Hey Ladies, I know you all like dissecting what's going on with your men and honestly that is cool but what isn't cool is when you start asking all or any of the 4 questions below.

By the way, have you ever realized how angry a man can get when you ask too many questions at a time? When it comes to relationships, most women want to know everything that a man is thinking.

But here is the truth and from a man's perspective, there are 4 questions I think women should really avoid asking their men while in a relationship because the answers you get are basically those aimed at pleasing you but not the whole TRUTH.

1: Do I look fat?

Most men have learned that the answer to this question is always NO. Always. No exceptions. Women and weight have too close of a bond and women often define themselves and their worth by the scale. Therefore, men are prepared and ready to say, “No, you look beautiful!” no matter what. If a woman really cares about looking fat, she should look in the mirror and decide for herself. If she feels great, then no need to ask for affirmation. But the attention-seeking woman might be desperate for compliments and turn to her man for her fix. It’s most important to be healthy, no matter what the scale says... Ladies!


2: What happened in your past relationships?

Some women become obsessed with finding out everything about their man’s past. They need to know if they measure up to ex-girlfriends or wives, if he’s as happy with them as he was before and if he’s really over a past heartbreak. You might be especially concerned about what went wrong with your guy’s previous relationships. Remember, though, he might have been a very different man then, and he probably learned from his mistakes. Try not to hold his past wrongs against him because chances are he doesn't want to be reminded of them. He doesn't want you to see him in a bad light. Let him be the person he is now. Let him feel good about how he is with you, and not dragged through memories of what he did (or didn't do) with other partners. Of course it’s important to communicate, but too much probing shows a lack of trust and confidence in your relationship.

3: Are you attracted to other women?

This comes down to self-esteem (and therefore attention) and confidence in your relationship. A man who doesn't look at anyone or feel anything for other women is either very old, very tired, or just plain lying. Looking at and responding to others doesn't necessarily mean he doesn't find you desirable or is comparing you. Of course too much gawking or staring is inappropriate, are you going to tell me you've never glanced at an attractive guy? We are all humans. If he takes it to the next level and starts to flirt, however, he’s definitely not fully committed to you and its time to reevaluate your relationship.

4: What are you thinking?

This question usually comes up in a moment of silence, and often times while in bed. Some women want to make sure that a man is thinking only of them in bed, but this is a very complicated question for a guy. Make sure you can tolerate hearing about what’s going on in your man’s mind, and remember not to assume he doesn't care about you. You might be amazed when he answers “oh, just the football game yesterday.” Men’s minds can wonder to multiple subjects, while women tend to concentrate on the activity at hand and analyze every detail. Relax and take your man’s answer for what it is.

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My bestfriend use to ask me those questions. Does it mean she is attracted to me!!!!!

So who will I now get those answers from? Ehn?

[quote author=nekaa]So who will I now get those answers from? Ehn? Type am 4 google, it will surely answer ur useless questions.

stan4b: My bestfriend use to ask me those questions. Does it mean she is attracted to me!!!!!

You mean you have a female bestfriend and you are yet to straf her? Are you gay?

karmaleon:

You mean you have a female bestfriend and you are yet to straf her? Are you gay?

Guy calm down, a minute silence for our friend who just entered the FRIEND ZONE. . But my ex used to ask me the 1st question sha! Missed that little preery thing.

5. How many gals v u slept with
Same goes for guys too

Maka why?
Why shouldnt I ask the question....?




I dont see anything wrong with it o.....all na discussion, joor.

Pls I need a gay friend, I heard D̶̲̥̅̊ε̲̣̣̣̥γ̲̣̣̥ Я good peoples

^^^. the girl above me along with the people who liked (and will like) her post need Mental Rehab

Am here nw

What about not asking him (esp IGBO guyz) of their ATM pin!

realone2012: What about not asking him (esp IGBO guyz) of their ATM pin!

who opened your cage?

nothing rily wrong with d 2nd question...at least u can have anoda idea abt d person u r dating,how emotional dy are etc

nekaa: So who will I now get those answers from? Ehn?

from me ofcourse

karmaleon:

You mean you have a female bestfriend and you are yet to straf her? Are you gay?

No. it means he's decent and respect Ladies unlike you, muppet!

nekaa: So who will I now get those answers from? Ehn?

Google or ifa choose 1

Interesting

What about asking him how many girls he has slept with b4 meeting me,his ATM pin and if he is cheating on me or if he will marry me?

Akeem79: Interesting

Abi?

Even if you are courageous enough to ask those questions, never expect a true answer, a man will always be diplomatic in such situations...

switdil: 5. How many gals v u slept with
Same goes for guys too

I stopped asking that question a long time ago. If you really love the person, trivial details like that should not matter. And besides, all most every one lies about it anyway.

And what is wrong asking questions? Hian for me I ask a lot of questions.

Ladies are so fun of askin no.2! D best ansa z dat, "i'll b more comfortable if we drop d topic" if she insist, u lie 2 her! I knw they(Ladies) likes it alot wen they're bein lied to!

Temismith: Pls I need a gay friend, I heard D̶̲̥̅̊ε̲̣̣̣̥γ̲̣̣̥ Я good peoples

We have 'em plenty here!
But I'll suggest Naija_hottest_nonsense for you!

nekaa: So who will I now get those answers from? Ehn?

from your Bishop

hmmn!

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