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Re: Nigerian Ladies Worry Over Scarcity Of Men by Nobody: 8:23pm On Dec 04, 2014
This is an old thread na. Who resurrected this thread? this is old news.

By the way, how many of the men are ready to marry sef when some of them all wanna be single for life and bed all females? we see a lot of threads here with some men telling us they dnt wanna marry. Some are not financially buoyant. So? Please dnt blame these females too much. the society has taught them that they cant breathe without marriage and they are nothing without marriage. The more they push this belief down their throats, the more they become dumb and dependent. many will see marriage to gateway of riches or a means to an end or even use jazz in the process since they have been trained to have it in mind 24/7. No goals, no achievements, no sense of independence or ability to think for themselves. The society has molded women to be the way they are. Society pushing them to marry at all costs while the men are running away from desperation all over the place. O pari! Why wont there be chaos? grin grin Well, let the ladies look inwards, examine their lives and stop giving boyfriends benefits reserved for husbands only.

By the way, men are not scarce o. Any man can be a husband. I no dey see the scarcity o. Every i go i see them o. Na good husbands dey scarce and na Only God dey give that one. smiley

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Re: Nigerian Ladies Worry Over Scarcity Of Men by electropiz(m): 8:24pm On Dec 04, 2014
braine:


Your mentality sef. Terrible.

So so terrible mentality
Re: Nigerian Ladies Worry Over Scarcity Of Men by Nobody: 8:25pm On Dec 04, 2014
Sometimes i blame some ladies for their inability to get a man of their own as husband, this because during their youthful age ranging from 19 to 24 their dream was to get a tall guy with six packs together with money for a relantioship without knowing that those qualities dont count at time. During this youthful age any guy without those qualities above is no no no for them. But when diminishing return begin knocking at their door at age of 29 above then they start considering any man at all cost weather tall, short, with or without six pack. Women are really a confused creature. My advice to young ladies out there,try accept a guy in ur life just for who he is and not what he is. Dont go for the looks bcs it decieves at the long run.

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Re: Nigerian Ladies Worry Over Scarcity Of Men by soloboss(m): 8:25pm On Dec 04, 2014
I guess women are not giving us wat we want....
Re: Nigerian Ladies Worry Over Scarcity Of Men by Nobody: 8:26pm On Dec 04, 2014
35yr old woman on 2go?? Well all dose women need to draw closer to God... Jesus is the answer....

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Re: Nigerian Ladies Worry Over Scarcity Of Men by Welrez(m): 8:26pm On Dec 04, 2014
Lack of character is the bane of many of them.

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Re: Nigerian Ladies Worry Over Scarcity Of Men by kolawoleahmed(m): 8:27pm On Dec 04, 2014
Chiamaka01:
That lady who said, "what is happiness without a man in a woman's life?" deserves to have a millstone around her neck and be thrown into sea. Like, what the... ?
undecided



Practical makes experiences.... Lets c wot will happen if u gat 2 dah age without a man

Garrulous....Hiss

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Re: Nigerian Ladies Worry Over Scarcity Of Men by braine(m): 8:29pm On Dec 04, 2014
electropiz:


So so terrible mentality

Ladies like her would now start to worry why good men won't last with them. Na wah.
Re: Nigerian Ladies Worry Over Scarcity Of Men by Emmalot121(m): 8:35pm On Dec 04, 2014
Euroclydon:
It was written...

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Re: Nigerian Ladies Worry Over Scarcity Of Men by 9icetoo(m): 8:36pm On Dec 04, 2014
There are husbands everywhere. The problem is these women fail to see them when they are available for the following reasons.
At 18, they want to marry 2face.
At 22, they want to marry Majid (that Ghanaian actor)
At 26, they want to marry Dangotes son
At 30, they realize the clock is ticking but think there is still time and lower their standards a bit. An Engineer in a multinational company or a doctor or high flying lawyer with a house and two cars will do
At 34, nne no time. They start looking for someone to start life with; even an apprentice who is willing to work hard will do. However most apprentice are ten years their junior and are therefore not interested in them. Abi them wan marry their mama age mate?

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Re: Nigerian Ladies Worry Over Scarcity Of Men by LeylowDee: 8:37pm On Dec 04, 2014
cheesy grin.....i suggest 3ladies to 1man
Re: Nigerian Ladies Worry Over Scarcity Of Men by Nobody: 8:37pm On Dec 04, 2014
Chiamaka01:
That lady who said, "what is happiness without a man in a woman's life?" deserves to have a millstone around her neck and be thrown into sea. Like, what the... ?
undecided
i tell you. she didn't even say 'a real man'. Ice fish brain that some ladies have. And yet, they are not hungry. Human wants are insatiable.
Re: Nigerian Ladies Worry Over Scarcity Of Men by Nobody: 8:38pm On Dec 04, 2014
And am gay grin grin grin That's another girl have lost a potential husband. undecided undecided undecided I pity them sha.
Re: Nigerian Ladies Worry Over Scarcity Of Men by patrotic9gerian: 8:39pm On Dec 04, 2014
Re: Nigerian Ladies Worry Over Scarcity Of Men by Nobody: 8:40pm On Dec 04, 2014
Chiamaka01:
That lady who said, "what is happiness without a man in a woman's life?" deserves to have a millstone around her neck and be thrown into sea. Like, what the... ?
undecided
I'm sure you don't wanna be in her shoes. Hmmmm!
Re: Nigerian Ladies Worry Over Scarcity Of Men by Nobody: 8:40pm On Dec 04, 2014
[quote author=Emmalot121 post=28598460][/quote]
Did you read the surrounding verses?As a male, pray that this does not befall you.
Re: Nigerian Ladies Worry Over Scarcity Of Men by Emmalot121(m): 8:41pm On Dec 04, 2014
Sophyrocks:
This is an old thread na. Who resurrected this thread? this is old news.

By the way, how many of the men are ready to marry sef when some of them all wanna be single for life and bed all females? we see a lot of threads here with some men telling us they dnt wanna marry. Some are not financially buoyant. So? Please dnt blame these females too much. the society has taught them that they cant breathe without marriage and they are nothing without marriage. The more they push this belief down their throats, the more they become dumb and dependent. many will see marriage to gateway of riches or a means to an end or even use jazz in the process since they have been trained to have it in mind 24/7. No goals, no achievements, no sense of independence or ability to think for themselves. The society has molded women to be the way they are. Society pushing them to marry at all costs while the men are running away from desperation all over the place. O pari! Why wont there be chaos? grin grin Well, let the ladies look inwards, examine their lives and stop giving boyfriends benefits reserved for husbands only.

By the way, men are not scarce o. Any man can be a husband. I no dey see the scarcity o. Every i go i see them o. Na good husbands dey scarce and na Only God dey give that one. smiley
Blame game. It is nature, not society. Sometimes, I get infuriated when ugly women like you blame the society. Is society a man? It is both male and female dude. Do you want Nig to be like USA? Is that what you tag as lenient society? Where singles and single parents litter the streets? Smh. embarassed

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Re: Nigerian Ladies Worry Over Scarcity Of Men by Nobody: 8:41pm On Dec 04, 2014
Nokialumia720:
Sometimes i blame some ladies for their inability to get a man of their own as husband, this because during their youthful age ranging from 19 to 24 their dream was to get a tall guy with six packs together with money for a relantioship without knowing that those qualities dont count at time.
@bold, are you a shorty? grin grin grin hehehe, sorry ooo, don't mind that tall woman than rejected you tongue. @thread; women don't have any shortage of men. Just like Sophyrocks said anyone that is determined to get a husband will get one......but then you men like to tell yourselves that you are very scarce and valuable and in high demand so you keep lying to yourselves.
Re: Nigerian Ladies Worry Over Scarcity Of Men by Lobolintin(m): 8:41pm On Dec 04, 2014
Hahahahahah.. Am available ooo.. Abeg if you are interested ooo.. Abeg please..... Let me know ooooo.. I dey search with all my strength ooo..
Re: Nigerian Ladies Worry Over Scarcity Of Men by patrotic9gerian: 8:41pm On Dec 04, 2014
Re: Nigerian Ladies Worry Over Scarcity Of Men by Nobody: 8:42pm On Dec 04, 2014
9icetoo:
There are husbands everywhere. The problem is these women fail to see them when they are available for the following reasons.
At 18, they want to marry 2face.
At 22, they want to marry Majid (that Ghanaian actor)
At 26, they want to marry Dangotes son
At 30, they realize the clock is ticking but think there is still time and lower their standards a bit. An Engineer in a multinational company or a doctor or high flying lawyer with a house and two cars will do
At 34, nne no time. They start looking for someone to start life with; even an apprentice who is willing to work hard will do. However most apprentice are ten years their junior and are therefore not interested in them. Abi them wan marry their mama age mate?
dont mind them
Re: Nigerian Ladies Worry Over Scarcity Of Men by Toktee(m): 8:43pm On Dec 04, 2014
Chiamaka01:


Is that a curse? Whatever you implied is your female relatives' portion.
No,he is right,what do you meant by the statement above,do you mean to said the lady was wrong,,,keep catching fun with chicken laps and lacaserra,as the guy said,all these women were like u b4,vry soon wrinkles will takeover ur face.
Then and only then that u will start moving frm one prayer house to another,,,nd remember,time,time no one but man time time,u better re-asses ur life.

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Re: Nigerian Ladies Worry Over Scarcity Of Men by Nobody: 8:43pm On Dec 04, 2014
Nokialumia720:
Sometimes i blame some ladies for their inability to get a man of their own as husband, this because during their youthful age ranging from 19 to 24 their dream was to get a tall guy with six packs together with money for a relantioship without knowing that those qualities dont count at time. During this youthful age any guy without those qualities above is no no no for them. But when diminishing return begin knocking at their door at age of 29 above then they start considering any man at all cost weather tall, short, with or without six pack. Women are really a confused creature. My advice to young ladies out there,try accept a guy in ur life just for who he is and not what he is. Dont go for the looks bcs it decieves at the long run.
And who told you that youthful age ranges from 19-24 when your mother's mates still give birth?
Re: Nigerian Ladies Worry Over Scarcity Of Men by Nobody: 8:43pm On Dec 04, 2014
gneisss:
ladies wen in their youth com up with hilarious standards wen age catches up with dem the start getting desperate and by that time we men set up our own standards too...
Bitterness.
Re: Nigerian Ladies Worry Over Scarcity Of Men by aduhube: 8:44pm On Dec 04, 2014
Chiamaka01:
That lady who said, "what is happiness without a man in a woman's life?" deserves to have a millstone around her neck and be thrown into sea. Like, what the... ?
undecided
Why can't you tell yourself the truth for once. The worst to s woman is when she doesn't understand herself. You're lost in the life of lies and self deceit
Re: Nigerian Ladies Worry Over Scarcity Of Men by Emmalot121(m): 8:44pm On Dec 04, 2014
koyyes:

Did you read the surrounding verses?As a male, pray that this does not befall you.
Its called selective quotation. wink
Re: Nigerian Ladies Worry Over Scarcity Of Men by muh4lyf(m): 8:44pm On Dec 04, 2014
Most em wanted hummer,when it's becoming too late they'd be looking for any man... Guy boku outside only that they'v gat no dou and em ladies don't want to date or marry a broke guy... So stay single till em niggaz become rich... You go wait till jesus come.... LMAO
Re: Nigerian Ladies Worry Over Scarcity Of Men by Nobody: 8:45pm On Dec 04, 2014
Emmalot121:
Blame game. It is nature, not society. Sometimes, I get infuriated when ugly women like you blame the society. Is society a man? It is both male and female dude. Do you want Nig to be like USA? Is that what you tag as lenient society? Where singles and single parents litter the streets? Smh. embarassed

Why dnt you become Hitler the 2nd so that you can kill all singles on earth? Did your mother abandon you somewhere or what? Why are you not yet married since singleness is an infection that needs cure?
Re: Nigerian Ladies Worry Over Scarcity Of Men by tivta(m): 8:45pm On Dec 04, 2014
I don't know whether to laugh or cry but somehow am doing both. Unfortunately most girls like that chimaka girl are to stubborn to realize the truth. Yet again marriage is not for everyone.

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Re: Nigerian Ladies Worry Over Scarcity Of Men by Nobody: 8:45pm On Dec 04, 2014
Chiamaka01:


Is that a curse? Whatever you implied is your female relatives' portion.
sharrap, how is that a curse, abi u can't read when the sun is shining?

Girls like u are quick to curse and swear, and I'm sure u do receive slap once in a while from ur BF, that's even if you have any

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Re: Nigerian Ladies Worry Over Scarcity Of Men by Heycube(m): 8:48pm On Dec 04, 2014
Chiamaka01:


Is that a curse? Whatever you implied is your female relatives' portion.

Conscience... Ur first comment described ur Ego. U don't have to curse him bcus ur response shws dt u don't need man either.

Chill my sister...life is too short to remove flash drive safely.

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Re: Nigerian Ladies Worry Over Scarcity Of Men by Emmalot121(m): 8:49pm On Dec 04, 2014
Sophyrocks:


Why dnt you become Hitler the 2nd so that you can kill all singles on earth? Did your mother abandon you somewhere or what? Why are you not yet married since singleness is an infection that needs cure?
I don't need a wife! Just tired of blame game.

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