Fellow nairalanders,,,i need your help...
It is true that i have had it rough before in relationships,,,,but i have developed a problem within me,,,''i can't love again''

Back in the university,i met my first love who was 2years ahead of me....i loved him,,but as he was graduatin he told me,he had smeone before gaining admission so he wants to go back to her,,,,,,,,i overcame the shock and went on with life....

I graduated and started working,,this guy came my way and proposed marriage,,unknown to me he had a wife and four and a half kids,,,,he had no job,,,though a graduate,,,, and every now and then he demands for money and i give him only to discover after 7months that he has a family,,,,,i overcame the shock and went on with life

The last one landed me in coma,,,i met this guy,,i loved him for real,,,soon he proposed and we kicked off with wedding plans,,just at the verge of tighing the knot,he called me that he was no longer interested in the marriage,,,,,that shock i can't recover from

The issue now is that i have 5 different men proposing marriage at the same time.......am not confused becos i can't even fall love with any of them even when i tried to,,,,one of them who is not a Nigerian has bin so caring-seems not to be given up,despite my horrible and hostile altitude.......i tried to say yes to him,,but i don't even know where to generate this love from..

Pls i need your advice,,,great friends,,,,no insults please am only voicing out my predicament of the moment.
Thanks
yours sincerely
Sambisa

With this kind of username,people will tend to run away from you.

On a SN,You didn't tell us about yourself and how you interact with guys.

There must be something you are doing wrong that attracts loosers to you.

try to forget about past experiences, this will help u a lot

phantonce:
With this kind of username,people will tend to run away from you.

On a SN,You didn't tell us about yourself and how you interact with guys.

There must be something you are doing wrong that attracts loosers to you.

really,,,? I do appreciate ur comment

hmmmmm how can i fall in luv again? whats dere just look for love and fall inside AGAIN.......seriously speaking if all dis happend to you forget marriage,mayb those men be boxers....pray GOD will show u d right man

Sis, you are as confused as a blind lesbian in a fish market. I mean jeez, you can't even cook a good lie. I don't believe a word from your write-up.

Though I never completed reason you post. But base on you headin, I will advice you not to worry bout fall in in love again. cause you will definitely fall one day automatically

TrollMan:
Sis, you are as confused as a blind lesbian in a fish market. I mean jeez, you can't even cook a good lie. I don't believe a word from your write-up.

i tot u wanted to say i can't even cook a good soup......
You don't need to believe,,,,just advice,,,,,some people experiences r worst than mine,,,am not ashamed either,,,,,i don't tink to advice is a do or die affair

You are not just lucky. Give up pls.

Baddestguyp:
try to forget about past experiences, this will help u a lot

Yea






Supported

samuelson06:
You are not just lucky. Give up pls.

alrit,,,thanks

You will surely meet your desire .. Maybe sambisa forest sha

Of the 5 people proposing marriage..
Calmly observe them and decide which of them u think will make a good husband for u, the one that has almost everything u want in a man..
agree to his proposal.... And I believe with time, the love will develop Naturally...
Coz, predicting frm ur story.. Age isn't really ur friend
Act fast before u run out of time...

Go for deliverance first

I just have one thing to say, WHEN WE'RE WAITING FOR BAD PEOPLE TO PASS, IT'S BETTER NOT TO SHUT THE DOOR IN CASE GOOD PEOPLE WILL PASS TOO.
Just felt like for op, this life is really cruel and unfair to some people.
Hope my sentence in block form helps.

You must be one of the chibok grls 'na joke o' but if you want to fall in love, it is very simple just climb any tree at Sambisa, spray your hand wide open and release youself from the tree, bet me you'l fall in a pool of luv

You the cause of the problem. It's normal to have heart broken it will only makes you stronger. we just have to believe being heart broken shouldn't stop us from fallen in love again.

But, you so scare of experiencing heart broken and you decided to share your heart to five different guys. That makes it difficult for you to fall in love.

You should have try to keep others in a friends zone and choose one as your guy. It will be easy for you to love easily.

Player don't love . Even if guys keep many girls they will hardly love deeply, except they have one thing or the other they are enjoying.

Like I said, set your mind on one person that you both connected deeply. And keep other on friend zone. Don't be scare of heart break, it will only makes you stronger and become master of it.

Swizdoe:
Go for deliverance first

do i need to be told,,,av already done that....thanks

omorttee4u:
You the cause of the problem. It's normal to have heart broken it will only makes you stronger. we just have to believe being heart broken shouldn't stop us from fallen in love again.

But, you so scare of experiencing heart broken and you decided to share your heart to five different guys. That makes it difficult for you to fall in love.

You should have try to keep others in a friends zone and choose one as your guy. It will be easy for you to love easily.

Player don't love . Even if guys keep many girls they will hardly love deeply, except they have one thing or the other they are enjoying.

Like I said, set your mind on one person that you both connected deeply. And keep other on friend zone. Don't be scare of heart break, it will only makes you stronger and become master of it.

thanks so much,,,,,i actually kept the five of them in friend zone,,but i will consider your point...

barthchuks:
You must be one of the chibok grls 'na joke o' but if you want to fall in love, it is very simple just climb any tree at Sambisa, spray your hand wide open and release youself from the tree, bet me you'l fall in a pool of luv

okay,,,,,,thanks

ERCROSS:
Of the 5 people proposing marriage..
Calmly observe them and decide which of them u think will make a good husband for u, the one that has almost everything u want in a man..
agree to his proposal.... And I believe with time, the love will develop Naturally...
Coz, predicting frm ur story.. Age isn't really ur friend
Act fast before u run out of time...

,,,,,thanks so much,,,i really appreciate ur piece of advise

Afrok:
I just have one thing to say, WHEN WE'RE WAITING FOR BAD PEOPLE TO PASS, IT'S BETTER NOT TO SHUT THE DOOR IN CASE GOOD PEOPLE WILL PASS TOO.
Just felt like for op, this life is really cruel and unfair to some people.
Hope my sentence in block form helps.

your signature make sense
i think i like it.....thanks for ur comment

sambisa5:


okay,,,,,,thanks

you are welcome Bro

sambisa5:


your signature make sense
i think i like it.....thanks for ur comment

u're welcome...

Have you finally gotten married sambisa5?

Cutehector:
Have you finally gotten married sambisa5?

haahahha,,,,,priest,,,,yes o
you went that far to read thru?
Nairalanders sha,,,,,,,they can go any length.
But tnx 4 checking on me.

sambisa5:


haahahha,,,,,priest,,,,yes o
you went that far to read thru?
Nairalanders sha,,,,,,,they can go any length.
But tnx 4 checking on me.