pls my dear, break up this relationship. There are lots of warning signs, pls don't ignore them.
Never go on a journey with your heart and forget your brains at home.
Its either you feel this pain of heartbreak now, or you feel it in the future, cos its bound to happen. So choose!
Enough said!!!

Ammmmmy! He lives with u, u pay d bills and he constantly treats u like a nobody? Come on gal, come on!!!! Pack his shyte up and toss it through the window. He's no good. I mean no gooooooooood!

vivianc: pls my dear, break up this relationship. There are lots of warning signs, pls don't ignore them.
Never go on a journey with your heart and forget your brains at home.
Its either you feel this pain of heartbreak now, or you feel it in the future, cos its bound to happen. So choose!
Enough said!!!

Gbam!

Kirinwa: Babe you guys have sex once a week and he says you want sex too much.As a matter of fact you think you satisfy him and yet he self services.That means your relationship is not built on trust and honesty.Obviously his libido is high and he's active.Bottomline you don't satisfy him but that's beside my point.You don't owe him sex or even harbouring him.He doesn't love you.

Am sad. Why? Because after all this he will dump you.Quit this affair.
Baby what if you get pregnant for him.You think he will marry you? You are with a stranger.You don't know him.He even fits the profile of a cultist from your description.Quit now before something bad happens.Hmm!

Did you stole this thought from my mind? Spot on. Infact that guy is not ordinary, I smell a lot of foul play on his part his description fits a very dangerous personality. I will advice you to quit but watch your back. Pls be very very careful I fear about the level of your safety.

That guy is more dangerous than you think. Don't just quit, he will fight back. Who knows you may be dating a very dangerous marksman/ cultist. I'd rather you figured things out yourself. My advise is handle him with care and NEVER hurt his ego. You don enter one chance. Pele

He leaves at night and returns in d morning. Hmmm! Armed robber, cultist, assassin... I could go on and on

OP
Ur guy GHOST
Run

i doubt there will be a future here. it just sounds like u r just there for bills nothing else. ask him to move out and have a normal relationship coz this gona end in tears and they will not be his . REMEMBER that even if u meet his ppl its still does not guarantee anything

Kirinwa: Babe you guys have sex once a week and he says you want sex too much.As a matter of fact you think you satisfy him and yet he self services.That means your relationship is not built on trust and honesty.Obviously his libido is high and he's active.Bottomline you don't satisfy him but that's beside my point.You don't owe him sex or even harbouring him.He doesn't love you.

Am sad. Why? Because after all this he will dump you.Quit this affair.
Baby what if you get pregnant for him.You think he will marry you? You are with a stranger.You don't know him.He even fits the profile of a cultist from your description.Quit now before something bad happens.Hmm!

......you have said it all danger looms...how I wish OP can use her head @ this point and leave this dangerous psyche

First of all, paying ALL the bills is not advisable. There's no way this man after you heart cannot chip in some money to pay off some few bills from his pocket. Its weird.

Secondly, if that he doesn't want you to meet his parents yet, I'll understand, but even his FRIENDS?. And his so-called friends don't wanna meet you too?. C'mon, read between the lines baby gurl, he's up to something. People keep things even from their wives but this right here is too much. It's more than him not liking to show you off to his friends. And he goes out in the night mostly without taking you along most(if not all the time) of the times?. Something is wrong ammyng. Relationships can NEVER thrive on secrecy. Call him, sit his azz down and try to find out the various "whys". If he can't say it, then he's has an ulterior motive. His online attitude hurts you too and he went to a great extent to delete his family members from his FB list just to make sure you don't get in contact with them and other hidden secret behind it. Sis, this is a one-sided relationship. You can keep hurting in a relationship that's meant to give you joy.

You co-habit with him and yet he masturbatess more than the natural sex times you guys should have?. He makes love to you once in week and wankss the rest of the days!. There's definitely a huge problem somewhere. If you guys lived apart, it will be understandable, but wankingg when you aint far, when he can just get down with you any day and any time he wants is serious problem. Preferring his hands to the real juicy ish is plain weird.

My opinion?. Call him and talk with him, if he can't give you cogent reasons/answers as to why he keeps blocking you off his life, then end the relationship because if you don't know the reasons, you will keep getting hurt and the relationship will still end someday unless he comes clean

if he is used to going out at nights, den he is either cultis or a witch....u had better run 4 ur lyf nw or soonest u're b use either 4 ritual or 4 suya

Thanks everyone, I appreciate it.

Ammyng: Thanks everyone, I appreciate it.

Where did you bury the body?

dik11: Ask him questions and get answers. Let him see a psychologist cos something is missing

+1

Ammyng:

I just don't know what to think.

So stop thinking..