To the ladies in the house we all know that cheating is almost inevitable for men. For married and single ladies would you prefer that your husband keeps a serious relationship with another lady outside of marriage or he engages in paid sex? I'll prefer paid sex cos he doesn't have to be in a relationship with any1 because the ladies end up falling in love and hence becomes a threat and she may end up being a 2nd wife but for paid sex, just pay and go

Na wetin concern money and emotion? Whether paid or non paid, if he allows himself get too comfy with the lady, she might just want him for keeps or him wanting her for keeps..

Bootylicious: To the ladies in the house we all know that cheating is almost inevitable for men. For married and single ladies would you prefer that your husband keeps a serious relationship with another lady outside of marriage or he engages in paid sex? I'll prefer paid sex cos he doesn't have to be in a relationship with any1 because the ladies end up falling in love and hence becomes a threat and she may end up being a 2nd wife but for paid sex, just pay and go

Oh yeah? Pay & Go, then come home and infect you with STDs.

Very nice!

i weep for girls...

None of the above. An adulterous or promiscuous man doesn't deserve me.

None of them.....its not something that one should choose from.
@op your choice na wa sha.

Nomski0: None of them.....its not something that one should choose from.
@op your choice na wa sha.

It's obvious that the OP doesn't care about HIV/AIDS and STDs. Imagine giving ur hubby a guilt-free pass to go and have sex with a sew worker? Can't u satisfy him urself or what?

And in btw, men are insatiable no matter the style and comfort they get at home 90% of them get to cheat... No1 wants a cheating husband, I do not pray 4 one but at worse case senerio I'll prefer paid sex, who says decent girls can't have HIV AIDS?? Men see cheating as their birth right so

Danhumprey: It's obvious that the OP doesn't care about HIV/AIDS and STDs. Imagine giving ur hubby a guilt-free pass to go and have sex with a sew worker? Can't u satisfy him urself or what?

Bootylicious: And in btw, men are insatiable no matter the style and comfort they get at home 90% of them get to cheat... No1 wants a cheating husband, I do not pray 4 one but at worse case senerio I'll prefer paid sex, who says decent girls can't have HIV AIDS?? Men see cheating as their birth right so

Ur choice,ma'am. I respect that.

I'd rather prefer he uses vaseline,soap,baby oil or cooking oil than choose one of these.

Bootylicious:

Chai!! See name oo!

ogugua88: None of the above. An adulterous or promiscuous man doesn't deserve me.

And I guess the op deserves an adulterous man cause like they say; you attract your type. Besides, it seems she likes the idea of her man cheating on her. Good luck @op.

Make God no let am bring STIs come give you for house.

No bueno for both scenarios..i would not even entertain the thought.

Bootylicious: And in btw, men are insatiable no matter the style and comfort they get at home 90% of them get to cheat... No1 wants a cheating husband, I do not pray 4 one but at worse case senerio I'll prefer paid sex, who says decent girls can't have HIV AIDS?? Men see cheating as their birth right so

You aee mistaken gurl. If you assert that 90% of men are cheats, what about the remaining 10% that ain't cheats? Why not be optimistic that you are gonna have your own share of the few faithful ones? With this mindset of yours, I am having a feeling you are not a saint as regards to cheating. Just my thought though...

caribchic: No bueno for both scenarios..i would not even entertain the thought.

That's what I am saying... Why would one entertain such thought? I guess the op has aces up her sleeves too...

Bootylicious: To the ladies in the house we all know that cheating is almost inevitable for men. For married and single ladies would you prefer that your husband keeps a serious relationship with another lady outside of marriage or he engages in paid sex? I'll prefer paid sex cos he doesn't have to be in a relationship with any1 because the ladies end up falling in love and hence becomes a threat and she may end up being a 2nd wife but for paid sex, just pay and go

SMH!

*grins* ure a guy lie uve neva cheated... silly thing!

dmcdad:
And I guess the op deserves an adulterous man cause like they say; you attract your type. Besides, it seems she likes the idea of her man cheating on her. Good luck @op.

Make God no let am bring STIs come give you for house.

Yuh all keep faking up reality. I asked a question and it's supposed to be a choice tin and u Writing u av a feeling i'm not a saint when it comes to cheating, ladies cheat less and i'm proud to say I HAVE NEVER CHEATED, U'll prefer stories of some girl wit a broken heart, or how a guy can't woo a lady. we are in Nigeria where men think cheating is a birth right...And the good news is some of us know how to keep our men, few ladies doe, so those of u ladies that can't keep your man keep dreaming he won't cheat.. *drops mic* quote author=dmcdad]
You aee mistaken gurl. If you assert that 90% of men are cheats, what about the remaining 10% that ain't cheats? Why not be optimistic that you are gonna have your own share of the few faithful ones? With this mindset of yours, I am having a feeling you are not a saint as regards to cheating. Just my thought though...[/quote]

xynerise:
Oh yeah? Pay & Go, then come home and infect you with STDs.

Very nice!

If u dey fvck ashana without condom, no think say oda pipu dey do same. Even if Beyounce open her legs for me, i no fit piank am without condom.

Danhumprey: It's obvious that the OP doesn't care about HIV/AIDS and STDs. Imagine giving ur hubby a guilt-free pass to go and have sex with a sew worker? Can't u satisfy him urself or what?

Men will always remain men! They cant be satisfied with one woman. True talk!

Bootylicious: And in btw, men are insatiable no matter the style and comfort they get at home 90% of them get to cheat... No1 wants a cheating husband, I do not pray 4 one but at worse case senerio I'll prefer paid sex, who says decent girls can't have HIV AIDS?? Men see cheating as their birth right so

Believe u me, the so called decent girls are the REAL ashanas!

Bootylicious: *grins* ure a guy lie uve neva cheated... silly thing!

I have NEVER cheated... And I don't plan on cheating on anyone. That's my life... I am too principled and honest to fall for that trash. Afterall, what do people gain from cheating in reality? Take sex aside, do you think alot of men would cheat if sex is what they can actually do without or if its non-existent? And sex is not something I hold in high regards.

So, you see...

Thanks flygerian

Flygerian.:

Believe u me, the so called decent girls are the REAL ashanas!

Good, pls keep it up

dmcdad:
I have NEVER cheated... And I don't plan on cheating on anyone. That's my life... I am too principled and honest to fall for that trash. Afterall, what do people gain from cheating in reality? Take sex aside, do you think alot of men would cheat if sex is what they can actually do without or if its non-existent? And sex is not something I hold in high regards.

So, you see...

Errmm. If that happened a divorce would be the next thing. Why would you allow him to break the marriage covenant, lol. That makes no sense and its very stupid to excuse it..he signed a marriage contract, once that is broken the contractis now null and void. Also, why would I expose my self to the various STDs and skn diseases that are going around..when I'm not mad. What kind of an example does that set for your children...they see...they judge. Absolutely ludicrous! If he can't understand how sacred marriage is then there are more serious men out there.I wonder what would happen if it was the wife looking or an escort or fling..hmm?

Same here buddy... Some ladies need to know that there guys who don't/does not attach much importance to what they have between their legs... And I highly resistant to sexual seduction.

dmcdad:
And sex is not something I hold in high regards.

So, you see...

Tufiakwa!!!! You prefer your man to sleep with a prostitute? May it be according to your wishes in the name of promiscuity.


I will never marry a woman with this kind of mentality!!! Why? Because you will give birth to "cheats"

Flygerian.:

If u dey fvck ashana without condom, no think say oda pipu dey do same. Even if Beyounce open her legs for me, i no fit piank am without condom.

Antelope

Ehnnn... Ashawo get grade now... Some ashawos clean pass d so called good girls... @op I wan marry you...