You meet a girl you date and get married, 8months of body work no sign of pregnancy. You both visit doctor, he says nothing is wrong with both of you.

Now how long will you wait before try another woman? By trying I mean adultery, because you won't marry her and then try to see if she gets pregnant.

Will you wait 1 year, 2 yrs, 10yrs or more? And what if u tried another woman and she got pregant what will you do?

Will you marry 2 wives as a christian or father the child in secret?

Or will u rather adopt than try another woman?

I will wait till forever.
She is my "helpmate" and not a "baby producing machine"

This is whats wrong with the world...

Gosh....
Where u sleeping wen u man ur vows..
Marriage is for better for worse, in sickness in health till death do u part..
Mr man u made a vow stick to it..
U should b encouraging her dat all is well not having second thought na..

temi4fash: Gosh....
Where u sleeping wen u man ur vows..
Marriage is for better for worse, in sickness in health till death do u part..
Mr man u made a vow stick to it..
U should b encouraging her dat all is well not having second thought na..

Gbam!

@Op. I will not make it sound easy to decide like other guys are making it.

In Africa and Nigeria precisely, an arrival of a child is one of the happiest moment in marriage. As men, we might be tempted to marry another wife despite the confirmation of the doctor that we are both normal. It only takes TRUE LOVE to endure and hope for a child till whatever years.

Many marriages are not based on love and I believe it is possible for the man to have extra-marital affair in such marriage.

This is what happens when people marry for the wrong reasons.

I pray not to be in such a situation!

@op what if the problem is from the man? How will you feel if your wife dumps you when you can't give her children? Or if she allows other men to sleep with her just to make babies for you since u are incapable of giving her one?

nne3870: @op what if the problem is from the man? How will you feel if your wife dumps you when you can't give her children? Or if she allows other men to sleep with her just to make babies for you since u are incapable of giving her one?

Exactly, we should live and let live.

nne3870: @op what if the problem is from the man? How will you feel if your wife dumps you when you can't give her children? Or if she allows other men to sleep with her just to make babies for you since u are incapable of giving her one?

I said the doctor said there is nothing wrong with both of them, but in the process of trying his luck elsewhere he gets the other woman pregnant.

But if she tries such with me, she simply has to refund the bride price I paid and move in with the man that got her pregnant.