget but you can forgive.

God don bless u nah.

At OP you are the bigger man and i really encourage you, sadly me i'm not, I have Deep Hatred for my father's family when they took our property,wealth,cars and other things, we suffered because of them, sadly my mother embraced Christianity and forgave them, till now i haven't spoken to them in years (13), my hatred for them is so deep it even extends to their children, we don't talk and i have told them to never communicate with me. I really commend you on being the bigger man,sadly this is one flaw that will follow me to my grave. But you should create boundaries for them, its your turn to dictate the terms, let them know the laws of 'Cause and Effect". May God see you through.