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Re: Questions Women Should Avoid Asking Men In Relationships by dnawah(m): 2:37pm On Sep 21, 2013
My ex asked me all.my answer to her was,u be winch?& she didn't asked again
Re: Questions Women Should Avoid Asking Men In Relationships by spikesC(m): 2:37pm On Sep 21, 2013
Cathaliya: nah, you need orders and compliments during sex....or better still, groans.


grin

I mebi go shocked
Re: Questions Women Should Avoid Asking Men In Relationships by AreaFada2: 2:40pm On Sep 21, 2013
lol
Re: Questions Women Should Avoid Asking Men In Relationships by Mendo007(m): 2:43pm On Sep 21, 2013
arcbabe
Re: Questions Women Should Avoid Asking Men In Relationships by Mendo007(m): 2:44pm On Sep 21, 2013
Area-Fada:
lol
2 what?
Re: Questions Women Should Avoid Asking Men In Relationships by Mendo007(m): 2:47pm On Sep 21, 2013
arcbabe: What about asking him how many girls he has slept with b4 meeting me,his ATM pin and if he is cheating on me or if he will marry me?
Babe! what part of "dont ask us 2 many questions @ a time" dont YOU understand?
Re: Questions Women Should Avoid Asking Men In Relationships by Nigerianmovie(m): 2:53pm On Sep 21, 2013
Pls how can one get free mb from starcom grin
Re: Questions Women Should Avoid Asking Men In Relationships by lat55(f): 2:55pm On Sep 21, 2013
yuzedo: I wish I have a girls to be askin me all this question. cry

2013 - my year of gettin babe. I willnot release u lord unless u blessed me! cry angry angry

What about Rita Dominic??

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Re: Questions Women Should Avoid Asking Men In Relationships by Austindark(m): 2:56pm On Sep 21, 2013
Austinodark: So you are stil on nairaland
haha
longest tym
hw ur syd
Re: Questions Women Should Avoid Asking Men In Relationships by Danchito: 2:58pm On Sep 21, 2013
Temismith: Pls I need a gay friend, I heard D̶̲̥̅̊ε̲̣̣̣̥γ̲̣̣̥ Я good peoplesundecided
Jobless youth....
Re: Questions Women Should Avoid Asking Men In Relationships by maximunimpact(m): 3:03pm On Sep 21, 2013
Nasri100:

No. it means he's decent and respect Ladies unlike you, muppet!

Sorry to say dat guyz like u are d type dat castigate der fellow guyz to a grl jst 2 gain her axptance. U tnk grls care abt nice guyz? Wake up guy dis is 21st century!

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Re: Questions Women Should Avoid Asking Men In Relationships by agehero13(f): 3:13pm On Sep 21, 2013
I dont ask much questions in a relationship, all i just do is give the guy a questionaire to fill
Re: Questions Women Should Avoid Asking Men In Relationships by Nancyij37(f): 3:13pm On Sep 21, 2013
Ok I won't ask again
Re: Questions Women Should Avoid Asking Men In Relationships by maggdon(m): 3:16pm On Sep 21, 2013
karmaleon:

You mean you have a female bestfriend and you are yet to straf her? Are you gay?
........

Must u straf all d ladies in ur life uhm??, i dnt see anytin wrong in vin female bff... Atimes i get irritated wit '' what re u thinking'' nd i will be like, am tinking of hw to make more money but u dia not tell a gal dat....
Re: Questions Women Should Avoid Asking Men In Relationships by Decryptor(m): 3:18pm On Sep 21, 2013
My babe asked me No.1 just about an hour ago...i told her the "ugly truth" and now she is sulking undecided
Re: Questions Women Should Avoid Asking Men In Relationships by Decryptor(m): 3:19pm On Sep 21, 2013
nekaa: So who will I now get those answers from? Ehn?
Ur Dad
Re: Questions Women Should Avoid Asking Men In Relationships by Nobody: 3:20pm On Sep 21, 2013
Stop posting poo on here!
People talk about what bothers them with their lovers. If she goes out to ask other people this questions, u' d complain that she is does not make you her best friend.

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Re: Questions Women Should Avoid Asking Men In Relationships by pembisco(m): 3:35pm On Sep 21, 2013
dnawah: My ex asked me all.my answer to her was,u be winch?& she didn't asked again
dts primitive nah! U must be igbo, dts hw mst of dem talk
Re: Questions Women Should Avoid Asking Men In Relationships by Burbschi(f): 3:42pm On Sep 21, 2013
As 4 me I dont ce anytin rong in askin dose question because wen dare is silence alot of tinz goes on in da mind n wen dare is noting 2 discuz u talk abt ur past so its not wrong! Tanx...
Re: Questions Women Should Avoid Asking Men In Relationships by Temismith(f): 3:44pm On Sep 21, 2013
imsu.boi:



You need Jesus.
I already haff Jesus!!
Re: Questions Women Should Avoid Asking Men In Relationships by Temismith(f): 3:49pm On Sep 21, 2013
Danchito:
Jobless youth....
tell dat to ur elder sister, I av a job.

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Re: Questions Women Should Avoid Asking Men In Relationships by donpal(m): 3:52pm On Sep 21, 2013
Temismith: Pls I need a gay friend, I heard D̶̲̥̅̊ε̲̣̣̣̥γ̲̣̣̥ Я good peoplesundecided
Hope u re ready to wear pampers after ur first xperience kiss

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Re: Questions Women Should Avoid Asking Men In Relationships by idrezee(m): 4:10pm On Sep 21, 2013
Temismith: Pls I need a gay friend, I heard D̶̲̥̅̊ε̲̣̣̣̥γ̲̣̣̥ Я good peoplesundecided
don't mind imsuboi (he's been holier than thou) and I hate dat + u r gurl, do u mean male gay or female one cos dat word applies 2 both sex but we choose 2 call d male "gay"........... and d female "lez" ...
Re: Questions Women Should Avoid Asking Men In Relationships by Adeks(m): 4:10pm On Sep 21, 2013
Hmmm... NLers will never cease being funny.
@OP, nice thread. But there are many many questions men don't like answering.
To the ladies, the best thing is for you to be patient because whatever u should know, you'll know in due time. Men like analyzing and filtering and it's for your sakes. Peace.

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Re: Questions Women Should Avoid Asking Men In Relationships by kaeto(m): 4:17pm On Sep 21, 2013
realone2012: What about not asking him (esp IGBO guyz) of their ATM pin!
you are conquered on all fronts, you are insignificant as well, your portion is bitterness and frustration, still no one know you exist..
Re: Questions Women Should Avoid Asking Men In Relationships by stint(m): 4:28pm On Sep 21, 2013
arcbabe: What about asking him how many girls he has slept with b4 meeting me,his ATM pin and if he is cheating on me or if he will marry me?
you know what we call desperado? that's what he'll think you are if you ask those questions and he'll be right!

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Re: Questions Women Should Avoid Asking Men In Relationships by Cathaliya: 4:29pm On Sep 21, 2013
spikes C:

I mebi go shocked
huh, I si gini?





Onye iberibe....grin

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Re: Questions Women Should Avoid Asking Men In Relationships by spikesC(m): 4:32pm On Sep 21, 2013
Cathaliya: huh, I si gini?

Onye iberibe....grin
kiss kiss kiss
Re: Questions Women Should Avoid Asking Men In Relationships by StepG: 4:32pm On Sep 21, 2013
Flaubert Ajiero: Hey Ladies, I know you all like dissecting what's going on with your men and honestly that is cool but what isn't cool is when you start asking all or any of the 4 questions below.

By the way, have you ever realized how angry a man can get when you ask too many questions at a time? When it comes to relationships, most women want to know everything that a man is thinking.

But here is the truth and from a man's perspective, there are 4 questions I think women should really avoid asking their men while in a relationship because the answers you get are basically those aimed at pleasing you but not the whole TRUTH.

1: Do I look fat?

Most men have learned that the answer to this question is always NO. Always. No exceptions. Women and weight have too close of a bond and women often define themselves and their worth by the scale. Therefore, men are prepared and ready to say, “No, you look beautiful!” no matter what. If a woman really cares about looking fat, she should look in the mirror and decide for herself. If she feels great, then no need to ask for affirmation. But the attention-seeking woman might be desperate for compliments and turn to her man for her fix. It’s most important to be healthy, no matter what the scale says... Ladies!


2: What happened in your past relationships?

Some women become obsessed with finding out everything about their man’s past. They need to know if they measure up to ex-girlfriends or wives, if he’s as happy with them as he was before and if he’s really over a past heartbreak. You might be especially concerned about what went wrong with your guy’s previous relationships. Remember, though, he might have been a very different man then, and he probably learned from his mistakes. Try not to hold his past wrongs against him because chances are he doesn't want to be reminded of them. He doesn't want you to see him in a bad light. Let him be the person he is now. Let him feel good about how he is with you, and not dragged through memories of what he did (or didn't do) with other partners. Of course it’s important to communicate, but too much probing shows a lack of trust and confidence in your relationship.

3: Are you attracted to other women?

This comes down to self-esteem (and therefore attention) and confidence in your relationship. A man who doesn't look at anyone or feel anything for other women is either very old, very tired, or just plain lying. Looking at and responding to others doesn't necessarily mean he doesn't find you desirable or is comparing you. Of course too much gawking or staring is inappropriate, are you going to tell me you've never glanced at an attractive guy? We are all humans. If he takes it to the next level and starts to flirt, however, he’s definitely not fully committed to you and its time to reevaluate your relationship.

4: What are you thinking?

This question usually comes up in a moment of silence, and often times while in bed. Some women want to make sure that a man is thinking only of them in bed, but this is a very complicated question for a guy. Make sure you can tolerate hearing about what’s going on in your man’s mind, and remember not to assume he doesn't care about you. You might be amazed when he answers “oh, just the football game yesterday.” Men’s minds can wonder to multiple subjects, while women tend to concentrate on the activity at hand and analyze every detail. Relax and take your man’s answer for what it is.

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Re: Questions Women Should Avoid Asking Men In Relationships by write2obi(m): 4:36pm On Sep 21, 2013
agehero13: I dont ask much questions in a relationship, all i just do is give the guy a questionaire to fill
*faint*
Re: Questions Women Should Avoid Asking Men In Relationships by stint(m): 4:38pm On Sep 21, 2013
Austindark:
is jesus gay?
he just asked for a gay friend
Don't ask questions like that. its not wise, its not safe!
Re: Questions Women Should Avoid Asking Men In Relationships by write2obi(m): 4:40pm On Sep 21, 2013
pembisco:
dts primitive nah! U must be igbo, dts hw mst of dem talk
You must be Id!ot, that's how idiots talk

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