Am a 24year old handsome guy who recently graduated from a Nigerian university. I've been having this problem for long. None of my relationships has lasted for long. In fact, the longest relationship I have had lasted for only 3 months. I now find it difficult to make moves, I don't wanna break anyone's heart because on most of these occasions I've been the one that calls it quit. What do you think is my problem? I need advice!

Why do you quit?

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@op were u born in march

I tink u should work on ur ego Mr "I'm too handsome". U'll find the solution there

If the right girl comes
The relationship would last
Just take your time

what is handsome abt ur pix?
mtecheeew.
na ur fault and i hop ur nt the saucy and corkey type cos gurls detest that.
meanwhile,go mke them wash your head for u

The word "handsome" has been bastardised.

demelza: The word "handsome" has been bastardised.

seems you didn't see the guy's picture, that is the reason you said so!

To be very sincere with you, the guy almost look handsome in his profile picture!

OP, you need to lower you ego. That is where the problem lies.

Maybe you are destined to be a Reverend Father

QUESTION: My Relationships Don't Last Beyond 3 Months. What Could Be Wrong?
ANSWER: you (aka the common denominator)!

Stp emphasising on dat word "handsome"u aren't lukin bad either,mayb u jst aven't met miss ryt

Emmalaw it will interest U̶̲̥̅̊ †̥ knw dat I knw U̶̲̥̅̊ personally. Ÿ̲̣̣̣̥ø̲̣̣̥u̶̲̥̅̊ just graduated 4rm a Uni in southern niaja(U̶̲̥̅̊ were a Gbulemite) and U̶̲̥̅̊ 're on ur way †̥ d NLS.
M̶̲̥̅γ̲̣̣̥ advise for U̶̲̥̅̊ is †̥ remove ur pic 4rm ur profile & as for ur post: ur being handsome is nt a yardstick 4 d longevity of ur relationship. I suggest U̶̲̥̅̊ invest more time in ur relationships and condsidering d fact dat we live in dis part of d world, Money will go a long way in sustaining ur relationships

Tolexander: seems you didn't see the guy's picture, that is the reason you said so!

To be very sincere with you, the guy almost look handsome in his profile picture!

Thank Zeus you said "almost". He is cute no doubt but handsome?
Nah!

make money first then you can have a stedy and healthy relationship, nobody want to date ur handsomenes

bros,ur problem lies within u.Firstly,i ll start by askn u hw many sister's do u hv?secondry,do u hv a human hrt dt luv cn germinate?if u dnt,u beta start wrkn hrd on hw to improve ur situation because you ll get married soon.lastly,maybe u are too harsh,u dnt pet girls ,maybe u dnt value her,maybe u tell lies much,maybe u present yourself to be wt u r nt,whta am i saying dude,d problem lies within u.tnx

@ 24,all u could boast of is ur inability to stay with women!I smell gay all around u bro!Denrele will help u

Thanks to those that offered advice. Those complaining about my ego you need to see or meet people that know me well, ask about me. I think I've just been unlucky.

Nothing wrong wit u,some school relatnshps last for dat long, roughly d equivalent of one semester, dats when u go on holiday nd d person stops shacking u

No you haven't been unlucky. The problem has a lot to do with the way you carry and talk about yourself. Reorganise your priorities and have a clearly defined goal for yourself. Its not just by being a fine boy that you land yourself a good woman. Like attracts like. For crying out loud, you just finished school so there's still so much to achieve.

Hope this helps.

didicold: Nothing wrong wit u,some school relatnshps last for dat long, roughly d equivalent of one semester, dats when u go on holiday nd d person stops shacking u

... I think you made a bit sense here. Thanks

Bibol: No you haven't been unlucky. The problem has a lot to do with the way you carry and talk about yourself. Reorganise your priorities and have a clearly defined goal for yourself. Its not just by being a fine boy that you land yourself a good woman. Like attracts like. For crying out loud, you just finished school so there's still so much to achieve.

Hope this helps.

. Hope So too. Thanks

It's not all about being handsome. Work on ur ego man. Afterall, woorwoor people dey marry.

obo389:
what is handsome abt ur pix?
mtecheeew.
na ur fault and i hop ur nt the saucy and corkey type cos gurls detest that.
meanwhile,go mke them wash your head for u

Stop being economical with the truth, dude's handsome

Perhaps you think you are God’s gift to women

Perhaps you think you will always be in high demand since you are such an essential commodity

Perhaps you have a phobia for making commitments that span >= 93 days

Whatever the problem may be, I will advise you do the following in no specific order:
1) Get off your high horse. You aren’t the most handsome and cuteness or whatever is directly dependent on age so as you grow older you are more likely to become less attractive
2) Focus this wasted energy of yours on getting a good job. A hard working man is more likely to attract a girl that will cope with your excess
3) Boy, drop the arrogance and embrace humility. It will help you in the long run

Err...had the problem in the past. I guess it's because you get bored of girls easily and you're the type who prefers being around your friends than women. Or perhaps girls are the last thing on your mind since getting girls was a tad bit easy for me back then.

You just need to break that barrier and force yourself to stay with a chic for more than 3months and try to experience the good side of relationships. If you can do that, then it will help a lot in your subsequent relationships. You need to start now, else, you would be mentally messed up on the long run. Relationships, like everything else, require experience. So you need to start now and learn as much as you can.

Trust me, even with me, I'm still in a confused state about relationships. But I'm still learning. And sometimes, I regret not starting early. Well, that's the price you pay for not starting early and thinking you're better than you actually are.

shymexx: Err...had the problem in the past. I guess it's because you get bored of girls easily and you're the type who prefers being around your friends than women. Or perhaps girls are the last thing on your mind since getting girls was a tad bit easy for me back then.

You just need to break that barrier and force yourself to stay with a chic for more than 3months and try to experience the good side of relationships. If you can do that, then it will help a lot in your subsequent relationships. You need to start now, else, you would be mentally messed up on the long run. Relationships, like everything else, require experience. So you need to start now and learn as much as you can.

Trust me, even with me, I'm still in a confused state about relationships. But I'm still learning. And sometimes, I regret not starting early. Well, that's the price you pay for not starting early and thinking you're better than you actually are.

. True talk

first, why do u break up wit them.remove that idea of u being handsome,if u tell a girl dat she would tell u dat dey r so many handsome men around. just check hw u treat ladies.

The only thing all the relationships have in common is YOU

zeb04: @op were u born in march

what is that suppose to mean? That march babies don't last in relationships?