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Top 9 Signs She Is Cheating On You!!! by yemioloyede(m): 9:00pm On Aug 08, 2013
It is a sad fact, but there is no such thing as a perfect relationship. So, although you might be in love with your better half, there’s always a chance that she might be cheating on you. Contrary to what your macho side might think, you may not be the center of her universe after all.
But you can rest easy. Here is a top 10 list of signs she’s cheating on you. While all the cheating signs that follow may not imply that she is in fact cheating on you, each is definitely a warning that something is amiss with your ladylove. Depending on the scenario, you may need to look further for more signs she’s cheating on you.

1. She detaches herself from your family

The fact that she no longer wants to attend your family’s functions or hang with your friends is one of our signs she’s cheating on you. This sign may be indicative of cheater’s remorse on her part, which means that she likely feels guilty about cheating. The less she immerses herself in your circles (which contain people who are painful reminders of her sins), the less mental anguish she’ll have to endure.

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Re: Top 9 Signs She Is Cheating On You!!! by dopeJemi: 9:13pm On Aug 08, 2013
so it wilL kilL u 2 drop all 9 here undecided

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Re: Top 9 Signs She Is Cheating On You!!! by Ashabie(f): 9:31pm On Aug 08, 2013
1 out of 9,too lazy to type I guess.
Re: Top 9 Signs She Is Cheating On You!!! by fredopayee(m): 9:34pm On Aug 08, 2013
@Op, u be olodo .
Re: Top 9 Signs She Is Cheating On You!!! by algorithm(m): 9:38pm On Aug 08, 2013
It is a sad fact, but there is no such thing as a perfect
relationship. So, although you might be in love with
your better half, there’s always a chance that she
might be cheating on you. Contrary to what your
macho side might think, you may not be the center of
her universe after all.
But you can rest easy. Here is a top 10 list of signs
she’s cheating on you. While all the cheating signs that
follow may not imply that she is in fact cheating on
you, each is definitely a warning that something is
amiss with your ladylove. Depending on the scenario,
you may need to look further for more signs she’s
cheating on you.


1. She detaches herself from your family
The fact that she no longer wants to attend your
family’s functions or hang with your friends is one of
our signs she’s cheating on you. This sign may be
indicative of cheater’s remorse on her part, which
means that she likely feels guilty about cheating. The
less she immerses herself in your circles (which
contain people who are painful reminders of her sins),
the less mental anguish she’ll have to endure.


2. She nags you incessantly
Gone are the days when the two of you could
communicate with harmonious precision. Now, every
sentiment you express sets her off and she finds any
excuse to lash out at you. If such an about-face
sounds familiar, she may be subconsciously trying to
justify her little tryst. Nagging you helps eliminate or at
least ease her nagging guilt. So if she habitually begins
to point out your every flaw, you may want to get to
the bottom of what’s really going on because it’s one
of the signs she’s cheating on you.


3. She has a mysterious friend
A telltale sign that your woman is cheating arises when
a mysterious friend inches his way into the picture.
Whether it’s someone she claims is a coworker or an
old friend from way back, she keeps this friendship
under wraps and is hesitant to share any general
details about him, much less introduce you. And it
doesn’t take a Ph.D. to figure out why.


4. She deflects simple questions
You should be suspicious of your girlfriend when she
refuses to answer the simplest and fairest of questions
or answers questions only after repeating them back to
you, which usually indicates a mind that’s searching
for a lie. Be wary of times when, rather than reveal
that she got home at midnight, she begrudgingly asks,
“Why do you want to know what time I left the coffee
shop?” If she gets defensive about disclosing
information that she used to volunteer without
hesitation, she may be hiding something or someone
and it’s one of the surest signs she’s cheating on you.


5. She shifts priorities away from you
If she is involved in a hot and heavy romance with
someone else, you’ll definitely feel a shift in her daily
priorities. Suddenly, there are no more implied Sunday
dates at the movies or something always comes up on
dance-lesson Thursday. There is a tendency for most
philanderers to schedule meetings with their new flame
as often as they can, which results in a complete
disregard for previous engagements.


6. She puts more effort into looking sexy
You may like her just the way she is, but that won’t
stop her from trying to dazzle her new fling. Just as
you tried to impress each other at the beginning of
your relationship, she’ll try to impress her new flame
with a sudden urge to improve her style, change her
makeup and alter her physical appearance for the new
man in her life. So, while her desire to look sexier is
one thing, not caring about your opinion on the
matter is quite another.


7. She becomes autonomous
One of the biggest signs she’s cheating on you is her
breaking away from your little two-person unit to
become more autonomous. She has dropped ” we”
from her vocabulary in favor of “I.” Moreover, she
does more things on her own and stops consulting you
about future plans. In short, she conducts herself in
ways that hint that she no longer needs you to hold
her hand. Whether she’s hoping you’ll leave her or
she’s simply looking for more time to lead her “double
life,” it’s safe to conclude that she wants you out of
the picture — she just can’t build up the nerve to leave
you.


8. She is secretive about her schedule
She may claim to no longer have time for any
extracurricular activities with you, yet she has one foot
out the door the minute one of her girlfriends calls.
Either that or she has been “going away on business”
one too many times. And when she does leave, her
whereabouts are sketchy at best and you are somehow
always the last to know. Disclosing her itinerary to you
at the last minute and overlooking your plans in the
process can mean many things, one of which isn’t that
she’s forgetting, but rather leaving you out.


9. You become irrelevant
What could be worse than a girlfriend who nags you
about absolutely everything? How about one who
stops noticing that you’re even alive? All at once, she
doesn’t care if you don’t want to go to the saloon with
her; she’ll just find somebody else with whom to go.
And whatever opinion you may have, be it about how
she looks or how you’re feeling, is met with a tepid
response. In other words, she doesn’t place the same
importance on what you think and what you do as she
once did, especially on things that directly affect the
relationship.

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