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| Am I Been Cheated On? by girlinmask: 7:29am On Sep 21, 2013 |
I have been bothered about this issue for sometime now and I really need u guys to advice me on this... I met a guy four years ago through one of dis social network and we started talking and we fell inlove trust me it do happen...but d problem was dat he wasn't in nigeria though I got to see him once a year he was consistent in calling me.I trusted him so much that whenever he is in nigeria I make sure am wit him and I do show him to all my girlfriends.he do have two of my bestfriends numbers....my problem started last year when he caMe back with a friend,he asked me to introduce my friend to his friend I accepted and called a friend of mine to come around but unfortunately his friend cldnt meet her properly before she travelled out of d country.this year,I have been haviNg problems with my guy because of an incident dat happened earlier dis year coupled wit d fact dat he is not around we were having an of and on relationship which have never happened since we started dating.here is were my suspision started,d girl I introduced to his friend camE back and I went to see her on browsing through her fone I was suprise to see dat my guy and she do chat on whatsapp.they do talk mostly about everything I even got to find out dat he knew dat she was back before me he even know abt her project and he told her about all his ideas he is trying to develope when he comes to nigeria.i |
| Re: Am I Been Cheated On? by Nobody: 7:33am On Sep 21, 2013 |
Aww, you have been replaced like DVD remote batteries. 1 Like |
| Re: Am I Been Cheated On? by Nobody: 7:40am On Sep 21, 2013 |
Not that you have been replaced but pls don't give urself headache... Are u concerned that he has money and u don't want to loose him? Abeg free... He didn't tell u all these things and that's a sign that he is not really into you... You see someone once in a year and you guys Bleep? Right? So u expect a guy that bleeps to stay true to you not seeing u for... Well... Maybe 11 months in a year... Obirin go sha.... Hmm well that doesn't mean he won't marry u sha so all na just how wise and smart u are and all... Its always ur choice to bounce and or leave and or get answers... But anyway I like u sha... U can call me on 0815***** make we relate... On friends basis. ***winks*** Sexkillz how far naaw? 1 Like |
| Re: Am I Been Cheated On? by Nobody: 7:43am On Sep 21, 2013 |
^This is her first post and topic on Nairaland and you don dey like on friend basis dey drop number?  You must be discombobulated. |
| Re: Am I Been Cheated On? by Mynd44: 7:50am On Sep 21, 2013 |
Some guys are just silly....see him dropping number as if they asked him. Are you that puny starved? |
| Re: Am I Been Cheated On? by 190theclown: 7:53am On Sep 21, 2013 |
@tjololade: rotfl  Go son!! |
| Re: Am I Been Cheated On? by girlinmask: 7:56am On Sep 21, 2013 |
I was so surprise and hurt because he wuld disclose things abt himself like dat.he also do call her.I didn't say anything abt it to my girlfriend coz I was waiting for her to tell me abt it,but dat nite I went back to her fone to see wether it was really happening only to discovered dat she has deleted all conversation wit him and even his number from her fone thinking dat I have not seen it.I was so surprise dat my friend cldnt tell me dat she was talking to my guy on fone,she evn suggested dat we shld go to d country my guy is based for holidays.when I confronted my guy wit dis issue he told me dat he only called her to confirm abt goods he could bring in froM d Country she resides I was so hurt because I didn't see anything like bizness I asked him why he didn't tell me about it he cldnt give me a valid ans but said I shld let it go,I even found out dat he called my other friends whom i asked him to delete her number. |
| Re: Am I Been Cheated On? by Nobody: 8:00am On Sep 21, 2013 |
Girls are so much biitchy to eachother. A girl very close to me experienced some betrayal worse than what you're going through. SMH. Better stop hurting yourself and move on with your life. Abi na d craze for obodo oyibo make u never to quit d r'ship? |
| Re: Am I Been Cheated On? by girlinmask: 8:00am On Sep 21, 2013 |
Am jst wondering if my girlfriends and guY are to be trusted or should I confront my girlfriend? I hate qurelling because of a guy. |
| Re: Am I Been Cheated On? by Nobody: 8:02am On Sep 21, 2013 |
girlinmask: Am jst wondering if my girlfriends and guY are to be trusted or should I confront my girlfriend? I hate qurelling because of a guy.dump the both of them. If they value you, they must come back. 1 Like |
| Re: Am I Been Cheated On? by homesteady(m): 8:07am On Sep 21, 2013 |
I have seen many girls that have suffered this same type of case! And I gave all of them this advice - Pour acid on her body and run away! Moral of the story - Nobody has a monopoly of wickedness  |
| Re: Am I Been Cheated On? by girlinmask: 8:41am On Sep 21, 2013 |
@tjololade: |
| Re: Am I Been Cheated On? by girlinmask: 8:51am On Sep 21, 2013 |
I don't depend on him for anything,we even started dating when he was still in skool abroad,it wasn't d idea of him staying oversea dat drew me to him i just love him and all my friends know dat so am surprise at what is going on.he is still insisting dat he loves me but I can't trust him. |
| Re: Am I Been Cheated On? by sweettease(f): 9:03am On Sep 21, 2013 |
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| Re: Am I Been Cheated On? by sweettease(f): 9:03am On Sep 21, 2013 |
The fact dat she deleted their chat history and his number is proof enough that they are hiding somethng they don't want you to find out..... There is always a 1% chance at least that he isn't cheating but gal, work with the 99% and bail! 4yrs and counting no be beans. Do it wisely sha, don't make him blame you for the break-up and don't let a good guy pass you by cos you are waitn for him. @tjololade, seriously  Opportunist!  3 Likes |
| Re: Am I Been Cheated On? by Nobody: 9:16am On Sep 21, 2013 |
sexkillz: Aww, you have been replaced like DVD remote batteries. Heeeheee @op, 4get dt guy n throw ur friend awai.non can b trusted eva again.even if he changes,chances are dt hiz gona repeat d same circle wit anoda friend of urs whoze capable of stabin u at d bac. Last bullet: Ladies stop showin off ur men tu friends, u mostimes av enemies in friends clothings 1 Like |
| Re: Am I Been Cheated On? by overdrive(m): 9:20am On Sep 21, 2013 |
sexkillz: ^This is her first post and topic on Nairaland and you don dey like on friend basis dey drop number? September rush tinz,no dulling,first come first served basis. |
| Re: Am I Been Cheated On? by sweettease(f): 9:22am On Sep 21, 2013 |
thareta:Any man dat i can't show to my friends cos of fear of losing him should kiss my a** and forget about having a relationship with me cos he sure aint worth it! |
| Re: Am I Been Cheated On? by sweettease(f): 9:26am On Sep 21, 2013 |
overdrive:Lmao |
| Re: Am I Been Cheated On? by girlinmask: 9:41am On Sep 21, 2013 |
My dear sweet tease am fond of. Showing my guy off to my friends becAuse am proud of him anyway thanks for d advice and I still need more advice plz |
| Re: Am I Been Cheated On? by Nobody: 9:57am On Sep 21, 2013 |
sweet-tease: D point is y show off.itz aii dt dey knw him n gt tu meet him wen necesary.buh "d hey boo cum tk mi n my friends out ish."hey boo cum meet mi in labajaz house", "hey booo am cumin wiv labaja too see u" n den u constantli can't kip private talks private. Alwys jistin ur friends hw big ur boo is dashin out unnecesary talks dt shld remain btwn u,ur man only.all dis I consider as showin off. ofcoz we all want a guy we can trust 100% and truthfully dere are guyz who won't betray u.some wld even let u knw wat ur friends up to,jez lik dere are trusthworthy friends who wld let u knw first hand if ur guyz flirtish wiv dem buh hw about ur friend whoz wilin tu stab u at d bac? Or a guy who easili falls 4 temptations. Y create a temptation in d first place.my pick? I'd b cautious of everyone my man plus my friends till am sure I can trust. |
| Re: Am I Been Cheated On? by Nobody: 10:04am On Sep 21, 2013 |
girlinmask: I don't depend on him for anything,we even started dating when he was still in skool abroad,it wasn't d idea of him staying oversea dat drew me to him i just love him and all my friends know dat so am surprise at what is going on.he is still insisting dat he loves me but I can't trust him.Rule number1 in relationships is; don't introduce your girlfriends to your partner until your wedding day. 2; if at all your friends happen to meet your partner through you, don't give them the opportunity to get close or even exchange numbers or bbm pins. 3; its wise to call your friends by their nicknames when you all are in a conversation and also call your partner pet names so that your friends wouldn't be able to decipher his name. 4; have no close girlfriends (I'm talking from experience). Have social friends and be unpredictable to them. 5; your best friend in the entire universe should be yourself (keep your secrets and boyfriend to yourself). My 1st boyfriend went philandering with my then best friend I dumped his sorry behind and years later, he came begging me, he told me all that went down with the girl and how he left her. I simply shut the door in his face and told him to go to blazes. My dear, those two people aren't your friends or lovers. They see you as a fascinator, so dump them and enjoy your youth. One love. |
| Re: Am I Been Cheated On? by switdil(f): 10:19am On Sep 21, 2013 |
Play ur man lyk a football n watch another lady catch him like a goalkeeper, u ll regret watching d match Ladies!!! Stop introducing ur female friends to ur men Not even the ones that are fyner |
| Re: Am I Been Cheated On? by girlinmask: 10:20am On Sep 21, 2013 |
Thanks bella but should I ask her or should I let it go? |
| Re: Am I Been Cheated On? by sweettease(f): 10:27am On Sep 21, 2013 |
BellaDonaFema:Dat one don pass introduction now! Am not talking about flaunting your guy to your galfrnds, am talkn about the normal introduction. Some he-goats abuse dat and am saying any guy dat is too fragile to be introduced shuld hit the door. 1 Like |
| Re: Am I Been Cheated On? by Nobody: 10:50am On Sep 21, 2013 |
girlinmask: Thanks bella but should I ask her or should I let it go? You already have the evidence (the chats and messages), so don't press further. Dump that/those silly girlfriend and the pathetic guy and journey on to the next port of groove. Don't ask her or him anything. You re fortunate to have seen 1st hand evidence and not hearsay. Think of whatever get you through the day and indulge fully. Also, don't take that guy back, because he ll do worse if you let him. Cut down on the girlfriend babe, they re like poison. I ve many female friends, but I know when to draw the line. They can't really say they know me, neither can they predict my next move. My friends are those I do business with and those I worship with or those I socialise with. Nothing more. Cheers 1 Like |
| Re: Am I Been Cheated On? by Nobody: 10:59am On Sep 21, 2013 |
sweet-tease:I smell naivety. How would you know what the guy is capable of from the onset, when most men masquerade, likewise women! Pray not to fall prey! You just cat be too wise my darling |
| Re: Am I Been Cheated On? by swtme(f): 10:59am On Sep 21, 2013 |
Plssssssssss dump d both of them,don't give them audience or explanation cos u wud make them feel important. You shouldn't be disappointed that u found out now u should even be happy, wot of if u were married before u discovered..... |
| Re: Am I Been Cheated On? by 190theclown: 11:02am On Sep 21, 2013 |
sweet-tease: da fuq |
| Re: Am I Been Cheated On? by ashmanpolo: 11:12am On Sep 21, 2013 |
Everybody is just saying DUMP, DUMP, DUMP. Do y'all know what it means to leave a guy you truly love? Unless she doesn't love him |
| Re: Am I Been Cheated On? by Iaz93: 11:32am On Sep 21, 2013 |
ashmanpolo: Everybody is just saying DUMP, DUMP, DUMP. Do y'all know what it means to leave a guy you truly love? Unless she doesn't love himNo mind them... |
| Re: Am I Been Cheated On? by MrsChima(f): 11:36am On Sep 21, 2013 |
Yes and a big dummy at that. |
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