Is dis normal or dia is more to this?

Probably because the fiancee/girlfriend is ugly!!!

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Exactly!

Some arent presentable

sadly many men are dating women for other reason than attraction/love.....
[b]- some women are solely use as temporary toto (aka cuum dump) until the right princess is found, simply because going to ashis is not ideal and very expensive. their look is NOT important so long as they have great bodies, and thats why many may not be presentable.

- some women are side totos, and therefore men CANNOT be seen in public (official outing) with these women.

- some women are great in private (one on one) but the minute they are in a crowd, they become a nuisance or act in strange ways..... and although we love them, we sometimes rather go out alone.

- many men would rather have their WOMAN separated from where they go and chill.......thats simply because that place is the safe zone where they go when they try to get AWAY from their woman. it would be silly to bring that woman to this "peaceful" environment.

- not all people about to marry, do so for love. many today marry for the wrong reason, like peer pressure, family pressure, social pressure or religious pressure......so these people may have absolutely no care or love (let alone fancy) for that partner of theirs.[/b]