Why are you asking us question

Na you wey get the time.

Na you wey go know whether you dey waste am o.

I think you have to give yourself a proper time to try and investigate the issue of having another woman, try and confirm for yourself at the right way but don't believe in the kind of sms try and see it physically before taking any action dear sister and i hope that can help you a lot.

timmfikk:

I think you have to give yourself a proper time to try and investigate the issue of having another woman, try and confirm for yourself at the right way but don't believe in the kind of sms try and see it physically before taking any action dear sister and i hope that can help you a lot.

Thank you for that. I have given myself a timeframe based on some things we have discussed as a couple. On the upside, I have gotten a dialogue going with him to establish where we are going. Based on the outcome of that I will move on or stay put. I have also tackled the issue of the other woman-whatever is happeneing if anything, she is there, he is here with me. But the most important thing for me is to establish whether we have a future or not becasue if there is then its worth my while confronting the other woman issue-if not I go my way, Whatever happens, I have learned how to appreciate and make fantastic egusi and pounded yam, and my pepper soup!!!!! I always get compliments!

i would throw his trifling behind away. Girl you are worth way more than what he is giving to you. i mean come on now, he obviously doesnt have the word "faithful and commitment" in his vocabulary. you should try to work things out but if the situation just seems to grow more unbareable pack your things and leave. strangley this reminds me of the poem i posted up. "The Confessions of a Love Slave"

u know already lest u wont have posted this post wit the title.''AM I WASTIN MY TIME WIT THIS GUY'' u see u already hve the answer if only u put the letter I before the am and dont forget to rmove the question mark

I personally believe you are, but talk to him, this doesn't mean you should give him a chance to lie to you. Talk to him, tell him your honest issues, and then if it's just stupid excuses I'd advise you to leave. He is romancing other women, yet he want to carry his baby! There is ONLY one way to tell if a woman can get pregnant, doesn't he trust your word, you don't have any health problems and are not carrying anything are you, then you should be a typical woman who is able to bare children. This man is just not appreciating your lovely self , Why do I say you're lovely, because you are giving him the benefit of doubt by even posting this topic, how many people will actually tell you to stay with him,

Do what you think is right.

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