lostgirl85: My friend had a boyfriend she really likes but the sex is very disappointing she says.

1.he only last 2-5 minutes
2.he can only go 2 rounds with the 2-5minutes
3.he only wants sex once a week
4.there is absolutely no pre-intimacy

How does she talk to him about sex and satisfying her needs and not hurt him or sound too Hot, she is ready to break up because she loves sex too much to stay in this situation forever

Help!!!!

Mrs.Chima:


Tell Aunt Chima the truth...you are that "friend" huh?

You have to teach him what pleases you and if he cares about you....he would do it gladly.

Oga Chima I appreciate you baby!

lostgirl85:



She says It is like a death sentence

Mrs.Chima:



Just keeps it 100%. I can teach you tricks that will bring pleasure with your mate but I have to charge.

Mrs.Chima:
Let me add this...women should never be embarrass about sexuality. You have sexual needs just like men do.

I communicate what I want to my hubby and he does the same.

Never plan sex and make it fun! If he is tired wait another day but do not use sex as a reward or punishment.

Communicate positively about your needs and be realistic. Be creative and open minded!

I got some leather cuffs I want to try...gotta go.

Mrs.Chima:
Let me add this...women should never be embarrass about sexuality. You have sexual needs just like men do.

I communicate what I want to my hubby and he does the same.

Never plan sex and make it fun! If he is tired wait another day but do not use sex as a reward or punishment.

Communicate positively about your needs and be realistic. Be creative and open minded!

I got some leather cuffs I want to try...gotta go.

Sanboy25: Tell her to ditch the guy and to take a real man as s/e/x- friend.
It's obvious he is only thinking of himself, how can he last 2min and think that the woman is pleased? He is very egoist..

lostgirl85:

Never though of it that way.... Thanks

But as far as a sex friend that a no no.

Ok, then point out to her the egoistic behavior of the man, it will be enough for her to take her decision.

Sanboy25:
Ok, then point out to her the egoistic behavior of the man, it will be enough for her to take her decision.

lostgirl85:

I will thank u very much, she was blaming herself, and now that u stated this you are right she needs to move on. He is selfish no man can think that that's enough and moreover she says she tried to go longer and he said he was burnt out, that was 2 days ago and he has not been to make it right just text and calls her.

You're welcome.

k2039: Ordinary peeing, I spend between 2 to 5 minutes.

I think they should have pre-sex before the real sex.

All she needs do is to blow the hell out of the guys dick and make him cum before having sex with him.

CreativeWeb: Then ask him to suuck you to orgassm before he enters to have his own. Then with time, he will adjust and be able to bring you to orgassm through thrusting. Tell him, to stop focusing on himself. He should learn to focus more on satisfying you first. Love making is selfless. Again, mastuurrbation causes this type of problem.

lostgirl85:



If she does he doesn't get hard again, it's really messing with her psyche and he says its not her fault