Bunchers stab: Who Adam pay Eve doury 2?

Bunchers stab: Who Adam pay Eve doury 2?

Mynd_44: Here we go again

mondi_cheeks: why arent u married yet?

mondi_cheeks: Its becos the guys want to pay N50 as bride price and expect the woman to cook 5 star restaurant meals and somersault in bed

mondi_cheeks: Its becos the guys want to pay N50 as bride price and expect the woman to cook 5 star restaurant meals and somersault in bed

jmoore: @op, is this your final year project?

imcomingsoon:
If u care, any friendly Christian lady
interested in a godly and serious r/p pls contact
: 08189043756, and on Whatsapp.

Pilotman: The purpose of this thread is to try to bring to our senses the reasons why our girls are finding it difficult to get husbands. It is not meant to be an abusive thread, but where we can share our honest submissions, perhaps learn from each other & show some understanding.

I will begin by categorising these reasons into 3: economical, cultural, & attitudinal factors.

Economically, our guys are often financially handicapped. Not that a guy wouldn't want to settle down early but our economic system doesn't accomodate him. Things are very difficut now, economically. His 'meager' income can't just support such plan at the moment. he just need more hustling & our girls aren't always ready to wait.

Culturally, our marital process is damn too expensive! From the 'Introduction', to the 'List', to the 'TM', to the 'Wedding'. Some families think that just b/c their daughter is 'educated', they shd reap all the returns in one day. For a young guy(graduate) that is just starting life, where will he get all the money from?

In terms of attitude, I think most of our girls are so materialistic. They want go with the latest fashion, phones, etc. No girl want to struggle or hustle with the guy. She just want a ready-made husband. She wants 'manna' to fall from heaven'. Most of them are always in competition of looking more classic than the other. But they will never be industrous, enterprising & goal oriented - just waiting for 'mr right' to come around. For Christ's sake, you shd have a life goal & pursue it with passion, then along the way you'll get to meet him.

Pls am not attacking our girls: just candid opinions that can help reorientate our mindset.

Feel free to add yours. Over to you...

doris4u: Talkn abt already made man.In a situatn u stay wit a guy wen he has nothn,encouraging him in watever he's doing 4 several years nd enventually turns his back on u wen he's made 4 no reason.wat do u do by then?do u mean we shld stil wait 4 another guy 2 treat us dat way just 2 get married?

Mynd_44:
When you were supporting him to become what he is, what were you doing with yourself? Did you also try to build yourself up? Did he try to support you to chase your dreams in return?

A man that would make a good husband would encourage to improve your life as his own gets improved. That's how you know a man that won't walk away.

Don't blame the man for your problems, blame yourself.

Mynd_44:
When you were supporting him to become what he is, what were you doing with yourself? Did you also try to build yourself up? Did he try to support you to chase your dreams in return?

A man that would make a good husband would encourage to improve your life as his own gets improved. That's how you know a man that won't walk away.

Don't blame the man for your problems, blame yourself.

doris4u: Dnt misunderstand me,i mean encouraging nd being there not FINANCIAL help.of course am already built cos my age mates r stil lookn 4 admissn or in skul.

Jenams: u just summarised my present predicament wit a certain lady. Dnt sit ur ass down at home as a lady and claim to be prayin for me to succeed! Do sometin abt ur success too!

Mynd_44:
No mind them

doris4u: Talkn abt already made man.In a situatn u stay wit a guy wen he has nothn,encouraging him in watever he's doing 4 several years nd enventually turns his back on u wen he's made 4 no reason.wat do u do by then?do u mean we shld stil wait 4 another guy 2 treat us dat way just 2 get married?

Pilotman:

That's the same thing that happen to guys that spend their hard earned money to train their girls in sch or even establish them in biz, only to get dumped without any justifiable reason!

Am not trying to justify this height of wickedness. But we shd all use our conscience. Don't do to others what you wouldn't want them to do to you!

Pilotman:

That's the same thing that happen to guys that spend their hard earned money to train their girls in sch or even establish them in biz, only to get dumped without any justifiable reason!

Am not trying to justify this height of wickedness. But we shd all use our conscience. Don't do to others what you wouldn't want them to do to you!

Pilotman:

That's the same thing that happen to guys that spend their hard earned money to train their girls in sch or even establish them in biz, only to get dumped without any justifiable reason!

Am not trying to justify this height of wickedness. But we shd all use our conscience. Don't do to others what you wouldn't want them to do to you!

Mynd_44:
Cos I am broke, short and ugly

Jenams: u just summarised my present predicament wit a certain lady. Dnt sit ur ass down at home as a lady and claim to be prayin for me to succeed! Do sometin abt ur success too!