There is really nothing like real love when we begin a new relationship. What actually transpires is INFATUATION. Infatuation simply means the obsessive desire to possess or attract the attention of the opposite sex.This desire is mostly motivated by the other person's physical or mental attributes such as height, facial beauty,intelligence,money,sexual strength etc.
Unfortunately, infatuation does not always address the issue of compatibility between the couples. And contrary to popular opinion, compatibility can ONLY be created through divine grace and a matured mindset. So, when a relationship is established through infatuation, it takes compatibility to sustain it. What then is compatibility? Personally? I strongly believe that it is the inherent capacity for two couples to happily and willingly tolerate their combined personality disorders or weaknesses, since it is generally understandable that each partner may come from different backgrounds, they are bound to inherit traits and attributes which might negatively impinge on the relationship in question.
It therefore takes a solidly matured mindset coupled with a divinely inspired mutual agreement NOT to allow the partners' inadequacies to wreck the relationship. But how much efforts have intending couples really taken to realize this fact? But getting to appreciate this question ,lets educate ourselves with the ideal functions of compatibility in a relationship. Let it be understood that no marriage or relationship will last unless compatibility is entrenched.
The reason why most relationship are breaking up is not necessarily materialistic, it just there is no compatibility, otherwise how do you explain the high divorce rate in the perceived wealthy western nations and we have a long term sustained relationship in the less wealthy and more polygamous nations? Ironic, isn't it?
Ordinarily, courtship was instituted to address the issue of compatibility between partners before a lifelong engagement is created, but it has been overridden with so much sexual exploitation and sexcapadic experiment that there is a dangerous tendency to believe that compatibility can only evolve on its own and not to be studied in a courtship.
For an individual seeking real love in the AFRICAN climate, he/she should consider the following factors replicated in the following questions:
FOR THE MAN-
1.Do you have what it takes to make a lifelong commitment into relationship or you just need a sex mate? Do you have a polygamous mentality?
2.Do you have the cash or material legacy?
3.Do you operate under the anointing of divine grace to locate you to your compatible spouse? very important.
4. How well do you check your temper or do you have a broken spirit?
5.Are you physically stronger than your spouse or a weakling in muscle development and endurance? very important.
6.How is your body physique? 7.Are you sexually satiriatic(male unquenchable sex machine) or impotent?
FOR THE WOMAN-
1. Do you have a feminist attributes towards your spouse?
2.Are you GENUINELY submissive or PRETENTIOUS to your spouse with secret intention of bringing out through nature or behavior when you have secured yourself with him?
3. Can you tolerate the inadequacies of your intending spouse without expecting him to change?
4.Are you a suffering from the satanic anointing of chronic jealousy?
5. Do you measure the future outcome of your spouse's status on his contentious circumstances e.g maybe low finances, poor job offers or underemployment if he is already affected?
6.Are you personally wealthy or independent and seek a wealthier spouse?
7.Are financially challenged and need a financially secured man?
8.How strong is your prayer life? Very important.
9. Is it in your destiny to marry a polygamous man or not? Very important.
10. Are you from a polygamous family? If not ,were your parents products of a polygamous background?
11. Are you a nymphomaniac (female unquenchable sexual hunger),moderate or frigid?
Every intending or married couple genuinely seeking real love must committedly self-answer the mentioned questions and reconcile them with that of the spouse and develop the actual reality of how the relationship will permanently stand. Though as it was earlier mentioned, each partner must consistently seek divine intervention because this chemistry is a blend of the body, mind and soul
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