you missed the most important one and it was right there in the tittle : Never fight with your partner!

fight dont happen at the spur of the moment. they are quantum of negative energy momentum gathered over time which you and your partner refused to thrash out.

Fight blow out when these tiny quantum, unattended to over time, get to their boiling point.

so to avoid this situation, thrash out issues no matter how minute

The ones I read on the political section of this forum is 100 times worse than what people are saying now. can you read what people say about the president? what about when the first lady was sick. abeg make i hear word.

what`have`you`ever`done`for`me?

Sometimes couples get too farmiliar with each other and tend to loose respect for each other in the process. You have known your man/woman for years doesn't mean you can say whatever you feel like to him/her without minding the consequences. Imagine a man telling his wife i married you to save your a.ss cuz you were getting old and wouldn't have found a man jeez.
My favourite quote "WOUNDS INFLICTED BY THE SWORD HEALS FASTER THAN WOUNDS INFLICTED BY WORDS"

"You're just like your father" that's jus hittin below d belt...dangerous!

dayokanu: Your wetincall dey smell like box of fish

That one na Bacterial Vaginosis. And it's easily treatable condition, so no qualms.

@op, total rubbish!!! What's the essence of fighting if you can't say those things. I believe during a fight, one should be able to say those things that would hurt the other person the most.

For instance, if your partner wet the bed, you should be able to say " you bed-wetter mutherfuvker "

And if you partner is broke... say " you broke bastard ".

Fighting brings out the best in us (or for some, the worst).

Cursing each other during a fight means both of you are of the same level. If one partner curses the other half every time without the other replying, that's an abuse!

Nice..very nice. Just like the Info here http://umehoma.com

You are a parasite, a time waster + a dream killer....

She will gun you down

berem:
I will poison your food - a friend once said this to her husband during a fight and that was the end of the man eating her food.

U and all these ur bad friends. Smh

drake2005: Why all these wahala. Just remain single and enjoy this life.

Being SINGLE is a sin, as the Bible say a man should leave his parents and be with his wife. This union is an obedience to GOD.

RECONSIDER

bee444: @op, total rubbish!!! What's the essence of fighting if you can't say those things. I believe during a fight, one should be able to say those things that would hurt the other person the most.

For instance, if your partner wet the bed, you should be able to say " you bed-wetter mutherfuvker "

And if you partner is broke... say " you broke bastard ".

Fighting brings out the best in us (or for some, the worst).

Cursing each other during a fight means both of you are of the same level. If one partner curses the other half every time without the other replying, that's an abuse!

Wow...well, whatever works for u and ur partner.
I prefer talking things out. I dont believe in namecalling, fighting, yelling or violence. Dont have the energy for that.

I hate the WHATEVER word somuch that am prompted to pick offence wen just anyone tells me..

vivianc: Its not just a woman's thing, a lot of guys are verbally abusive too.

I totally agree, a lot of guys can be pretty ruthless with their insults/verbal and emotional abuse.

mafioso47: I hate the WHATEVER word somuch that am prompted to pick offence wen just anyone tells me..

Used to be best way to make mother very angry, lol.

Fighting in front of children is very bad, especially when one of the parents involves the poor kid(s). I've heard an argument once which preceded to the wife telling her husband to ask their young daughter if the mom is lying. Poor lil girl looked scared. That is just wrong and children should never be used as ammunition to win an argument.

drake2005: Why all these wahala. Just remain single and enjoy this life.

bros two good heads are better than one
whether single or married you will still come across women, ladies or even men who will annoy you.

berem: You are not a man - this statement can annoy most men if their wives tell them during a fight

You will kill me today - women are fond of saying this during a fight with their spouse. If im come kill you nko?

I will poison your food - a friend once said this to her husband during a fight and that was the end of the man eating her food.

haahaahaahaa...I no blame d man ooo...na to dey buy bread and akara come house frm work

Hey, thats terrible and too harsh! That woman maybe going through emotional trauma right now.

chaircover:

Very true!

A man who got into a fight with his wife who had recently suffered a miscarriage, told her that she was a witch who had eaten her baby

devour129: my hubby will eat d food clean but he will make sure the kids eat with him.if you give him sealed water he will call the kids n share it with them.which woman go wan kill her pikin

Smart man you married!
I guess you've threatened to poison him a few times in the past? ....

Or why is he "on the alert"?
Are you the first wife in a polygamous setting?

There are certain words that should NEVER come out of one's mouth, to ones spouse!
They say "it is what is on the mind of the 'drunk' when s/he was sober, that the alcohol pushes out, when s\he got drunk"!

Even a thousand apologies and regret will not "repair Humpty-Dumpty" afterwards!

Lastpage!

BTW: One man who confronted his wife with "evidence of her sleeping with his neighbor" got the shock of his life when she retorted point blank to his face: "Its because he can do it more than you"!

He packed his bag and never came back (except to see his children once a week).
He was begged and "excuses" offered (she was angry niii!) but guy said he cant even "get it up" with her ever again, no matter how much he tried!
Claims he still hears that sentence in his dreams!

I miss idowu ogbo on nairaland

lamz:

Being SINGLE is a sin, as the Bible say a man should leave his parents and be with his wife. This union is an obedience to GOD.

RECONSIDER

That is if you're lucky enough to find the kind of woman that the Bible refers to as: "BONE OF MY BONES"
No be dis kind of "money go, woman go" of today!

Life is so blissful, if you find "a woman worthy of being called "your own wife" (and that is almost becoming like the proverbial camel through the eye of a needle!)...

Life can also be a living HELL, if you are lucky enough to fall into the modern day trap called marriage!
Especially with the Blackberry-pinging and Facebook-flirting, Cyber-se.xing generation of today's women!

God help our young men.

Lastpage!

..dialogue is the best way to resolve issues. Radio NAIRAland Nigeria. Uplifting the people And uniting the Nation.

The only reason I didn't take my ex back is cos of her mouth. She has said almost all of words here to me..I would have loved to marry her and take all her Bullsh?t but for those spiteful words,they hurt so much,they pierce my whole body when I remember them. She's got a very terrible mouth..

charleff512:
bros two good heads are better than one
whether single or married you will still come across women, ladies or even men who will annoy you.

Guy,one wealthy healthy solid peaceful calmed head is better than a million troublesome heads. Worse pata pata,get yourself a professional love peddler (Lagos runs girl),they'd help ease your pains,psychologically,emotionally,physically,mentally and socially.Believe me,those girls are upto date in all human endeavors apart from servicing joysticks which is an exercise to them

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lastpage:

Smart man you married!
I guess you've threatened to poison him a few times in the past? ....

Or why is he "on the alert"?
Are you the first wife in a polygamous setting?

There are certain words that should NEVER come out of one's mouth, to ones spouse!
They say "it is what is on the mind of the 'drunk' when s/he was sober, that the alcohol pushes out, when s\he got drunk"!

Even a thousand apologies and regret will not "repair Humpty-Dumpty" afterwards!

Lastpage!

BTW: One man who confronted his wife with "evidence of her sleeping with his neighbor" got the shock of his life when she retorted point blank to his face: "Its because he can do it more than you"!

He packed his bag and never came back (except to see his children once a week).
He was begged and "excuses" offered (she was angry niii!) but guy said he cant even "get it up" with her ever again, no matter how much he tried!
Claims he still hears that sentence in his dreams!

y jump to conclusion ? When did I say I have told my hubby that I will do such ? I said if it was he will eathis food cos this issue of poisoning has come up before when d couple we did chair person at there wedding had issues.that was the advice my hubby gave the young man.over Sabi last page .mind yourself o before tru tru this becomes your last page

neily: After all u don't even satisfy me in bed, i was just faking all those sounds.

thats a good one.

lol "its not your baby" is worse!

extraflyfineboy: Nice..very nice. Just like the Info here http://umehoma.com

Royal Roy:

A lot of people don't weigh their words before saying it.
I will never call anybody "names" I cannot accept.
I don't take words lightly....if u say terrible things during anger....I believe its your thoughts all the while!!!
I don't & rarely accept ur apology afterwards!!!
I have been fooled with crocodile tears before.....now am "crocodile tears proof"!!

Case closed

lamz:

Being SINGLE is a sin, as the Bible say a man should leave his parents and be with his wife. This union is an obedience to GOD.

RECONSIDER

a man or all men? I beg go do ur sunday school again.. N'a by force make all men marry. Even jesus no get tym for marriage. Paul marry.?

sanniemoe: The only reason I didn't take my ex back is cos of her mouth. She has said almost all of words here to me..I would have loved to marry her and take all her Bullsh?t but for those spiteful words,they hurt so much,they pierce my whole body when I remember them. She's got a very terrible mouth..

thats too bad if not to worse.. Lucky u she is ur ex